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posted November 08, 2009 08:57 PM         

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This is a karmic relationship. Not a guarantor of happiness. Had you both been 15-20 years older prior to meeting, this relationship would have been a bed of roses with very few thorns.

For youngsters, the Sun opp Saturn in the composite is a sadness inducer.

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IQ, why is Sun opp Saturn better for an older couple? Wouldn't it have the same effect of Saturn raining on the Sun's parade?

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posted November 09, 2009 12:13 AM         

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Yeah, comica you're right... that's probably what it is... I have been worrying a LOT about everything... even more so than usual...

Well that's great that you see eachother on the weekends! Do you live together but never see each other during the week or do you just visit each other on those days?

Yeah, Diandra, that's really beautiful... my guy pays attention to little things like that too... he has very simple needs... he asks for very little... but a lot of people say that we're nauseatingly cute together.... lol we have our own language...

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posted November 09, 2009 06:46 AM         

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seems we all three have similar experiences

yup - that is the couple´s intimacy,that special one which others dont really understand.

it is only natural that each couple has a language of their own in the relationship.it is an healthy thing

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posted November 09, 2009 08:04 AM         

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Hmm I can't say that we live together yet, as we both live with our own families, but I stay at his home during the weekends. ^_^ We rarely meet during the week now, since we spend the weekend together now, which is practically half of the week together anyways. X3

Talking about our own languages.. me and my bf also have our own language. X3 Funny is, people might think that we are crazy if they hear us talking that way!

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posted November 10, 2009 11:52 AM         

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haha comica! Yes, same here!!

I really don't remember how we came up with it lol... this is going to sound very strange but we use different animal sounds... like first it started out as grunts... then we added in squirrels and pretty much the entire animal kingdom... very weird I know... but we're so comfortable with eachother we can do anything silly like that and we know that the other won't judge us... apart from that we just make up our own words to mean different things... yes people usually think we're crazy if they hear it lol

That's so interesting that we all three have that with our bf's... maybe you're right, Diandra... maybe it's just every healthy relationship...

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posted November 10, 2009 12:08 PM         

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lolol me and my bf also does silly animal sounds and have a vocabulary of invented words of our own! X3 Usually, I try not to let anyone else see me like that, as I don't want to look childish or crazy (my Virgo AC would never allow it lol), but sometimes I just lose myself and end up being seen by someone else. >_<;

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posted November 10, 2009 12:53 PM         

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the animal sound looks really cute

me and my bf doenst have those lind of languages,it is only a sort of eye contact and telephaty.

everybody knows we´re a couple when we are in the same room,even if we are in one corner away.

when his brother presented her gf for the 1st time,me and J.had only been couple for 3 months,but later that night she and some friends were shocked cause they thought we were a couple for at least 4 or 5 years..hihi

it is all in the intimacy of the couple!

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posted November 10, 2009 04:21 PM         

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This is so true, Diandra! Well it sounds like you and your bf have a very powerful connection... we do that too although to a lesser extent...

I think every relationship has a different "flavor"... for instance yours sounds like it's very deep and intense... like you can just cut the tension when you two are in the room with a knife (good tension, I mean ) mine is deep and intense as well but it has more of a "playful" flavor... my Aries Venus really enjoys that... we're very childish and immature together lol but it's a lot of fun b/c we know that no one else would let us act that way... we're both VERY weird... and he always told me that no one else thought that it was cute or endearing... most of the time the girls he dated were just freaked out by him...

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posted November 10, 2009 05:04 PM         

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we have a saying here that says

every pot has its own cover...

you ve found yours on each other!

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posted November 11, 2009 06:51 PM         

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Haha that's a really cute saying, Diandra!! I like it

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