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Topic: Moon Opp Venus - will realtionships ever be easy for me?
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Agent_009 Knowflake Posts: 149 From: LA & Vancity Registered: May 2009
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posted January 05, 2010 04:36 AM
[I see ppl with Libra rising n other good aspects, they have no issues in social relationships at all. Ppl r eating out of their hands n they don't even hv to try.]Jacque, all I can say is...becareful for what you wish for. I'm a Libra-rising, and frankly it's brought me more bad than good esp when it comes to work/personal relationships. I dont know how old you are...but yeah Libra-rising has it's fun moments (HS/univ) until you enter the career workforce. Imagine if 90% of the Bosses you work for proposition you with sex. I'm speaking from personal experience. I've been fired or laid off soon after I reject their advances, or they treat me like sh*t until I just quit. I've been fired over this very reason ohhh...about 5x already. Yes I could probably get ahead at super speed if I just slept my way to the top. Friends of mine who started out in the same position as me, slowly & steadily climbed the ranks...whereas I'm always demoted back to square-1 cuz of this. I cant even file for sexual harassment cuz this happens way too often! I dont have the money nor time to sue. Grass is always greener on the otherside, be grateful for what you do have...or rather dont have to deal with. IP: Logged |
jacque Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 05, 2010 06:10 AM
Agent_009, I know someone with a Libra rising n Venus in Scorpio ., needless to say they're making the most of sleeping their way to the top. They say that no one has ever propositioned them. Unfortunately, I know otherwise. I admire you sticking to ur morals & resisting. And I see what you're saying. Thank you for your post. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 423 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted January 05, 2010 06:17 AM
Jacque - I think your best, most flowing, relationships will be those where one or several of his personal planets (sun/moon/mercury/venus/mars or his asc).. bridge your Moon-Venus opposition.Your opposition is in Capricorn/Cancer.. The bridging signs are Taurus (trine Capricorn, sextile Cancer). Virgo (trine Capricorn, sextile Cancer. Scorpio (sextile Capricorn, trine Cancer). Pisces (sextile Capricorn, trine Cancer). If X has TWO bridging planets like a Virgo with Scorpio placements.. or a Pisces/Taurus.. that's even more helpful! Squares can bridge as well (in your case Libra & Aries), but that would create more tension for you. IP: Logged |
jacque Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 05, 2010 06:32 AM
Agent_009, I understand if it's created problems for you at work but how is it bad for your personal relationships? You'd be able to get whoever you want with this aspect, yes? Wudn't that improve your personal relationships rather than harm them? IP: Logged |
jacque Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 05, 2010 06:34 AM
thanks vaporlash IP: Logged |
Agent_009 Knowflake Posts: 149 From: LA & Vancity Registered: May 2009
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posted January 06, 2010 12:42 AM
Jacque,your original post was about being emotionally unfulfilled, & not understood. I have Moon square: Venus, Jupiter, Pluto. NOBODY understands me...and I've come to accept that, (although it'd be nice to be understood sometimes). Being able to get anyone you want, doesnt mean those people would ever be able to "understand," you. Infact, you just end up attracting all the shallow people who would NEVER ever get you. All I get is negative attention from men, to the point I dont trust men. My 2 best guyfriends are both gay. Now when it comes to family, (I dont have sisters) but I have 2 bros. It sounds ridiculous saying this but, my BRO is always jealous of me...complaining how everyone always pays me more attention, or how I get anything I want etc. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 21 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 07, 2010 07:34 PM
Will relationships ever be easy for you? No. Will you ever feel totally loved and over this? Probably not. (Yes, I have it.)I think the thing you need to learn is that you can't look to other people to make you feel happy and secure. You have to do it for yourself. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Orlando FL USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 07, 2010 08:35 PM
I am Libra rising.If I did not have b/f's who loved me I would have died. I was molested by my own mother. My b/f's have been all the mothering I have known. They will be all the mothering I will ever know. God graced me with looks that attract men BUT would you want my mother? This is a real question. Love to you sweet friend. xxxoo Ami AnnIP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Orlando FL USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 07, 2010 08:52 PM
I was afraid all the time that my mother would do sexual things to me. I am taking music lessons--guitar and voice. One day, I started sobbing b/c I hold my body tight all the time against my mother even now. The chart shows our blessings and our hard, hard things. I have to believe that a good God is behind all the aspects. It must be. (((Jaque))))IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Orlando FL USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 07, 2010 08:52 PM
I was afraid all the time that my mother would do sexual things to me. I am taking music lessons--guitar and voice. One day, I started sobbing b/c I hold my body tight all the time against my mother even now. The chart shows our blessings and our hard, hard things. I have to believe that a good God is behind all the aspects. It must be. (((Jaque))))IP: Logged |
MsCandeh Knowflake Posts: 392 From: Australia Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 07, 2010 09:12 PM
jacqueRemember that nobody is perfect And that at the end of the day you want to BE happy... but if means denying a part of who you are to get a relationship to work comfortably, then you won't really be happy?? That's why I was saying before.. you may need to set your own boundaries and test it with people around you (nothing that will cause irreversible damage) and compromise.. you will be happiest when you realise that you need to be yourself and that not everyone will understand or be accepting of that but LOTS of people out there will They will be drawn to you once you understand this at a fundamental level. It's about working out who you are, and what you will put up with or won't. It won't happen overnight but it will happen. A lot of it is about developing conciousness of your actions and the reactions they create around you. ("For every action there is a re-action"). Sorry if I don't make as much sense, very tired today! :P Let me know if you want me to clarify anything. MsC xx IP: Logged |