posted September 14, 2009 05:37 AM         

Of course, the average person put beside someone who drives them wild is going to be at their peak of hotness and most likely will offer their best performances. We can take that as given. Synastry will give clues.

Then there is the astrological factor of the whole chart. Mars will make different aspects on charts and so change the flavour of the sign, but this could still be interesting.

My sign? Mars in Aqua. Like I said elsewhere, this is a detached placement that tends to have less of a need for feeling in the mood than other signs. Being Aqua, put ten of us together you will get different variations, before you even factor in other aspects. There's every chance of being experimental, and there's every chance of being take-it-or-leave-it. We just aren't as likely to get emotional about the whold thing as other signs. But it will depend on the chart, of course.

For other aspects on my chart you have Mars hitting just about everything. He's Trine the Sun and Uranus. There is plenty of drive. He's Square the Ascendant and Venus. There is plenty of passion. He's also in the 3rd house and Square Mercury. He likes variation and amusement. He is Sesquisquare Moon/Pluto and has something dangerously volcanic lurking below the surface.

No Saturn contacts. Interesting then that I married a Sun/Saturn person whose Saturn is exactly on my Mars. He is also Virgo Rising. Quality control, something Mars in Aqua might need (thought not all of us, I mean sometimes). He is older than me with plenty of experience in the world, etc, we have had lots of fun over the years.

posted September 14, 2009 08:21 AM         

Mars in Scorp.. I have never really known how high my sex drive is seeing as every partner I've had has always harrassed me for it lol..

In saying that my last partner had a lower sex drive than me, and I found out that I do actually need it in a relationship .. but from a more emotional / bonding connection, rather than as just an act. But if it's been too long, then.. um.. its more than just an emotional thing.

Other placements prob help too...
MARS - conj MC, oppose Sun, square ASC

posted September 14, 2009 09:45 AM         

I am moderately aggressive, but only when I really want something. When I really want something, I get it.

posted September 14, 2009 10:17 AM         

like gentle lover, not too aggressive or selfish. Its a partnership.

posted September 14, 2009 01:01 PM         

Once upon a time there was a Scorpio w/ Mars in Aqua who was proving quite tricky. I succeeded by sending the following message;

posted September 14, 2009 01:35 PM         

Mars in Aquarius in 6th disposits my Sun,Mercury,Venus in Scorpio.
ummmm......not sure how that has to do with my sexuality.....maybe high but erratic. A flower essence/gemstone report said that. Interracial sex. I am not really into experimenting. I did have a few one night stands back when I was in the navy. I wasn't attracted to them. It was more about my just wanting to fit in with the guys in the navy.. I wasn't being my true self.

conjunct Moon in Pisces in 6th - 7'17 (5'23 in Right Ascension) emotional state affects my sex drive, emotionally into sex, nurturing

square Venus in Scorpio in 3rd - 4'06 orb - affectionate,romantic......can't have sex without love,romance

Aspects to Mars in Right Ascension (Equatorial Longitude, astronomers use it to locate objects):

trine Sun - 4'01 - vitality,energetic,expressive

square Saturn - 4'35 - restrictions,discipline, structure am not one to sleep around

square Neptune - 1'01 - idealism,spirituality........I need a spiritual connection with a woman in order to have sex with her

oppose Makemake - '59 - need a deep metaphysical connection to have sex, the urge to have sex to have children
It's a transneptunian dwarf planet named after Rapanui fertility/creation god.

I have a t-square of Mars square Saturn-Neptune opposition which indicates the possibility of anxiety,fears,health problems as well as medications affecting my sex drive,low sex drive, self denial, ascetism, being monk-like

I have a t-square of Neptune square Mars-Makemake opposition which indicates the possibility of reproductive problems, need to be spiritually motivated to have sex

The t-squares could also indicate the sensory integration, coordination problems of my Dyspraxia (means difficulty with Praxis aka Planning) that affect my ability to have sexual intercourse.

I also have high estrogen levels and lower than average testosterone levels,and that could factor into my sex drive.

Aspects to Mars in Declinations (Equatorial Latitude Latitude, astronomers use it to locate objects):

Mars parallel Eris - '47 (Mars conjunct Eris - 2'31 in declination longitude equivalent chart)
could indicate needing a deep metaphysical connection as well as interracial sex......the diversity. That could fit with being controversial. It could also be sex-hormonal divergence in regards to my high estrogen,lower than average testosterone levels.
I have retrograde Eris in Aries in 8th.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted September 14, 2009 02:57 PM         

I was talking about in regards to unconventional and controversial

also...I was born from an interracial relationship between a black man and white woman myself. Therefore, I didn't come from a conservative family.

There are still a lot of people that are against interracial sex,relationships.

interracial marriages aren't even 10 percent of marriages in the United States. black and white interracial marriages are less than 2 percent of marriages in the United States.

There are many people that view interracial sex,relationships as experimenting or being rebellious.

there is still a lot of racial prejudice. It's just more subtle.
Especially in the older generations.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted September 14, 2009 04:47 PM         

On the low side, though, which I find ironic as I seem much less prudish and more inclined to shrug off the messes left behind than those who are much more obsessed with sex than I am (I figure life is messy, either deal with it or get use to cringing a lot). Not at all aggressive about it.

posted September 14, 2009 05:02 PM         

im usually either into some more aggressive/rough energetic action, other times i prefer sensual and slow.

i think my fantasies are more arien/uranian themed, role plays are an interest to me but iv never done them.

my mars is in virgo [no low sex drive here!], in the 2nd house. sextile pluto/trine- saturn/neptune. it tightly quincunx's my moon too, sincem my moon is in aries, i think its relevant especially.

venus [in libr] wide conjunc merc, square uranus/saturn/jup, opp moon. in the 3rd.

moon [in aries] [vice versa aspects with venus] in the 9th.

asc/dsc leo/aqua.

i think these aspects/houses/placements are the culprits lol.

i think the ASC and aspects to it could also be indicators about some ones sexual nature (it is ruled by mars after all)

posted September 14, 2009 06:13 PM         

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"