posted May 12, 2010 04:39 PM            

Scorpio Sun with Mars in Aries

I want a 'man' - largish in stature, can provide for himself, an emotional rock. I want someone with a passion for life, who wants adventure, wants to see and do everything the world has to offer, but finds pleasure in the simple little things. But I also (like Belgz) want someone who can calm my storms and troubled waters, and who is ultimately loyal and devoted to me and my family.

I suppose the question is, what am I giving in return?!

posted May 12, 2010 04:39 PM              

My mum who is a gemini sun,venus and mercury and mars in virgo and moon in aries is 100% needy and dependant!!

Her ascendant is cancer with moon in the 10th conjunct jupiter. My grandma gives her everything, money, houses, cars, furniture..

She believes EVERYONE should be doing something for her. She doesnt neccessarily say it but she acts that way.

You'd think a gemini would get up and work and be active but the only thing active and aggressive is her mouth.

posted May 12, 2010 04:47 PM              

Does your scorpio side desire passion and emotions? I never understand scorpio because ive never really been with one or know any..

and yeah hygiene is NUMBER 1. I think its hard to narrow it down to just sun and mars because were all a combination of everything in our chart.

posted May 12, 2010 04:59 PM            

Jeez - that makes me sound like I was in an arranged marriage - so far from the truth!

posted May 12, 2010 05:22 PM            

Complex and deep, but uncomplicated. Masculine in the natural way, confident, responsible and mature. Sensible and selfless, philosophical/open-minded, and deep/passionate/intense.

posted May 12, 2010 06:17 PM            

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Maybe she has jupiter or venus in 8th ??

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This is one of the times I wished I had an accurate birthtime for her because a strong 8th house would make sense in her case. Funny though that I have the Moon there but I don't feel the same sense of 'okayness' with depending on other people that she has.

posted May 12, 2010 06:47 PM            

I like men that need me I want to take care of them but they have to be deep spiritual pure but extremely sexy and artistic

translated: starving artists musicians etc
mandatory younger than me

posted May 12, 2010 08:01 PM            

x o x Ami

posted May 12, 2010 08:36 PM              

Sun in Scorpio and Mars in Sagittarius,

-You want honesty, friendship, and fun.

-Sharing adventures or sports or a philosophical discussion gets your interest, and a man with a sense of humor gets your affections - even if his jokes are bad.

-Companionship or "being buddies" is important to you, so your romances often start with a casual shared activity. You can fall in love with a friend, but can often let a romance fade into a friendship.

-Men who seem mysterious or brooding or have "deep dark secrets" could intrigue and entice you.

-The type of man who attracts you seems intense or inscrutable, and has a kind of magnetic charisma about him that hints at smouldering sexuality and passion.

My Sign Placements Sun and Mars in Virgo:

- Yet you are at times attracted to a man who is far from perfect, because you think you can "fix" him.(This is so true, I always find myself attracted to problematic people x.x)

-An intelligent conversation arouses your interest. You appreciate wit, but not crudeness.(occasionally I like funny crude, 1st house placements probably)

Did the man's position as well:

Moon Pisces and Venus Leo:

-The type of woman who attracts you is romantic and emotional, or sensitive and passive. Should she be intriguing or mysterious or able to make you feel secure, she could really appeal to you.( I actually don't need sercurity, Saturn gives me enough sercurity woes)..

-You may be attracted to especially creative or imaginative women, like artists and poets; or to women who are psychics or empaths (like Counselor Troi in the TV series "Star Trek, The Next Generation").( I like my wierdos, geeks, and dorks..<3)

-It is particularly important to feel you can admire and respect your mate, and feel admired and respected in return.

House Placement Gemini Moon and Scorpio Venus:

- type of woman who attracts you is clever and changeable, and can keep you guessing. You can be drawn to average-looking women who are witty and interesting.

-A relationship in which communication plays a big part is one which feels most comfortable to you. You like to hear the words of love.

-women who are either good talkers or good listeners can attract you,curious minds and quick tongues can turn you on.

-Sexuality is a very important part of your relationships, and you can be enticed by a woman with a raw "animal magnetism" or overtly sexual appearance.

-There is often an element of psychological power struggles in your relationships, even if on a subconscious level.

Where can I find this person lol?

posted May 13, 2010 04:40 AM            

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why even ask what women want. We want everything, and our list of what we don't want is even longer

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posted May 18, 2010 12:30 AM            

You're even more interested if he is rich or famous or powerful or gorgeous... and thus can reflect his glory onto you.

gorgeous Yes DUHHHHHHHH.. the rest NO

A man who commands respect, and a man who is generous (and can afford to be), will also appeal to you.

Yes... on the respect... I would prefer sentimental gifts.

You like men who admire and praise you.
A fine face and beautiful body get your attention. You may be particularly attracted to "the boss" or men who are "leaders" in some way.

Yeah Ok I admit it!!!

You can also be drawn to the "creative" type such as actors, artists, musicians, or performers.
Isn't everyone??????

If you have Mars in Leo, you may get aroused by seeing a man act self-assured, cocky, or even arrogant.
LOL... SOOOOOOOOO true!!!

Basically, you are like a Princess who expects to be treated royally and courted by a handsome and powerful Prince.

Yeap that works!!!

posted May 18, 2010 04:00 AM            

The man who attracts you is protective, security-conscious, sensitive, and understanding.
If you find that he makes you feel "safe", you'll somehow feel yourself drawn to him.
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Your strong sexuality responds best to emotion and security.
Check.

A man's sensitivity may be more important than his sexiness.
True.

You can be drawn.....and/or to a man who needs to be "mothered".
Kiiindaa.

If you have Mars in Cancer, you may be particularly drawn to a protective and mature man, and possibly to one who acts like a "father-figure" to you.
True, I don't want a "daddy" though.

posted May 31, 2010 08:03 PM            

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Maybe she has jupiter or venus in 8th ??

My mum who is a gemini sun,venus and mercury and mars in virgo and moon in aries is 100% needy and dependant!!

Her ascendant is cancer with moon in the 10th conjunct jupiter. My grandma gives her everything, money, houses, cars, furniture..

She believes EVERYONE should be doing something for her. She doesnt neccessarily say it but she acts that way.

You'd think a gemini would get up and work and be active but the only thing active and aggressive is her mouth.

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posted May 31, 2010 08:10 PM            

Gem men do seem great fun, but a bit promiscuous & I'm not sure they always say what they mean! Mind you, my current mindset is that all men are jerks - the obvious jerks just hide it less well.

posted June 01, 2010 07:42 AM            

In my younger years I attracted, like a moth to a flame, a few full-of-Aqua charts, during my early sexual experiences I guess..

Knowing myself better it doesn't resonate with my Leo-Sun/Scorp-Moon/Virgo-merc*asc/Canc-venus etc.

posted June 01, 2010 04:18 PM            

I like tall, strong men with good stamina and libido. Also, a man that has a strong mind and isn't afraid to speak up for himself. He's gotta have a sense of humor and playful personality. The man I am with now pretty much fits perfectly

I tend to love Aries sun and Leo sun types. Pretty much every person I have had a crush on, or have dated has been born under a fire sign.

posted June 01, 2010 09:04 PM            

When I think of my perfect man I automatically think of Rhett Butler from Gone With The Wind. Clark Gable played him perfectly. I like a man that is generally good natured, great sense of humor, great dancer, good listener, emotionally sound & responsive etc. But underneath all the charm & good looks has to be a depth & passion...a little bit of stormy weather if you will.. I loved the scenes that showed how much Rhett loved Scarlett...for all his joking and ability to give her room, he would snap and show just how serious he was about loving her & wanting her. He wanted her mind, body & soul...and in return he would've given her the moon & the stars in the sky. And boy was he persistent! I like that steady Scorpio drive, the slow burn to get that desire fulfilled. Yum!

posted June 01, 2010 09:05 PM            

When I think of my perfect man I automatically think of Rhett Butler from Gone With The Wind. Clark Gable played him perfectly. I like a man that is generally good natured, great sense of humor, great dancer, good listener, emotionally sound & responsive etc. But underneath all the charm & good looks has to be a depth & passion...a little bit of stormy weather if you will.. I loved the scenes that showed how much Rhett loved Scarlett...for all his joking and ability to give her room, he would snap and show just how serious he was about loving her & wanting her. He wanted her mind, body & soul...and in return he would've given her the moon & the stars in the sky. And boy was he persistent! I like that steady Scorpio drive, the slow burn to get that desire fulfilled. Yum!