posted April 24, 2010 05:45 PM         

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Now, I am reclaiming the power of the Ascendant and the strength of the Sun.

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And yes, it makes perfect sense! This I say referring to your original post.

posted April 25, 2010 07:40 AM         

with all due respect i only asked you what you thought of my comment because it was a deep comment that was spot on and you completely ignored it.

why is that? I simply would like to understand what the issue is here when you've been blowing me kisses and hearts for months and now it's like i have leprosy lol

posted April 25, 2010 09:54 AM         

I don't give a damn if she agrees with it or not because i know my own truth about emotions and healing them.

I am just interested to know how my words resonate with her view.

posted April 25, 2010 11:15 AM         

“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together.. there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart.. I'll always be with you.”

posted April 25, 2010 12:48 PM         

You don't have to deal with all of life... only today exists. Today is only 24 hours long and tomorrow never comes!!!

Mermaid,

posted April 25, 2010 01:02 PM         

I think, for me, functioning through my Moon is fine and perfectly necessary. I have a bucket chart with the Moon as the handle, so everything gets filtered through it anyway.

My 5th house Aries Moon is just so much more fun, exciting, and honest than my stodgy old 10th house Virgo Sun. I do use my Scorpio Asc to good effect too though, usually with people I don't know when I want to show them some things about myself, but not everything.

HOWEVER, I have found that in romantic relationships I tend to immediately refer back to my fire grand trine (of which my Aries Moon and Leo Mars are a part) instead of also allowing my Virgo Venus to be expressed. I have found that this is detrimental to me since one part of me is fun and happy-go-lucky but there is another part of me that needs to express groundedness and security in relationships.

posted April 26, 2010 03:35 PM         

My ambitious and responsible side (Cap Ascendant) was always encouraged while my fun side (gemini venus) was seen as irresponsible and my emotional and hermit-like traits (Cancer Sun and Virgo Moon) were seen as antisocial.

posted April 26, 2010 03:45 PM         

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people should work to intergrate ALL parts of themselves in order to be whole.

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Exactly.

Ami

posted April 26, 2010 07:40 PM         

Actually, I could maybe see why you might not want to function so publicly with your moon. I would imagine having a Cancer Moon would make you very sensitive emotionally. Cancer Moons have moods that tend to fluctuate and change even at the slightest thing and they really feel things deeply. If I had that placement I can't say that I'd want it out for everyone to see either, mostly because, like you said, daily living demands more toughness.

Of course, that being said, aspects to the Moon make a difference as well.

My Aries Moon is very different from the Cancer Moon. Somebody says something to try and upset me, and I just look at them and make a smart ass comment, or I ignore it... If they do actually manage to hurt my feelings it is most likely because I was being naive and trusting someone I shouldn't have trusted to begin with, in which case I look like a hurt puppy dog for a minute or two, then turn around and walk away. Find me in an hour and I'll be over it. People think this is insensitivity, but I think it's simply not sweating the small stuff (and sometimes also the big stuff that I have no control over anyway).