posted February 19, 2010 12:11 PM         

I'm focusing on that Persephone of yours. Persephone can play it out in different ways, but the way it's worked for me is contact with it has made me feel hunted. Not wanted, or desired, or loved - hunted.

Transiting Mars first passed over your Persephone last fall. Was it around then that men started pursuing you more aggressively, unwilling to take "no" for an answer?

T.Mars has been retro for a while. So since that first cnj, that feeling may have never gone away of being chased. Soon it will form a cnj with your Persephone again. I think it's around this time that you're most aware of being trapped and most desirous of ending that.

posted February 19, 2010 02:28 PM         

YES! It was last Fall that it started to become an issue. Do you know how long the trapped feeling will last based on the Mars/Persephone aspect?

posted February 19, 2010 02:35 PM         

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The Natal Chart is radiating very strong sexuality

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I am a very sexual person, but also very controlled with my sexuality (as in not sexually active). I think i would attribute this to:

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Saturn exactly opposing Venus-Chiron. I have a case where the native was traumatized in childhood

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APHRODITE moving into 8th will attract more karmic chasers though, but this will stop once Aphrodite reaches 9th.

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Do you know how long it takes Aphrodite to move through signs/houses?

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radiating an Aura of being more high maintenance than a Kim Kardashian and more snobbish than a Paris Hilton

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Yes. I think this is a good plan. I think i'm just going to stop giving people (men) the time of day.

posted February 24, 2010 05:07 PM         

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Do you know how long the trapped feeling will last based on the Mars/Persephone aspect?

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Short answer: I don't know. Sorry.

Long answer: Many people will experience Mars on their Persephone and nothing will happen. That transit activated something particular to you.

Perhaps as Mars goes direct and moves on from Persephone, this influx of men wanting to collect you will end. But if the underlying issue isn't purged, this may all return when t.Mars squares your Persephone and so on.

So what's the underlying issue?

Here I'm in danger of projecting my own situation onto you, especially since we have some chart similarities. You've been warned!

I'm focusing on:
1.Neptune trine your DSC
2. Venus-Chiron-Jupiter opp Saturn

I'll comment only on the first one now.

This makes me start singing Air Supply..."I don't know how you do it, making love out of nothing at all." Yes, I am embarrassed that my mind goes there.

What I mean is that Neptune aspecting your Asc-Dsc impacts the way you relate socially. Do you find yourself interacting with people as if you're building a scene together. Instead of existing as unadorned you, you bring forth the part of yourself that builds the scene. Do you know what I mean?

If you do, then I'd say a way to end this feeling of men wanting to collect you is to not cooperate with the scene. To put you above what the moment can optimally be.

If you know someone doesn't give you what you need, let yourself express that. iQ suggested you act to end this, but I say don't act at all. Be clear that you know what you want, and he's not it. Be clear that any connection the other person feels is just you making the most out of the relationship & that you know it doesn't touch or attract you further.

posted February 24, 2010 08:33 PM         

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I saw that you were the only one so far who has my birthday on your list. If we're soul mates the least I could do is give you an astro analysis.

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Holy moly, you're on my list! That's wonderful; give me your info and i'll do a syn chart!

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What I mean is that Neptune aspecting your Asc-Dsc impacts the way you relate socially. Do you find yourself interacting with people as if you're building a scene together. Instead of existing as unadorned you, you bring forth the part of yourself that builds the scene. Do you know what I mean?

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Yes. Yes i know exactly what you mean. I'm always acting for others. I'm always changing form and adapting to people. I always attributed it to my Scorpio ASC, but i suppose it's Neptune trining my DC? Oh boy...

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If you do, then I'd say a way to end this feeling of men wanting to collect you is to not cooperate with the scene.

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Yes, this seems to be the only solution, really. It's hard for me though, because it's against my nature to hurt people. By hurting others i hurt myself, you know? I inhale their negativity and make it my own. But i can't really avoid these situations, so i'm just going to have to be frank and firm.

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Your Neptune is brilliantly placed for acting. Others will see you as a character; you will easily fall into what they see. But save it for the stage/camera!

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posted February 24, 2010 08:39 PM         

someone who is very insistant has a high spf. and may show up everywhere you are and get very annoying very quickly and turn scary after awhile. i just have red flags on stuff like that i find hard to ignore due to experience. especailly since you are basically alone in a city..i would rather you be a bit rude than a victim of a guy that thinks your the one, you just dont realize it.