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posted February 27, 2010 11:44 PM         

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WHAT?

lol

Amowls, where did i say that she should have been intimate with him earlier?

"qualifying someone" does not mean that at all!!!!
It means, asking questions and getting to the real motive behind all the sweet charming talk. It's figuring out who they are and what they are about.

!!!!! WTF is your issue here?

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posted February 27, 2010 11:47 PM         

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"Really it is clear that she was dumped because he didn't like being yelled at. Aquarians don't like to spend mental energy on high emotions"..
@ Amowls,Well said!
He wasnt about sex..He said that I could take my time and I was planning on giving it up soon..lol

He was waiting on me to say sory that Friday morning he called to see how I slept after our fight the night before...
He was distant and cold.
The SAD AND PATHETIC THING IS IF HE CALLS ME I WOULD PROBABLY TAKE HIM BACK...
ITS LIKE A HIGH...WEIRD.

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posted February 27, 2010 11:52 PM         

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Yep, its like that saying by a certain late Movie star: "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you certainly don't deserve me at my best."

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I like that quote, too! Very good, in fact.
It sums it up perfectly what I said, too. He can't handle you obviously so find someone who can understand your passion. You two really weren't on the same level, so crossed wires can add up to a lot of hurt emotion.

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posted February 27, 2010 11:56 PM         

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The SAD AND PATHETIC THING IS IF HE CALLS ME I WOULD PROBABLY TAKE HIM BACK...
ITS LIKE A HIGH...WEIRD.

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Is someone in it for the drama

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posted February 28, 2010 12:04 AM         

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bunny boilers

yikes

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posted February 28, 2010 05:08 AM         

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Lara that's kinda harsh...

We all have to go through the wrong ways of relating and the wrong kinds of relationships before we find our way. We've all been there...

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posted February 28, 2010 05:23 AM         

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"Aquarians don't like to spend mental energy on high emotions."

As someone raised by Aquas and living with one, I can assure you that most do not flinch from it. This is a misconception, at least from the ones I know. You can get emotional on them if you give a LOGICAL reason for it.
And I tend to see quite a few highly emotional Aquas. The ones I know cry at the drop of a hat. And I know *quite* a few.
I don't buy that detached crap. Just a bunch of softies, the lot of you are

I don't go by sun signs though. I think it's BS. Plus no chart is going to tell you if you're dealing with a douchebag. It's just not realistic.

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posted February 28, 2010 05:47 AM         

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Orphan;

For me It is interesting to know a very emotional type aqua man (look at my topics)
He was very very emotional.In our case ; he cared love,emotions etc,he does not leave me alone 1 hour,he eat lunch with me rutin never eat someone else..So You can sure;there are some emotional type aquas..Also They can be very very romantic..But As I did not in love with him;it was really irritating and sad,because when people in love ( which sign is not important) they can be different creautures..
Orphan ;
Beginning of relation you can understand your and his frequency(level,intensity) nearly..You are a smart girl,so analyse and see where you are;where he is ...Try to see as yourself as if his eyes..If you dont like this,go away girl and find the true love..
I became a drama girl,when this aqua man entered my life and it exhausted me,it is not important for which side is in more love,it hurts 2 sides also,but of course one side is more..Now you think are you in which side...

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posted February 28, 2010 07:43 PM         

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Im trying to move on..Its now been a week since I last spoke to him...Moving on..I just wish that I could stop thinking about him...New Moon New thoughts..

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posted February 28, 2010 08:18 PM         

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I mean just because you dont like it doesnt mean that you dont do it. I dont like high emotions but obviously i have them. I try to avoid them but of course im not a robot and emotions are unavoidable. Plus drama is highly subjective.

And sorry lara i took it to mean sex. I still stand by what i said about whether sex is an issue or not.

Lol sorry if im being too vague and not using nouns, im on my phone

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posted February 28, 2010 08:25 PM         

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It's cool Amowls, and thanks. I'm sorry if i got all dragon fiery about it.

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posted February 28, 2010 09:31 PM         

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HELLLOOOO ITs about ME.
You two are too cute...Glad that you made up..Its a NEw MOON & NEW Understanding...

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posted March 01, 2010 12:36 AM         

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Full moon

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posted March 16, 2010 03:30 AM         

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Ok its been almost a month since I last spoke to him..I'm just devastated at his actions.He hasn't called nor emailed:text..I'm sad. I just can't let it go.I apologized for screaming and told him that I missed his friendship.My God what else can I do or say?
I really liked him.I'm at the point that I don't even care that I look like a desperate fool.I call left messages..emailed.Y is this Aquarius making me pay for sins I haven't done?

We never made love or kiss..

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posted March 16, 2010 03:40 AM         

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Aquarius - love them.

They are everywhere in my life. I have lived with one for 17 years. He is often away working. Like I am going to complain about that, he is earning money for his family.

My Sun? Gemini. Significantly it is in a Grand Trine with Aqua Mars and Uranus. My Moon is heading into a Conjunction with Uranus. Of course I love the Aquas!

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posted March 16, 2010 01:43 PM         

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No answer on the email I sent him last night.Nor did he return the call.I left a really sweet message..OMG
Why do I care so much for him?

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posted March 16, 2010 02:25 PM         

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The multiple messages may be counter-productive. Giving him a bit of space might work better.

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posted March 16, 2010 02:49 PM         

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i'm going to go with blue moon on this one.
as an aggressive pursuer myself history has taught me that men must chase. Over activity on our part is lived as "need" which isn't appreciated at the beginning. I'd give space. If he's interested he'll be in touch - in his time.

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posted March 16, 2010 03:03 PM         

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I'm in agreement with blue moon and ekf, Orphan.

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posted March 16, 2010 10:27 PM         

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If you can't fight with someone, screw up, say the wrong thing ,apologize, have him screw up, apologize etc--it won't work.
Everyone acts like a jerk at times.
Many relationships die as they transition from the dating self to the real self with it's flaws and insecurities.
We all have them.
Some people flee when the other person has less than perfect moments and traits.

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Ami, that was one of the most insightful and real things I have read about relationships in a long time. :up:

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posted March 16, 2010 10:33 PM         

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As someone raised by Aquas and living with one, I can assure you that most do not flinch from it. This is a misconception, at least from the ones I know. You can get emotional on them if you give a LOGICAL reason for it.
And I tend to see quite a few highly emotional Aquas. The ones I know cry at the drop of a hat. And I know *quite* a few.
I don't buy that detached crap. Just a bunch of softies, the lot of you are

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MyVirgoMask, I agree about the LOGICAL REASON thing. also, the Aqua men I have known will cry at the drop of a hat while watching a movie about the plight of humanity or aliens. But they have a harder time crying over real people in their lives.

I think it's because Aqua are water bearer and while they carry and pour water down, but the water does not touch them.

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posted March 16, 2010 10:37 PM         

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Orphan, let it go. You have yelled at him and disrespected him quite early in the relationship, and that was a deal breaker, especially for Aqua.

Now you're compounding the issue by continuing to chase him even though he is ignoring you. I can assure you that by now, he is completely repulsed by you.

Never mind him, he is just a symbol of something greater. What is happening to your moon and Venus right now? Are they experiencing a square or opposition from Uranus or Neptune or Pluto? That would make you obsessive about the wrong person.

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posted March 16, 2010 11:23 PM         

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Hey Belage, I think I may be one of the privileged who've seen Aquas cry over people... and I am actually stunned at how deep it can go. Maybe because I was raised by them ...I dunno.
I do think you're right about the emotion mainly not getting to them, and I think they try to hide it well. Also, I know they are very private - their emotional lives are kept to themselves for the most part and they do not flaunt their feelings in public.

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posted March 16, 2010 11:25 PM         

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Orphan, I'm in agreement with the others here on letting it go, at least for now. Let some time pass and then in another few weeks, if you still feel this way, then deal with it with more clear perspective.

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posted March 17, 2010 02:15 AM         

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RT: Now you're compounding the issue by continuing to chase him even though he is ignoring you. I can assure you that by now, he is completely repulsed by you<<<<<....WOW ok!

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