posted February 01, 2010 09:17 AM            

natal - natal under 2 degrees (permanent dynamics):

Your Sun conjunct his DESC
Your Moon conjunct his Sun exact. WOW and isn`t it on the Lusty-sabian?
Your Venus conjunct his Sun exact.
(Your Mars trine his Pluto
Your DESC trine his Sun
(Your ASC square his Pluto)

Progressions:

Your pr Moon trine his Moon
Your pr Venus was slowly approaching a conjunction to his pr Mars!

(Your pr ASC square his Sun - this was still out of orb, but would have become significant over some time, resulting in serious personality-clashes)

(your pr ASC Square his pr Saturn - a nasty one, as he would control and suppress your personality - of course SAturn can also be positive, but rarely in a square aspect like this)

(his pr Saturn was also approaching a conjunction to your natal Moon-Venus - that sounds to me VERY restrictive and controlling and maybe even worse, degrading)

posted February 01, 2010 09:26 AM            

We were all over each other. We just couldn't get enough of each other; it was INSANE. Then the arguments started; his temper is really really bad. so bad and he would grab my arm till it hurt and almost bleed.
Now it has turned to hatred. He hates me and i resent him because he is continuing to try and ruin my life. scorpio AC is very revengeful.
I don't think he will ever stop actively hating me. I don't think he's over our marriage actually.
He used to disagree with everything i said too. He was very cruel to me and funnily enough, even though the attraction was WOW our sex wasn't that great

posted February 01, 2010 03:19 PM            

that is really a sad and upsetting story.
But it made you stronger, when you walked away, as you can see now. You won`t take any kind of crap from anyone.

"even though the attraction was WOW our sex wasn't that great"
Interesting that you say that. Cause I was wondering about your progressed Venus-Mars-conjunction.
I checked some years forwards and it seems that it never actually became exact. So it was pretty close, but not close enough. And I was wondering how this would express. I was thinking maybe you would feel a pull / attraction towards each other, but somehow the fulfillment / satisfaction would elude you.

You know what I mean?

BTW I just have seen "Sherlock Holmes" in the cinema. It was the first time I saw anything with Jude, after having seen him on stage. It was a weird feeling actually.

posted February 01, 2010 03:34 PM            

You are right, it was a sad and upsetting story. I spent 5 years of a 6 year marriage living in fear of him and his violent outbursts. Being typically taurean, i stayed for my kids and i slowly became a 10th of who i am as a person.

The interesting thing is though, that when you hit rock bottom emotionally, mentally and physically then something happens and you find this amazing strength to get out.

He was so cruel though. I remember a year before i left and i got pregnant. I told him that although i was anti-abortion i wouldn't have his baby. It was caught early on so i did the pill abortion. You go to the clinic and take this pill then find someone to drive you home and you go through it at home. Well i had to ask my neighbor to take me to the clinic and i basically went through it alone whilst my husband went to work. He didn't even phone me to see if i was ok, and i had a complication and almost bled to death. I was at home with 2 and 4 year old sons.

When he came home he expected life to continue as normal. I looked whiter than snow but i couldn't rest because i had the 2 boys to look after. He didn't lift a finger. I will never forget that and also another time when we moved house and i was 8 months pregnant with a 15 month old son and i had to pack up the entire house on my own. He never even helped me pack one single box. So yeah, he will never be my friend and i truly believe my sons are better off without his cruelty in their lives.

posted February 01, 2010 04:02 PM            

He took the vows 'to have and to hold' a little too seriously and literally strangled the life out of me and I was his prisoner.

Actually he did try to strangle me once - I woke up to his hands round my neck and both my kids were in my bed with me. I had already left him at this point bit he moved back into the house until our divorce came through.

posted February 04, 2010 10:46 AM            

For me Laras exhusbands behaviour not looks like astrology. A healthy person in a strong conflict chart/progr/SA/Synastri and so on will never make the life to anyone on that way....

A healthy person listening to what other people wan't and never get to wreck or ruin nobodys life.

That can't be an excuse to get a manner like laras husband and than lay the responsibility on the N chart...

posted February 04, 2010 10:58 AM            

exactly.

posted December 19, 2011 01:55 AM            

My progressed moon exact conjunct his asc
My sun conjunct his progressed asc tight
His pr moon conjunct my ic tight
My sun conjunct his pr mars and my mars conjunct his pr sun
His pr venus conjunct my desc very tight and loosely to my mars.
his pr mercury conjunct my moon and venus tight and also conjunct my mercury
His pr moon conjunct my jupiter tight

I never knew progressed charts worked?