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Topic: Aquarius Men
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vapor-lash
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posted March 17, 2010 02:23 AM
 
oh do what you like Orphan..We don't know him. I don't know him. You know best. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted March 17, 2010 02:33 AM
& I really have no clue what is up with this guy.. but the average Aquarian will go to hell and back to stay friends.So I'm not sure when he will contact you again, but if he did consider you a friend before this -- eventually he probably will. You haven't posted his chart here. That could change things I guess. Whatever it is in him that is making him behave in such a stand-offish manner it is not connected to his Aquarius Sun or to any other air-sign placement he has... His behaviour is very anti-Aquarius. For a transpersonal sign person to fail to understand that everyone has emotional outbursts.. and to be so affected by this incident that he is no longer speaking to you at all.. I mean - it sounds like someone who is very personal and easily wounded or angered. Does he have personal-sign placements? (Aries-Taurus-Cancer) - not including Gemini because I'm taking air-signs out of that equation lol IP: Logged |
Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 19, 2010 03:38 AM
I dont know much about his chart..
DOB:Feb.5,1973Im feeling better...Moving on day by day...
The weird thing about him is when we would have our long talks he would make me promise not to break his heart...Strange! Just Strange... IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted March 22, 2010 04:47 PM
I just saw this reply Orphan..
Is it possible he lied about something - like his looks or his age, or whatever else - and was scared to meet you?Because the way he behaved towards you (completely cutting off all contact).. and the fact that this began when you guys were about to meet - makes me suspicious. quote:
One day he calls to check on me to see if im ok then not a word.
I flew to florida to meet him and he stood me up at the airport.
Wouldnt answer my calls or text..I took a cab home.He said to his friends that I disrespected him..That I knew he wasnt coming to the airpoirt..
I mean *really* taking the drama and the arguments out of this.. and just looking at the facts of what happened. You actually spent time and money to fly from NY to Florida and he was meant to meet you and was a NO SHOW! And apparently you disrespected him?!! ^_- Is this guy smoking something? I am very reluctant to believe that a person with (I had a look at his chart) basically ALL transpersonal signs.. would be SO taken aback by an argument. He must've seen more in his life.. He must've been through worse, than this little argument you had.. seriously! I think he used the argument to have a reason not to see you. Plus - he even instigated, because you said he made an inappropriate joke to you..
So perhaps he was trying to get an argument going - so that he does not look like the bad guy when he doesn't meet you. He has a Pisces Moon and on the dark side of that - Pisces is great at being evasive and lying their way out of a situation they find uncomfortable. These friends you mentioned (the people he told you disrespected him)... are they friends you both KNOW offline.. or "friends" that you've both chatted to? IP: Logged |
Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 28, 2010 04:59 PM
I met this fool on Dec.31 @ a party.
Then we met again on jan.15
We belong to the same non-profit organization...So he saw me way back when..,Yes like you said..Maybe he just got scared and decided not to see me..Oh well.Its been 6 weeks.
Im moving on..The pain isnt as bad as it was.Im getting better and better.
His lost.
God has a plan for me.
Im curious to know y he called friday morning after our argument to see how I was.Then the next day was a no-show at the airport...Oh well...
No more Aquarius for moi  IP: Logged |
Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 26, 2010 06:03 PM
Ok So I got a text from him today..It was a generic text saying that life is short and that u never know what you have till its gone...bla bla bla
He called the forward :LIFE
3 Things in life that once gone,never come back...bla bla blaAnyway,I saw that and lost it..After 3 months of no word,no calls no email his going to send that BS? I replied asking him to REMOVE MY NUMBER FROM HIS PHONE AND TO STOP SENDING ME THOSE STUPID TEXT..
WOW That felt sooo good.
All this time, i was hurt now that i finally moved on he comes back with sime BS Text on LIFE? LOSER
Im Over you boy!
HIS REPLY: NO PROBLEM
Im glad that im over him..But im now mad that his back on my mind...dang
Just when i moved on and forgot about him... IP: Logged |
metalbabe5000
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From: London
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 26, 2010 06:15 PM
Ah I seem to get along aquariouses nicely sometimes cos I have a heavy sagittarius influence in my chart / or when their sun conjuncts my 3rd house. However aquarians generally annoy me, they can be so aloof, erratic, too independent, hardly romantic, lack compassion and don't like anything wishy washy. I am a cancer (sag asc, moon sag) and I find it hard sometimes to get along with them. I personally find them really boring IP: Logged |
venus in gemini
Knowflake Posts: 568
From: Florida
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 26, 2010 06:21 PM
They always come back during Mercury Retrograde......IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 508
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 26, 2010 08:35 PM
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They always come back during Mercury Retrograde......
Quoted for truth. IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 26, 2010 09:09 PM
June 13th is my mother's birthday.Feb 5th is the birthday of an English nanny that I was in love with 12 years ago. ------------------
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GrlyGirl20
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 26, 2010 09:54 PM
"So I'm not sure when he will contact you again, but if he did consider you a friend before this -- eventually he probably will"What if he didn't consider you a friend, and seems resistant to actually being your friend. And doesn't make any effort to actually be your friend. And only saw you as gf material. IP: Logged |
Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 27, 2010 12:11 AM
They always come back during Mercury Retrograde..???
OK now what? Will he ever be man enuf to speak,or will he take my text,and go away again...As i said I told him to "REmove my number and stop texting me."
Lord why is he soooo pathetic?IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1264
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 27, 2010 12:31 AM
I don't see how he's pathetic. He probably mass texted you, and you sent him back a spiteful text and he responded the way most people who have moved on from a 2 week relationship would respond. I would react the same way (but then again I'm an Aquarius).You should move on. It's not worth the time you're expending thinking about him. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted April 27, 2010 12:40 AM
Well if he had a double agenda in mass texting *that* in particular.. "you don't realize what you have until it is gone" etc... Then it would've been better to ignore the message and see what he does next? Because if it was done with a double agenda then - if you did not reply - he'd start sending more things and eventually texting you personally. But because you replied and you were also very clear in the reply - saying you DO NOT want him to text you.. I think it is safe to say he won't now. So I agree with amowls - move on! IP: Logged |
Diana
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Registered: May 2009
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posted April 27, 2010 01:39 AM
Yeah, he's most likely done for good now.
A pseudo-relationship with just talking/ im's etc, or a short getting to know you dating period with most signs usually doesn't end with the person wanting to be friends. It's just not enough time to really care about someone, no matter what was said -- if something ends early, it's usually done, because you don't really care about the person deeply. It's also why he could end it with you so abruptly and totally because of one incident. In the early dating process, yelling at someone in that manner is a deal breaker.
Not putting you at fault here, just explaining aqua male, since I am an aqua female. We care about friendships, but not when we've only dated someone for a very short time.
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MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2768
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 27, 2010 01:53 AM
I don't get the whole Aqua thing. I'd have the same experience of wtf and I'm not an Aqua.
Relationship based on texts and mixed messages and who the hell knows what. Neither party seems to really know if they want the other by the looks of it. Why the hell don't people just pick up the damn phone anymore and just TALK lol. All this texting BS. As if there weren't already things to decipher from simple communication, now we're going to just text after some weird yelling incident and wonder why there's communication problems?! IP: Logged |
LanaofAugust
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posted April 27, 2010 04:23 AM
I so agree.IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 27, 2010 11:52 AM
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Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 27, 2010 03:10 PM
Moving on...I thank you all for the honesty and wisdom during my heartache.
I know that everything happens for a reason..Im moving on with my life!
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Writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 1288
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 27, 2010 05:37 PM
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If you want a romantic relationship, treat it as a friendship. If you want to move-in, he is your roommate. If you want a marriage, threat it as a dating relationship. Don't do anything conventional with this sign.Beware the mean streak. The cold streak. The lazy streak. The funky streak. And of course, the loner streak. There is also a pronounced moody streak.
lmao
so true. IP: Logged |
Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 17, 2010 11:16 PM
His Backkkkkkkkkkk
Ok remember how I got the text a few months saying" You never know what you got until its gone" and you ALL thought it was a random text?
Anyway Yesterday,after 5 months of not speaking to me and hurting he text me then called 4 times....
What does he want? He ask me why I was mad? Not even how are you? Im so sorry for ignoring you for 5 months and leaving you at the airport and hurting you.It was whats up,why you mad@ me I think ur better then that? Anyway,I want to know after all these months why is he suddenly back,weird and slow? I told him to delete my number last time.He didnt and now texting and calling as if nothing is wrong....
No,I dont want him back..Im over it..
could Aquarius men be that pathetic?
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teasel
Knowflake Posts: 1095
From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2010 11:22 PM
Anyone can be that pathetic, if they're feeling that lonely, or genuinely missing someone. I hate it when they act as though they did nothing wrong, though - I experienced that with a Taurus, just recently (two different times in the past month). Unbelievable. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted June 17, 2010 11:29 PM
That seems to be a very male problem.  Its like: how you gonna call me up and act like you don't remember the reason I haven't spoken to you in a year?IP: Logged |
Orphan
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: ny,ny usa
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 17, 2010 11:29 PM
To be honest if he would of called and said im sory ,im a fool..
Please lets talk I would of respected that.But he called and text asking why Im mad? As if I saw him last week.Its been 5 months..
What a waste of a man.He is slow and pathetic....Since I didnt answer any of his calls today his last text to me today was...HI SEXY'
I didnt reply...wowIP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 1095
From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2010 11:35 PM
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That seems to be a very male problem. Its like: how you gonna call me up and act like you don't remember the reason I haven't spoken to you in a year?
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