posted January 31, 2010 02:02 AM         

My Gem Merc is square Pisces Mars. I like to roleplay... nothing crazy, but it's more of fantasy making with the Cancer. He's Gemini Venus (square my Mars/conj Merc), and Cancer Mars. We get along fabulously! (You know... when we aren't fighting... but the make-up nooky is sometimes the best!)

Mars is also conj NN. That's keys more into work though... I'm very work oriented and often find myself attracted to co-workers or meeting my mates while on the job.

posted January 31, 2010 05:09 AM         

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That is interesting about Mars in Sag? What about Sun and Venus in Sag. Is it the same way with touch and smells?

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posted January 31, 2010 10:35 AM         

My Mars aspects Pluto (as does my Sun) and Neptune which has probably had a big impact..

Anything sexual doesn't bother me, just as long as its all kept private and discreet and behind closed doors cos there's a time & place (Cancer coming out again) and the fantasy and illusion that comes with sex is fun if you know how to pull back from it and not get caught up. Being an ex exotic dancer, i love getting dressed up in old-school glamour burlesque style, a la Dita Von Teese..

posted January 31, 2010 12:48 PM         

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. But like a typical Gemini, once I've had someone I'm bored with them and flit off the next one and am always looking for that constant stimulation.

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What about if you're in love? Does this interfere with your relationships?-- love them but become bored nevertheless?

posted January 31, 2010 01:10 PM         

In my younger, teenage years I was more of a cancer, i had 2 long-term adult relationships where i completely compromised myself and sense of identity along with many other things so my Aries Asc said, 'EFF that woman!! You gotta be kidding if you think your gonna be like that in your 20s!" and thus began my journey to becoming whole again, at 24. The lovers I've had along the way have all been an experience in themselves as they usually are a part of myself, as we are all mirrors of each other

All this introspection and figuring out who i am was necessary to do before I ever jump into another relationship cos I wont do it again if there are power struggles, abuse, unfair circumstances etc etc and I just haven't met anyone to gives me that, "butterflies in the tummy" feeling but when i do meet that person, that's it..its all over and i think, i feel, i breathe them and everything i do, i do for them. No other person even compares and like i mentioned before, sex usually has no pleasure for me (no orgasm, nothing) unless there's those feelings of trust & respect & being at one with someone..that's when fireworks fly for me. But single sex?? meh, its all about the chase

Oh yes, i am the personification of Celine Dion's Power of Love or Mariah Carey's My All lol

posted January 31, 2010 01:18 PM         

All's I gotta say is you have plenty of time until you complicate your life with the headf**k that sex is and all that comes with it. Playing grown up games is fun but that was my problem when i was your age (Mars in Cancer too here)..hold onto your innocence for as long as you can, seriously until you come across that person that is worthy of something so sacred.

Sorry to get all "big sister" on you and to lecture you, my 15yr old sister cops this from me ALL the time.

posted January 31, 2010 02:15 PM         

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they actually live in Gemini's house so like a typical gem, im in either 2 states...single and playing Sex & the City or committed and completely and utterly devoted.

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Me too, I'm Gemini Rising of course

Idk, like I said before (I think? I'm not sure if I replied to this thread before, I'm too lazy to go back lol) I'm too young to know EXACTLY what I like. I'm almost 22, and have been sexually active for about 4 years (lost it when I was 17*) but I've never orgasmed with another person before (I've orgasmed by myself of course). All I know is that I'm never in the mood if I feel dirty. The best time to get me is right when I've gotten out of the shower lol. My Mars is in my 6th in Sagittarius.

posted January 31, 2010 07:54 PM         

It is very fitting for me. I think Venus in Cancer tones down my aggressive side quite a bit so it is not quite as obvious, but romance has always been important to me. I am attracted to aggressive personalities - mostly Aries and Leo sun people. It is a huge turn off when people aren't direct and honest. Sensitivity is also very important to me though, because Venus in Cancer can cause oversensitivity sometimes, but Leo helps balance that tendency out.

posted February 01, 2010 12:08 AM         

Pre-relationship, I was always able to have "sex like a man"...no attachment, always the aggressor. I have Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Aries and I think that's fitting...cautious with emotions but high sex-drive. I never had a relationship because I was never interested in anyone beyond sex. I have my Moon/Asc both in Cancer so I was guarded emotionally because when I give my heart I'm going to do it 100%. Then I met my boyfriend...a very intense Aries Sun-Taurus Asc/Venus/Mars with a deep, throaty voice who stood so close to me when we spoke that first night. He's the only man who ever made me nervous. He is the definition of an alpha-male and I was so attracted to him and he pursued me in such a passionate, forceful way I had no choice but to fall victim to him We've been together 5 years and he is my soulmate.

posted February 01, 2010 06:51 AM         

Aries Ascendant, Mars conj Venus in Taurus.

The Strong and Sprightly Spring Sign combination of Aries-Taurus appears to cast a spell on Water Sign ladies.