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Topic: Need some insight
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cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1990
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 02:56 PM
 
see, you feel better already!(pa, if your are somewhere reading this, i promise PROMISE you those mc hammer pants are long gone) promise! IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 749
From: US
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 02:57 PM
K scorp ----I could not send the e mail to you. Maybe,a Yahoo address can not be sent from my e mail. IP: Logged |
eskimono
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: uk
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 02:58 PM
i amand now I feel bad that I completely hi-jacked K's thread Didn't you know that MC Hammer pants are back in fashion? Apparently now called 'hareem' pants. So, you can wear them with pride. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 749
From: US
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 03:01 PM
You guys are the BEST! AmiIP: Logged |
eskimono
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: uk
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 03:01 PM
ha ha
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harem_pants IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1990
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 03:02 PM
whatever you do, do not erase the post above this one ...sooner or later PA will see it, and i need the proof. nine short months after making me throw them out...spanky needs NEEDS to see it too.....sorry, k. for the hijack, but all of the advise given will also help you feel better too.  IP: Logged |
Kaleidescorp
Knowflake Posts: 25
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 25, 2010 03:43 PM
Very strange Ami, because I got the email from you telling me you would email me later?IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1990
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 04:28 PM
kscorp - if you want to see how he really feels. as in really feels about you. withdraw completely. like hey, sorry, on my way out the door, i will call you later, and then don't call him back later, oh, i forgot...sorry got home late...whatever...put him on the back burner deliberately and see if he willingly stays there, or if he comes running. your adoration stokes his ego in a mighty way. adopt a i cant really be bothered attitude and see how quickly he comes running. and once there, hold that thought long enough to see if this is what YOU really want. if he knows how you feel he is either keeping you stringing along while he deciedes if he can do better, or sucking you dry as a friend knowing you are in love with him. either way, it is not fair to you. total waste of your time. if you want to see if he is in love with you as in can't live without you, then distance yourself emotionally and physically, if he cant take it, then you know if it is love of friendship on his part. dont let him mess with your head anymore. take control of the situation and make YOUR decisions accordingly. anyone would love a friend that adored them and hung on thier every word, anyone. although in 8 years not even drunken groping would be enough to tell me he is just not that into me. if a guy is really into you, trust me, you usually can tell. i'm sorry to say it honey but 8 more years equals 16 years. how long are you willing to wait? put him to the test and then you decide what to do. IP: Logged |
Kaleidescorp
Knowflake Posts: 25
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 25, 2010 05:29 PM
cpn - Thanks for the advice. I've done that, in fact it wasn't too long ago that I stopped all contact with him for a few months. He remained constant and steady. Continued to send me messages, gifts, etc. Let me know in no uncertain terms that he wasn't going anywhere. What I'm trying to figure out is if it's worth persuing or if there is something so adverse in our charts that we're best to remain friends. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 749
From: US
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 25, 2010 05:34 PM
Couldn't send the e mail to the Yahoo address but I think you got wonderful advice and can not add more--based on your last post.
When experienced people look at the charts--that should help.
I am a newbie--unfortunately lol
Ami
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Nine
Knowflake Posts: 419
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Registered: May 2009
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posted March 27, 2010 03:13 AM
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What I'm trying to figure out is if it's worth persuing or if there is something so adverse in our charts that we're best to remain friends.
Best to remain friends because the romantic chemistry isn't there. ...post more later. IP: Logged |
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