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Topic: Venus signs and the way they attract
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letram
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posted October 15, 2009 04:58 PM
  
thanks again for the replies, further insight helped on some of those nine.IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted October 15, 2009 05:34 PM
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thanks again for the replies, further insight helped on some of those nine.
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GeminiFront
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posted October 15, 2009 06:19 PM
It's all about being on the same vibe. You might think earth/water venus are not obvious, but the same can be said for fire/air venus. If you're on the same vibe with someone, you see their attractiveness. Otherwise it goes right by you. Someone who likes sweet and sensual might be attracted to a Taurus Venus without words being said. On the other hand, the many words by a Gemini Venus for example wouldn't even display the right intention. "What? You mean by talking my ears off, you were trying to attract me?"  Just an example. No blame is meant here. This is coming from a Venus Gem. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 15, 2009 07:11 PM
hi letram, wasnt going by venus ruling taurus/libra - just what ive noticed. and i was thinking of adding something earlier, but i hastened and i'll add it now, which is i think we pick up on the elements that we have a lot of experience with and are better with thus making more sense of them. this should make sense to you  and so im gonna assume youre a heavy air/fire person? correct me if wrong!IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 07:20 PM
i have prominent fire placements, quite a bit of earth, and some air theme.i lack water in my chart, although the watery planets water down some of my firey placements. i understand and agree with what you're both saying, (gemini front/L) but i still deep down think according to my perception, that some of these like Capricorn venus especially, just don't flirt, no excuses. IP: Logged |
matt
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posted October 15, 2009 07:27 PM
Absolute nonsense, I have cappy venus and I am full on. IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 07:33 PM
cool, how do you go about doing it?that is the point of this topic Matty. IP: Logged |
matt
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posted October 15, 2009 07:35 PM
Maybe its my pluto squaring venus or scorp mars conjunct pluto? Ok sunshine?IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 07:38 PM
oh sorry, you must have missed the sign on the door as you came into the topic.it was about how these venus signs go about attracting interests through flirting. besides, why you telling me what aspects you have to your venus, we ain't talking about your venus aspects in this topic, alright sonny jim? Lol trying to come into my topic trying to drop some attitude. IP: Logged |
matt
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posted October 15, 2009 07:40 PM
HAHAHAH! you asked, so I told you. Silly boy.IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 07:43 PM
i never asked you what aspects you had to your venus, you can't read can you?silly boy? look who's talking.
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oceaneyes9
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posted October 15, 2009 07:53 PM
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scrappydog
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posted October 15, 2009 08:19 PM
But Why just ask about the sign and not the aspects?? The aspects and house position are going to completely modify the sign so noones going to be the same.IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 08:24 PM
i don't oppose talking about how aspects modify a venus and how it may act out.i just opposed how matt was mentioning aspects but giving no insight into anything. IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 15, 2009 09:48 PM
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some of these like Capricorn venus especially, just don't flirt, no excuses.
Thank you for noticing!  My Venus is in Cap. In my view, I flirt only when I'm certain I want a real relationship with someone. I say "in my view" because others have perceived me as flirting when I really wasn't. I'll get to that later. When I do flirt, basically what I do is let someone know that they please me and that they have the power to please me even more. I'm specific about how they've already pleased me: "Thank you for being there for me;" "I can always count on you to make me laugh;" appreciatively look him up and down but when done just say something tame like "I love your hair like that." And I'm direct about what else they could do to please me: "Take me someplace special to you;" "Kiss me;" give him my number and say, "I'd love to talk to you more." I also flirt simply by encouraging sexual feelings. I'll give a dirty smile, hold eye contact longer than is friendly , lean in closer than necessary so that my breath tickles his skin when we're talking, wear clothes that show more skin than I usually do on days when I'll be with him. There are many specifics, but essentially what I do is on the inside I surrender to wanting him, so on the outside, I never run away from any moments that can show him how I feel. But I do all that only when I already know that I want a relationship with someone. And I've felt that way about just a few men in my life. So I really haven't flirted with many men. Far more than flirting, my Cap Venus has been focused on NOT flirting. For the most part, I don't make eye contact when I'm out because I don't want to invite any attention. If I feel like a relationship is taking on a sexual/romantic tone, my usual m.o. is to become super aloof. I react like that if I'm getting an attracted vibe from a man I'm just meeting. If it's someone I've already known for a while, usually instead of going cold, I become excessively silly. In my mind silly doesn't equal sexy, so by being a goofball, I feel like I'm sending out the vibe that it's just a sibling type of bond I want. So I really don't feel like a flirt because for the most part I RUN from that energy and try to redirect it to platonic ground. I only invite a man's sexual energy when I really, truly want to know that side of him. I don't know if I'm a typical Cap Venus in that way, but if I am, I'd say a good test to see if one is interested is to give out an interested vibe yourself and see how she reacts. If she goes cold or uses humor to change the subject, she's not interested at that moment in hooking up. What's ironic is that for someone who actively doesn't flirt, I've often been perceived as flirting. And I think that's because I'm a warm person socially: Leo Moon in the 10th, Venus in my 3rd house and part of a grand trine. I like to have warm, fun relationships. That's just the way I like to exist in the world. And I'm not a passive person. I don't sit around waiting for someone else to provide that social atmosphere. I treat people in a warm way in order to create that kind of life. Also, I love to see people light up, to see them happy in their own skin. To me, this kind of relating isn't sexy. It's about fun and non-sexual love. That's my view, but many others see this as flirting and I understand their pov. So when I'm meeting someone, if I sense that he's attracted I hold out from showing this side of myself until I feel like it's safe to be myself without any misunderstandings. IP: Logged |
Cheshire Kat
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posted October 15, 2009 09:56 PM
Well it's always been sort of hard for me to see how Venuses attract because of the Rising,Moon and Mars.Like for example my friend as a Leo Sun and Aries Moon(double the fire) but as a Virgo Mars, Rising, and Venus. I wouldn't say she goes unnoticed because she as a certain natural flair to her, that draws people in. She's kind of shy about talking to guys she likes because she thinks she will be rejected, she's very hard(semi-critical) on herself. She really just likes to date guy friends vs. dating a stranger because it makes communication easier. Also I've noticed when she really liked some guy, she would like to talk to him for hours on end and would make things for the guy. ******************************************* Venus in Capricorn, has a Cardinal energy to it so I do not think it is so indirect, but not so brash like a Fire Venus or detached in the way a Air Venus would come across. I think Venus in Capricorn likes to be the cool-headed provider, like I can see my guy friend want to provide everything for his girlfriend, like what he DOES for her is how he shows he loves her, if that makes sense X_X;;.
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Unmoved
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posted October 15, 2009 10:26 PM
I am Virgo Venus, but I highly doubt that my Venus expresses how I flirt or how I show interest. I think my Venus kicks in when I am secure that my love interest and I are vibing, because...I am incredibly direct (Mars in Scorpio in 1st). I don't think I have ever wanted someone and had them confused about it, unless they are in denial. This is because I am not coy. I want a person to know my intentions from the start, so that we can get to the bits I like. If I am attracted to you: Generally:
I pay attention to you more than is normal
I incorporate you into my life by getting personal Specifically:
-I will call you, email you, and maintain regular contact.
-I will touch you and let my hands linger
-I will look at you intensely
-I will compliment you honestly and basically make it clear that I find you attractive.
-I will tell you my secrets
-I will try to isolate you "ALONE TIME" not to fool around but to make it clear that I am focused on you, especially if we met with a bunch of people.
-I will play with words suggestively, by speaking in double entendre at first so as not to scare you, but once I am sure of you, I am the type to tell it like it is.
-I will invite you to come out with me and my friends to test how well you mesh with them and to show you off. Basically there is NO WAY that you can miss my intentions, but I account this to My Scorpio AC conj Jupiter. The AC/Jupiter conjunction is trine my Venus, and so I am very comfortable with my sexuality I believe that life is short so I like to get the ball rollin'. Then... when we are together after I have "reeled you in", then my Venus in Virgo kicks in and I start doing the Virgo thing of anticipating your wishes, doing things for you, etc. Prior to that, it is all about making sure that you never use the words, "I didn't know you liked me that way". sup Jane  IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 16, 2009 12:09 AM
Hello, Unmoved. Your heart pleases me. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted October 16, 2009 12:28 AM
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I highly doubt that my Venus expresses how I flirt or how I show interest.
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Mannequin
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posted October 16, 2009 10:36 AM
i have venus in Scorpio conjuct pluto. how i attract is loads of intense eye contact, even if for a couple of seconds, asking them personal questions, staying close with them, physically, emotionally, mentally. although, i'm never the first one to approach them. they have to show interest either by talking to me or acknowledging me, otherwise as much as i may be enticed by them, i do not act.i notice that i have this 6th sense, i know when someone is into me. many, many times have i had someone looking at me, and by instinct, no matter where they are looking at me from, i catch them out and make eye contact, in which sometimes it lingers, or sometimes they look away, surprised. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted October 16, 2009 01:25 PM
If Venus doesn't indicate how you act to attract then what does? Certainly it isn't Mars, as he represent a different principle. Mars is separation/boundaries. Venus is a feminine, social, bonding (relationship) principle.When someone strikes your fancy, or one of their planets aspects your Venus, how does she behave? Not mars, the Sun, Moon or whatever else. Venus. As she is the one called upon. This is the question presented here. Eg: If you have Venus in Cancer, a placement with distinct characteristics, but act like an Aries when your Venus in conjunct by Mars/Sun then... 1. Astrology is bogus
2. We don't know bleep about Astrology
3. Some people enjoy going against the grain IP: Logged |
katatonic
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posted October 16, 2009 04:39 PM
if it were that simple there would be no need for a thread/question like this!but the fact is that a leo with venus in virgo will approach relationships/ the other sex in different ways than a leo with venus in leo or cancer... so maybe it is the question that is too simple...? IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted October 16, 2009 05:10 PM
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if it were that simple there would be no need for a thread/question like this!
It should be that simple. Different Venus signs express themselves differently. But how?, that's the quesstion. quote:
but the fact is that a leo with venus in virgo will approach relationships/ the other sex in different ways than a leo with venus in leo or cancer...
We're in agreement here. quote:
so maybe it is the question that is too simple...?
So what you're saying is you understand the questing presented. IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted October 17, 2009 12:21 PM
I have venus in leo and if i want to attract someone ill stand out somehow, Something comes over me where my energy fills the room and i glow LOL Ok seriously ummm i think i would make eye contact (ONCE) but i never make the first move. It doesnt matter if brad pitt is in the same room i will never approach him because he must approach me and when he does im very bubbly type who loves to laugh and talk. I am not and CANNOT be attracted to someone who isnt attracted to me. For some reason all my emotions and feelings can shut down and dissapear. If i already know the person i want.. Then i love the f*** him with my eyes approach or vice versa .. ------------------
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letram
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posted October 17, 2009 12:23 PM
"I am not and CANNOT be attracted to someone who isnt attracted to me. "hahaha! IP: Logged |
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