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rajin
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posted April 12, 2010 01:20 PM
 
Hey Aqua,
Guess it is the same with Libra males everywhere. Hope they grow up and become men soon.IP: Logged |
Mannequin
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posted April 12, 2010 01:34 PM
are you guys stereotyping ALL Libra males by your negative experiences with them?i guess there's some growing up to do all round. IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted April 12, 2010 02:07 PM
No. I guess the Libra males that we people on this post have met need to grow up. I am sure there are Libra males who are true to the Libran description of being romantics and very attuned to females, charming gracious and very suave.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 12, 2010 04:07 PM
The Libra I know is like that, he is a hopeless romantic, charming, and in touch with his feminine side, but yes, the....how do you put it, less developed? Or just immature Librans take a longer time to mature, as Libras can be that way. You could say that about any sign.------------------
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Mannequin
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posted April 12, 2010 04:26 PM
i don't understand what is meant by "less developed". as in, physically? mentally, emotionally? the Libra males i know seem to have a childlike side, but are very masculine and strong when need be.
if you meant physically, then most of them work out or play sports. and if you meant penis size, well i don't really know, lol...IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 12, 2010 04:32 PM
LOL What?!? First off the way I put less developed in that sentence, was saying that it wasn't really the right words, but around there somehow.
NO idea where you are getting anything physical about a Libra from that or at all in this thread LOL Penis size.....or mind is just plain elsewhere O_O------------------
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Ami Ann
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posted April 12, 2010 04:36 PM
My guitar teacher is a Libra male. He is one of the few men who will do what he wants in the kitchen rather than wait for me to do it
 Yesterday, he went to make himself coffee and I was shocked LOL
He is a really strong man as far as being a great father and husband and a wonderful friend.
If you need strong dependable shoulders--he is your guy.
Today I was gonna ask him it was hard for him to commit but I forgot.
He has Sun conjunct Mars in the 8th house so he may not be your typical Libra.
What do you think ----about that aspect,in particular. Ami
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SpooL
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posted April 12, 2010 06:23 PM
Well I generaly get along well with my Air Sign cousins the best, frankly I'm always speaking to my Aqua female
friend and my Libra buddy.Anyway, lets get to the point, I've met a mature libra, but he was my ex boss he listens to
everyone before making a decision. But, he's had lots of time to grow and mature, I mean I was the same age of his
kids and he was old enought to retire from the office already. He was however romantics and very attuned to females, charming gracious and very suave. as you put it rajin Were as my current Libra buddy still acts as if he's an 18yrs old. CrazyAquarian, If things don't work out, I think you should try a gem even at freindship level, theres alot more stablity. I find with libras its more of
lets go out drinking, were as with aquas it more of "Houstin.. we have a problem" then have to put are minds together
to find a solution and a solution is found.
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Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
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CrazyAquarian
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posted April 12, 2010 08:15 PM
I have a question for Libras......
You wanna be fair and stuff, if you see that you have done something unfair and hurt someone you care about, how would you react to that? There was another Libra this happened with, she didn't come up to me and admit it even though things did get sorted out, it was after that we talked about it an she told me how she felt. She just retreated and we didn't talk, to avoid confrontation or whatever. OH of course same thing happened many times with my sister, she would just kind of go off. So is this what Libras do when they do something wrong to someone they care about? ------------------
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MysticMelody
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posted April 12, 2010 08:35 PM
I try so hard to be fair and kind to everyone that any time someone thinks I have done something wrong to them, it is usually a person who is a bit crazy and likes to blame life situations on other people to avoid dealing with reality. I have made a few mistakes due to being a bit "air-headed" and not seeing where a genuine and honest comment I make might lead to with the twisted people around me... and I even apologize profusely for situations like that and tell the person I never ever intended to hurt them. The only time I walk away and don't deal with it is if the person is obviously ridiculous, overly emotional and negatively blaming me just to make themselves feel better. If someone pushes me too far I am brutal in my observations of their immaturity or insanity... my Virgo Merc sees all of this but ignores/overlooks it because we all have our craziness so there is no need to bring it up generally. I won't allow someone to constantly crap on me or dump their crap on me unless I offer to help in that manner for a while for a friend etc. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 12, 2010 08:42 PM
Well I didn't say they would NOT deal with it, they just tend to go away like, in guilt or shame? because of what they did, but they usually don't bring it up.
But I guess what I'm saying is, is it hard for a Libra to deal with being unfair and having it hurt someone they care for?------------------
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rajin
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posted April 12, 2010 09:56 PM
The Libra guy I broke up with used to retreat so fast when I raised any talk about the relationship, I could see the skid marks. He would say " Oh I am busy right now, let's talk over the weekend" and never call when he said he would.
I finally left a msg on his voicemail breaking up, he never even called up to explain. Any hint of a difference of opinion he would become very defensive and go on the attack, very politely of course. His actions were all rude, never keeping his word, avoiding phone calls or returning calls. He had my stuff which he would not return even after me asking again and again.
I felt wracked with guilt for ending things the way I did and tried calling to explain why I did what I did. He texted yes we will talk, now avoids phone calls.
What did I do to him that he has to treat me like a 2nd rate citizen? Just because I care for him and am vulnerable becoz of that, does not give him the right to do this.IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted April 13, 2010 05:23 AM
Well I don't see it all.. I don't see Libra guys as avoiding relationships.. but maybe I'm biased (Aries sun).I find Librans very relationship oriented.. and very forward about it (cardinal). But I can kind of see what CrazyAqua is saying -- They do avoid conflict.. So they might avoid a situation for that reason. It depends a lot on other placements though. My ex has Mercury in Scorpio and so does a Libra friend. They are not afraid of confrontation. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted April 13, 2010 05:25 AM
Rajin - I think when someone behaves this way they have their own issues.. But I wouldn't blame it on his sun sign.You might've had some problems in synastry as well. :edit: I read through your other posts Rajin - the things you are describing: manipulative behaviour, playing games with you, hurting you, being evasive, being rude -- all of those things sound like the negative side of Mars-Saturn-Pluto-Neptune.. Are there negative aspects between your Moon-Venus.... and... his Mars-Saturn-Pluto or Neptune? quote:
I just wish he realizes the unselfish love I have for him, I don't want anything from him expect the same love that I feel for him. He is hurting me so much and I just hope that Karma will not catch up with him. He will have to pay heavily if there is some kind of retribution in this world and I dont wish anything bad to happen to him.
This sounds like Sun-Pluto OR Moon-Pluto OR Venus-Pluto squares/oppositions to me.. You want to give and receive love.. and he is trampling all over that. It also sounds a bit like either Neptune-Sun... or Neptune-Moon... or Neptune-Venus... squares and oppositions. IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted April 13, 2010 07:23 AM
Hey Vapor-lash,
Thanks for the help.
I posted our synastry chart in the same post.Pl. take a look. We have planets in each other's 7th house, NN -Asc DW and also Jupiter and Pluto squares with other planets.
I always thought that squares in synastry meant you had to work extra hard in those areas but the squares did not kill the relationship. He never met me half way, any sign of seriousness and he did everything to lock me out.IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted April 13, 2010 07:56 AM
OH I missed that O_O Sorry - I'm so easily distracted these days.. my friends are starting to think I have ADD lol I think it's the Jupiter transit over my Mercury.Well his Neptune is conjunct your Sun.. That was close to what I said -- Conjunctions can be either positive or negative. In your case it sounds negative. He is displaying the dark-side of Neptune by being evasive and playing games.
His Pluto is square your Venus. I find this very very close to your story. I almost feel like it's the main culprit. Often I find the Venus person here victimizes themselves a little.. That is fair enough because Venus is technically the *good guy* or *girl* in your case... while Pluto is often the *bad guy*..
I think the only way to sort it out is for Venus to become more of a "bad girl". As long as you are an extreme of niceness - he will be an extreme of negativity.. His Puto probably does not like your manner of being "sweet" or "nice".. He finds it superficial. quote:
I always thought that squares in synastry meant you had to work extra hard in those areas but the squares did not kill the relationship. He never met me half way
Venus is the planet of compromise. Pluto is the planet of "it's my way or the highway". Yes any aspect can be overcome but it takes two to tango. Venus is more likely to TRY.. and Pluto is more likely to be stubborn and stick to his guns. So it's not an easy one. Your own Pluto is conjunct his Mercury. I think that can help. Maybe instead of always being the "good" person.. the one who listens to him.. the one who forgives him.. the one who compromises.. Maybe try to turn the tables a little.. and give him a taste of his own medicine. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted April 13, 2010 08:09 AM
Vapor
HOW did you get so smart in your young years?
Is there a pill for that?
*I* want one 
x o x Ami
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vapor-lash
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posted April 13, 2010 08:13 AM
 LOLThank you Ami!! That's so sweet. hmmm I think the pill is - having Cappy planets and going through certain things early on, that most people go through later in life. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted April 13, 2010 08:15 AM
I have NO earth. Is there hope for me,PLEASE?
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rajin
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posted April 13, 2010 09:31 AM
Hey Vapor,
I echo what Ami said. How did you get to be so smart? I have never been in love before and this game playing is totally alien to me. I have no tact and am pretty straight forward. I try not to hurt people by letting them hope and then do an about-face, I tell them right away if I can do a thing or not. so his behaviour is totally bewildering to me.Tell me what should I do to turn the tables on him? He is not communicating, do you see any hope of us having a future together? I can do the tough love thing but he has to at least try to come back. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted April 13, 2010 10:16 AM
E mail me Rajin
if you want.
Some things I don't want to say on the Board. x o x Ami IP: Logged |
Mannequin
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posted April 13, 2010 10:22 AM
maybe rajin and CrazyAqua are to blame for the Libra males not wanting to pursue a relatonship with them?IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted April 13, 2010 10:51 AM
And Mannequin, how did you reach that conclusion?
I am not trying to assign blame, I am still open to a discussion with my guy, my only problem with him is that he does not talk. And that has been the main topic on this post and that is how Aqua started it too.
It just makes it more difficult to solve a situation if you dont know what you are dealing with.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 13, 2010 04:47 PM
I never said he didn't want to pursue a relationship with me. That's not true whatsoever. ------------------
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MysticMelody
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posted April 14, 2010 08:26 AM
Since I am older and female, I am positive my experiences, and my own way of dealing with relationship issues, is worlds away from a young Libra male. I'm also heavily influenced by Saturn and Pluto. A young Libra male might look for only the easy and enjoyable parts of the relationship and shy away from the work involved. Especially if he doesn't have strong Saturn in his chart, I would guess.
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