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posted March 05, 2010 04:24 AM         

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It seems that the terms "soulmate" or "twin flame" are sometimes SO extensively misused on the web
I would define these terms(I don't wanna distinguish "twin flame" from "soulmate".The distinction is so meaningless!!)as mainly spiritual and not necessarily sexual, and I find there're probably less than 5 of the cases I've ever seen that meet my standard

One of them is my past lifetime soulmate and I've posted the chart in another thread. I'm going to show another case in this thread.

It's a regert that her ASC degree is not exact but won't deviate much.
He is outside and she is inside.

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posted March 05, 2010 04:31 AM         

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tropical synastry main aspects:

isis opp isis(0)
osiris opp osiris(0)
karma trine karma(0-1)(rectified)
valentine sextile valentine(0)
aphrodite sextile aphrodite(0)
his karma conj her venus/valentine(0)
her venus/valentine at pis 9 - her karma at cancer 11 - his ASC /5th ruler neptune at sco 9 - his amor / her atlantis at sco 10 form a grand trine
her 7th ruler mercury trine his 7th ruler venus (1)
her valentine/venus opp his 1th ruler pluto(0)
her valentine/venus sextile his moon(1)
his valentine sextile her venus(0-1)
her valentine/venus opp his venus(5)
her amor trine his venus(2)
his amor trine her venus(0-1)
NN opp NN(4)
her amor sextile his chiron(1)
his amor quincunx her chiron(0)
her aphrodite trine his sun(0)
his perserphone quincunx her pluto(1)

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posted March 05, 2010 04:35 AM         

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karena,

do you think soulmates are always platonic?

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posted March 05, 2010 04:39 AM         

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I think its mainly spiritual and even platonic, but if there's also erotical or sexual dimension it's also good

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posted March 05, 2010 04:42 AM         

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the composite:

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posted March 05, 2010 04:57 AM         

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How long have they been together in a relationship?

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posted March 05, 2010 05:01 AM         

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"I think its mainly spiritual and even platonic..."

Maybe that's your version of what soulmates/twinflames are? I think if the relationship isn't consummated or it's 'love from afar' then it's easy to keep things idealized. There's no getting one's hands dirty in the day-to-day of maintaining a relationship.

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posted March 05, 2010 05:01 AM         

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They have been together for 24-25 years

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posted March 05, 2010 05:03 AM         

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Awesome...!
Ruler of the 7th is in the 7th. Sweeeet. Close sun/moon stuff.
Interesting that the sun and moon, asides from Jupiter, get no other aspects.

Scratch my second post...when you mentioned platonic, I wasn't sure I could connect to the soulmate thing.

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posted March 05, 2010 05:06 AM         

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I think soul mates are not platonic generally but twin flames are mostly.

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posted March 05, 2010 05:09 AM         

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hmmm...I just want to focus on the spiritual or the soul dimension more. That's what the term "soulmate" literally means isn't it?

I'm not from Western countries so maybe that's why I'll have different perception of these terms

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posted March 05, 2010 05:18 AM         

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Sure. Well the whole point of soul mates is to teach or show us a part of ourselves (karma) that needs attention, isn't it?!
(which is maybe why they become lovers over friends?)

There is a huge difference between a soul mate and a twin flame though so you can easily distinguish between them.

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posted March 05, 2010 05:21 AM         

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Lara, I think my definition of "soulmate" is similer to your definition of "twin flame"

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posted March 05, 2010 05:23 AM         

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Definitely an Atlantean lifetime ties this couple. Probably intense too.
Can we see draco synastry please?
Where is DNA in the composite?

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posted March 05, 2010 05:27 AM         

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Ok Karena, no worries..

I don't see this couple as twin flames. I see a very intense Atlantean lifetime that they bring forward into this lifetime.
I think it is a very healing relationship now.

I think there is karma though - so no twin flame. Just my 2 cents.

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posted March 05, 2010 05:28 AM         

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I'll show you later.

Hey Lara, you seem to have a very strict standard on the soulmate/twinflame stuff.
But I remember seeing your Composite you posted before and I couldn't find anything very amazing.
I also had a glance at your synastry and it seems not as impressive as this one.
IMHO

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posted March 05, 2010 05:39 AM         

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Well astrology isn't everything Karena and why don't you ask IQ because he confirmed we were Twin flames.

EDIT: anyway, we have fantastic aspects - i don't know what you are talking about LOL

the reason i have strict terms is because some of us on this forum have studied soul mates/twin flames for years now and also because i have a lot of experience with soul mates from fast-tracking my karma and so i think i can have a fairly viable opinion!

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posted March 05, 2010 05:49 AM         

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I don't like that her Mars is unaspected - mainly since she is an Aries Sun.

I don't think he could do much for her sexually.. If this is a platonic relationship, it's probably for the best.

If they did have sex, I think she'd feel disappointed.

imo

But - sex aside... There are many interesting conjunctions so I could definitely see a soulmate connection!

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posted March 05, 2010 05:53 AM         

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updated:
their composite DNA is added to the chart

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posted March 05, 2010 05:54 AM         

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Draconic Synastry

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posted March 05, 2010 05:57 AM         

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" anyway, we have fantastic aspects - i don't know what you are talking about LOL"

I forget what aspects you have but I remember you do have some good aspects but I see them not very amazing as they're more commonly seen in lovers
I saw your composite more closely and just had a glance at your synastry so i'm not sure if i had missed something in your synastry.
IMHO

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posted March 05, 2010 06:21 AM         

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Hi vapor-lash,

your observation is interesting

This is not a platonic relationship,though.
And her venus/mars MP is conj his IC

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posted March 05, 2010 06:29 AM         

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ok well we had a few interesting aspects like:

moon sextile moon/venus 1'
mars sq pluto 1'
moon sq mars 2'
moon sextile mars 2'
venus sextile mars 1'
venus trine pluto 0' pluto biQ venus 1'
pluto trine moon/venus 0'
NN trine eros 0'
NN opp saturn/neptune 2 trine pluto and cj eros 2'
destinn opp destinn 1'
valentine cj amor 2'
venus/eros cj AC, pluto trine AC and neptune opp AC 2'
(my psyche cj his AC 0' and his eros cj my AC 0')
eros cj moon/venus 1'
EROS/PSYCHE/NN grand trine in composite.
my briede cj his IC 1'
his proserpina cj my MC 0'
his venus cj my sun/moon cj my dr persephone 0'
his DC cj my dr persephone 0'
his venus/mars cj my proserpina 0'
his persephone cj my valentine 2'
his valentine cj my kaali cj my dr pluto 0'
his saturn cj my DC cj my dr karma 2'
his AC cj my telephus/psyche cj my dr atlantis 0'
his NN sq my sun and sun/moon trine my dr moon and venus 1'
his MC cj my kaali 2'
his dr juno cj my valentine 1'
his dr persephone cj my pluto 0'
his dr kaali/pluto cj my juno/karma 0'
his dr MC cj my DC 0'
his antiscon valentine cj my sun/moon 1'
his antiscon proserpina trine my venus 0'

just to name some of them.
Secondary aspects to natal were amazing. Draco shift and shift aspects were mindblowing!

It's not all about sun/moon and venus/mars... anyway, my Kaali is extremely important as an indicator to me because of its position.

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posted March 05, 2010 06:30 AM         

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Karena - I'm an Aries myself with a Capricorn Mars.. I couldn't imagine a guy whose planets make no aspects to it at all (Ok - That's not completely true - There is a minor aspect to the Leo points.. but not really what I'd be looking for).

That being said - If this is you - and you do have great sex.. then F@k astrology!

lol

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posted March 05, 2010 06:33 AM         

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And about the soulmate and twin flame aspects..

Lara - If you feel like he is your twin flame or your soulmate or just the *right* guy.. who cares about the rest?

Karena ^ the same to you.

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