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Topic: revenge on an Aqua Man
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changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 12:51 PM
I can kill this man.We know each other for 2 years and 6 months ago he told me he is in love with me for 1,5 years.Such a typial aqua behaviour,platonic firstly..he is married with someone else..i felt like as if i am horrible movie..we had dramatic events.he can not leave from his wife becuse he is infertile and he cares moral and ehic things very much..he is very selfish because i don t have feelings to him..he is very jeaolus i am tired because of his abnormal behaviour..time when i dont his care,i like him but when i learned such a big feelings i lost myself..becuse he has also hard times..he went to therapy and he still have sleeping problems..we are not good each other..when he said his love to me he is reliefed but now i am on stress..and we argue everyday.we can not solve this problem and now i can kill this man.how can i came this point..i want hurt him..yes,of course i am scorpio girl.. can you look at out synatr. Mine: 19 nov 1980 bingol turkey hour:08:45 his: 24 Jan 1971 ankara turkey hour:12 pm(dont know birth time) thanks.. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3032 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 01:24 PM
put sugar or coca cola in his petrol tank! hehe IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 01:34 PM
Lara you are great..something must be big..IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3032 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 01:55 PM
It will blow his engine up lolI've never done it mind you IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2485 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:02 PM
Why not just cut him out of your life for good like a cancerous tumor being cut? The more you hang out with him,the more emotional issues you could have because of him. You don't need that negativity. You're much better off with another man. Raymond
------------------ "Nothing matters absolutely; the truth is it only matters relatively" - Eckhart Tolle IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:09 PM
Glaucus because we see each other everyday in job.he is my manager ( I thought the give up the job,but i will get a promotion in next month and why i have to goo...he is very selfish,he said his love and now i am in stress..i hate his behaviour now..IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3032 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:16 PM
OH.Never mix business with pleasure.. a lesson we all have to learn IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:18 PM
quote: Put sugar or coca cola in his petrol tank!
This is something I have seriously considered in the last month. Does that make me a bad person LOL? Chang--I feel your pain. Everyone thinks Aquas are so unfeeling and indifferent but they love drama just as much as any other sign. Mine (my ex) and I have been emotionally torturing each other quite a bit lately. The best revenge is to let him think you don't care. ------------------ My Chart IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3032 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:20 PM
you can just pour coca cola all over the bonnet.. takes the paint off i hear IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:25 PM
Starof venus girl ; when i dont care him he begins games and make some troubles,when i begin the fight he behave normally..it is true you said..Lara;really good idea but his car can be seen everybody in park area ) IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:25 PM
Lara--he has a very nice car that is his pride and joy. But alas, if I did anything to his precious car, he would know it was me. Or at least suspect if it was something as obvious as a ruined paint job. No can do. The sugar in the gas tank could just be "car trouble" though I'm surprised at you LOL! I had no idea you were so good at plotting revenge haha. I thought all that Aries would make it easy for you to let live and let go. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3032 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:33 PM
hahaha i can live and let go but being a taurus sun i have loads of SCORPIO friends hahaha IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:37 PM
Lara as for many libras in my chart it makes me conscience IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 1272 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:49 PM
Scorpio and aqua do not mix. You will never win because we don't care enough. No matter what revenge you pull, we will be fine. Sorry..but you should just give up. It's also true that we can get to like the strife of it all.
A quote comes to mind: "Before you set out to do revenge, dig two graves." I paraphrased but you get the idea. Your best bet is for you to just not care and find a way to move on, because that is how you will win. This is true for any sign. Otherwise, have fun in jail and being unemployed.
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changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 02:57 PM
Diana ; You are right.but his selfishness makes me crazy..and he is the most jealous person i have get to know and he is aqua,this is intersting(may be his moon in 8 house..) when i dont care him and communicate other persons he spoiled my relations..as if i am aqua and he is scorpio..i have to give him a lesson..IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:01 PM
Diana,That is true of any two fixed signs. Throw some Taurus and Leo in the mix and things get really ugly. With Aquas, it really comes down to friendship. They hate to lose the friendship. All Aquas secretly fear being disliked. They don't understand why you can't still be friends afterwards. "Why don't you like meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?" is the mental torture they go through (Aries has a similar hangup) And Scorpio has a scorched earth policy about breakups. There's usually no such thing as being friends afterwards LOL, not unless you're dealing with a very evolved Scorpio...at least not without some time and distance. So you're right, it's not a good mix. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 1272 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:03 PM
He's basically my twin. I'm not jealous though...what sign is his moon?I understand you're mad, but before you get him back you need to think about yourself. If you do something to get him back, you will be harming yourself, your spirit, your karma. If you could just tell him, logically, why you feel how you do and how he's acting, maybe he would see and would stop...
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changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:07 PM
i dont love him,so because of his wrong behaviours now i am confused.this is injustice...and he only watches my saddness..i know he has big pain also,but not enough..also this man very saggy type in chart and very 7 house..you can look at his chart..IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:08 PM
Diana,That is excellent advice. I finally told my ex all the things he had done to hurt me the other day and although he got very defensive at first, he did eventually come back with something that was not quite an apology but he did say he understood where I was coming from and said he was glad I got it all off my chest. Then he tried to talk to me, which I shut down cold. I'm not ready to talk to him yet and that wasn't me trying to open up a dialogue. I get the feeling that he thinks all he has to do is be charming and just be in my presence and all will be forgiven and that really annoys me so I keep him at a distance. But some of the behaviors he was doing that were still hurting me, he has stopped doing since then. So it was helpful. You have given me a lot of insight into the Aqua mind but I still think the female is a little different from the male LOL. I wish there were more male Aquas around here to talk to. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 1272 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:08 PM
Starr,You're right. I really think it's the fixed nature that causes it to be so war-like. Both are very strong and stubborn. There needs to be a middle ground that's reached, but both are too busy battling that they never get to that point. For scorpios, you need to appeal to their emotions. For aquas, you need to appeal to their common sense -- it needs to make sense, but emotions rarely do, so they both have one another in a stranglehold. IP: Logged |
pire Knowflake Posts: 1261 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:09 PM
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changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:11 PM
Diana he is very very jealous..take a look at.. for S (male)
born on 24 Jan 1971 local time 12:00 noon in Ankara, TUR U.T. 10:00 32e52, 39n56 sid. time 20:23:46
Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion Sun Aquarius 3°45'54 in house 10 direct Moon Sagittarius 29°41'01 in house 8 direct Mercury Capricorn 10°13'43 end of house 8 direct Venus Sagittarius 16°57'16 in house 7 direct Mars Sagittarius 0°51'04 in house 7 direct Jupiter Sagittarius 1°37'57 in house 7 direct Saturn Taurus 15°44'34 in house 12 stationary (D) Uranus Libra 13°32'51 in house 6 retrograde Neptune Sagittarius 2°37'19 in house 7 direct Pluto Virgo 29°34'04 in house 5 retrograde True Node Aquarius 23°43'33 in house 10 retrograde Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Taurus 25°05'00 2nd House Gemini 20°43'13 3rd House Cancer 11°49'15 Imum Coeli Leo 3°37'43 5th House Virgo 0°41'34 6th House Libra 8°31'33 Descendant Scorpio 25°05'00 8th House Sagittarius 20°43'13 9th House Capricorn 11°49'15 Medium Coeli Aquarius 3°37'43 11th House Pisces 0°41'34 12th House Aries 8°31'33 Major aspectsSun Sextile Mars 2°55 Sun Sextile Jupiter 2°08 Sun Sextile Neptune 1°09 Sun Trine Pluto 4°12 Moon Square Pluto 0°07 Mercury Trine Saturn 5°31 Mercury Square Uranus 3°19 Venus Quincunx Saturn 1°13 Venus Sextile Uranus 3°24 Mars Conjunction Jupiter 0°47 Mars Conjunction Neptune 1°46 Mars Sextile Pluto 1°17 Mars Opposition Ascendant 5°46 Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 0°59 Jupiter Sextile Pluto 2°04 Saturn Quincunx Uranus 2°12 Neptune Sextile Pluto 3°03 Pluto Trine Ascendant 4°29
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Diana Knowflake Posts: 1272 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:12 PM
Starr,I am glad that worked for you. It's true that if you let the aqua know how they hurt you and explain it, they will try to see your point of view and stop the behaviour. He probably thinks you are best friends now, lol, you will just have to explain that you need time to digest the change that occured in the relationship. Chang: He really sounds like my twin...we have the same planets in the same houses. I just need to know his moon sign, because that may be different.
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changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:13 PM
noooooo, i dont want to get him back..he is wrong for me..i only want give him a lesson..because i have great life before him but his wrong bhaivour,talking and feelings i am very confused and sad..and so my scorpiu sun is activated..IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted February 04, 2010 03:15 PM
Diana ; his moon is saggy in 8 th house but his asc i dont know his birth time,so i take mid time..IP: Logged |