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belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 12:13 PM
 
Maybe he doesnt think your AQUARIAN energy isnt relationship orientated enough 
And just because your planets are trine his sun DOES NOT mean he will automatically like/be attracted to you.
I can not stand pisces and its trine my sun and also my 7th house. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 1209
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Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 12:23 PM
Dear Ami,
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He has to communicate to know me better and he has to know me better to communicate,I think. It is a Catch-22 situation and that is bad for a Libra. I swallow my ego and pride and still try to reach out to him but he just stonewalls me and I am a Scorpio sun. so it is very hard for me to let go of my pride and hold back my stinger.
Just tells me that I love him since everything I do is not rational to a Scorpio at all.
How do I help him?
Are your charts compatible--synastry?
Do you have the basic building blocks of compatibility to work with?
Leaving astrology aside, I would allow him to bond to you at his own time table and in his own way.
If not, I think you will push him away. Ami IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1296
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 12:29 PM
What are your placements? Other than your scorpio sun... IP: Logged |
glamgem25
Knowflake Posts: 401
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 01:43 PM
Wow summersunshine...if doing ALL that is what takes a libra to fall in love with me...forget it!! LOLIP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted April 11, 2010 02:38 PM
I am a Libra, dealing with all of the Pluto/Saturn business and my life alternates between being so busy that I am too tired to communicate with others to being so sad, depressing, exhausting that although I feel deep loneliness, I feel like I would be a drain on others so I stay away. It is very confusing and I don't know what I want or what I should be doing. I don't feel at my best so it is hard to feel worthy of starting something with someone who I think of as a great person.
Now, with guys, sometimes they just don't call for guy reasons of their own, but I guess you do have to take the entire Libra squares to Pluto and conj with Saturn and oppositions to Uranus in account at this time. Times are weird. Energy is weird.
I, for one, am seriously confused about it all. I would love to have someone to help me through this but don't feel my best and feel restrained to make only the best choice in relationships right now... so while I am open to the possibility, I am very restrained in my communications if I see any of the "red flags" that have occurred in past failed relationships. It is like I have suddenly become more sensitive to it. That might additional aspects to my own personal 7th house and Saturn (in my 5th) though.
Overall, if someone who I was interested in at first continues a light and easy relationship which puts no pressure on me to call every day or communicate every day and still continues to chat with me about interesting things during the times we do connect by email or even in person, without putting a bunch of pressure on me or making me feel like they are trying to possess me without even knowing me... *(thinking of last Aqua guy I basically told to F-off because he was acting like we were an exclusive couple when we had emailed and talked on the phone for a couple weeks, but hadn't even met yet in person and he mails me with this message of how he is ****** that I haven't called or emailed in 3 days and if I am playing hard to get he doesn't like that and his feelings for me have changed blah blah... I tell him that I don't give a rat's behind if his immature and fantasy feelings have changed, we haven't even met, and I work my butt off all day and take care of my daughter etc. and I now think he is a nut case and he can F-off) then I would be interested in continuing the communication. So, if the boys I AM interested in just send me an email every day or two and we talk about interesting subjects... (for example another one that I didn't think was right for me I talked to when we went out and we had some interesting conversation so I am open to knowing him more but not in any hurry for ANYTHING with him or most of these guys) then I continue to be interested. I do have some feelings of urgency and part of me does want to fall for someone and start something up quick but I know how those Uranus relationships go and my truest deepest heart wants something of substance so I am just taking things slow and looking for what the actual connection between me and these guys is supposed to be instead of creating some fantasy/Neptunian connection that is not based on reality. A little Neptune in the mix would be nice, of course, but I am being careful. Maybe that is Saturn that has been on my Merc and is now directly conjunct my Pluto (squaring transiting Pluto) and a few degrees from my Sun. So, in closing, if this guy is experiencing any of this at all, I feel for him and understand.
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 1209
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Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 03:10 PM
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Overall, if someone who I was interested in at first continues a light and easy relationship which puts no pressure on me to call every day or communicate every day and still continues to chat with me about interesting things during the times we do connect by email or even in person, without putting a bunch of pressure on me or making me feel like they are trying to possess me
without even knowing me...
This would be my answer to the girls struggling with a Libra guy.
Ami
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rajin
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posted April 11, 2010 03:20 PM
Hey Ami,
I am posting our synastry charts for you to see.We keep on going back and forth, he broke up with me in 2004, then came back in 2008, but he started being uncommunicative after a few months , I put up with it for 9 months then decided to break up. He never called back or gave an explanation as to why he behaved like that with me.
I had some stuff of mine with him and had been asking him to return it since I broke up, no response. Finally now he sent it back and I asked if we could talk, he said yes. Kept saying we will talk once I finish this launch , then had his tooth removed so could not talk due to pain. Now it is complete silence on his part.
If not interested just say so. Why say you want to talk and then start doing this weird 1-2 step backwards dance?  IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 04:28 PM
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I feel bad for him with the pluto and saturn transits...
Not to mention the upcoming Uranus transits. It's not going to be fun having planets in Libra for the next 12 years... I have 3 planets in Libra, and I am still reeling from what my 3 planets in Virgo have gone through, with Pluto, Uranus, and Saturn transits. Geez, can a girl get a break? MysticMelody, I feel you. What you described is what my Virgo planets have through for the past 12 years. You'll be licking your wounds, but you'll make it. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 1209
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posted April 11, 2010 04:49 PM
I am not that good with the charts as many others here are.
I did not know your story as you just shared it.
I would say "Good bye" given those circumstances.
He exceeded his graces, IMO. Ami
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Diana
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posted April 11, 2010 06:19 PM
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Diana...what does this mean?"I feel bad for him with the pluto and saturn transits"
Mine has sun, mercury, venus, and pluto in Libra and northnode...
Where can I get more info on it? Thanks!
Because they are both very intense and hard transits.
Google saturn conjunct _____ (whichever planet it's hitting). Same with Pluto but use the pluto square ______.
Belage,
I also mentioned t.uranus. It must not have been quoted or was in a previous post. T.uranus will intensify all of that.
Yeah, not a great time to be a cancer, libra, cap, or aries right now. A lot of changes coming.
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CrazyAquarian
Knowflake Posts: 134
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Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 11, 2010 06:25 PM
"Maybe he doesnt think your AQUARIAN energy isnt relationship orientated enough"
It's got nothing to do with me and what he thinks or feels for me. I know it's something personal with him.
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vapor-lash
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posted April 11, 2010 06:28 PM
Well my Libra ex of two years - we communicated a lot daily. I don't think it has to do with the Libra-ness - necessarily. With a pile up of planets.. The house they are in could be significant, but you don't know his AC. Maybe all his Libra planets are in the 12th.. "hiding" IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted April 11, 2010 06:31 PM
CrazyAqua - are your Mercuries (Libra and Aquarius) trine by degree?IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 11, 2010 06:37 PM
There's no aspect between them.------------------
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glamgem25
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Registered: May 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 09:19 PM
Diana-Ok I read up on it..thank you so much for the info...when do these transits end for Libra? IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted April 11, 2010 09:49 PM
Dear Ami,
thanks for your help and kind words. I have been feeling very low today and somehow don't even see the meaning of life or living. I just wish he realizes the unselfish love I have for him, I don't want anything from him expect the same love that I feel for him. He is hurting me so much and I just hope that Karma will not catch up with him. He will have to pay heavily if there is some kind of retribution in this world and I dont wish anything bad to happen to him.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 11, 2010 10:07 PM
Wow so this really is a Libra thing eh? ------------------
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scrappydog
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 10:49 PM
I have a stellium in libra including a sun pluto conj, also have a 7th house stellium, in short libra is the strongest sign in my chart, I am soo indecisve and wishy washy, i always blow hot and cold and cant make up my mind, maybe this libra has momentarily forgotten about you, maybe you should call him girl.IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 11:01 PM
Mystic Melody, I am going through And feeling the same things right now! I even had the same experience with an aqua guy that assumed waay too much and started stalking me, weirdo. I'm right smack in the middle of my saturn return with t pluto conj my moon and squaring my hard hit up saturn, so saturn and pluto on my poor natal saturn. I also want a relationship now, then I Don't. I'm not feelin or lookin my best and feel overworked and insecure so im lonely and wantin company one minute then the next balk at the very thought! Sigh...IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted April 11, 2010 11:23 PM
Scrappy-The way you describe it sounds soo sad but I feel that way from time to time as a gemini so I don't know! IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3295
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 12, 2010 12:04 AM
I appreciate what you wrote MM, that right there was some invaluable information into a Libra mind. That you are a woman makes it even better, because you can articulate it so well.
I have lots of Libra myself, and sometimes have odd behavior that even I don't understand, or have good reason for. But reading what you wrote made alot of sense.Ghani wrote somethings awhile back about Aqua, I never thanked her either, but she really made me see things differently too.
I've had alot of trouble understanding Air signs, always thinking that I did something wrong, what did I do now, say now, etc.. So, to hear what it feels like to be a Libra, makes me feel alot better.
Thanks,
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CrazyAquarian
Knowflake Posts: 134
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Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 12, 2010 01:12 AM
" I just wish he realizes the unselfish love I have for him, I don't want anything from him expect the same love that I feel for him. He is hurting me so much and I just hope that Karma will not catch up with him. He will have to pay heavily if there is some kind of retribution in this world and I dont wish anything bad to happen to him."Did I right this???? lol ------------------
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MysticMelody
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posted April 12, 2010 09:16 AM
Belage, thank you... I have Merc at the end of Virgo in the 8th house and Pluto at the very last degree of Virgo in the 8th so that is probably why things have been so terrible for me for a couple years. I am glad you made it through and I feel like I am in a spot where things are not necessarily getting better... but I am having more insight into what is going on so my faith is improving. It is like, I couldn't see at all for a while and now I can see again, yet still know I am passing through a dark phase. I have found a lot of good books lately and they are helping me through. I have also put some effort into helping others which has created a more positive vibe in my life during these difficult times.Scrappy, I am sorry to hear you are feeling the same, because it is so difficult, but at the same time it is very good to hear that others are going through similar things and making it through as well. I wish you the best and hope you find peace in exploring these energies as well. Gypsee, I am glad my sharing gave you some Libran insight though this is not how I usually feel, but is more of how I feel during this difficult time. This experience has been giving me a great deal of insight lately and all the threads here in LindaLand have been invaluable to me throughout my search for understanding during this Plutonic (and Saturnine) time.
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rajin
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posted April 12, 2010 10:51 AM
No Crazy Aqua,
I wrote that but you alleded to karma in one of your earlier posts on this topic.I don't wish him ill, but a girlfriend of mine always says that Karma comes back and bites you in the a$$ and that too very soon.
I guess he will meet someone who will probably treat him the way he treats me and he will probably grow up.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 12, 2010 12:14 PM
rajin
I wasn't serious, just being sarcastic, because it's the same thing for me. Something I could have written.------------------
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