posted May 30, 2010 03:05 AM            

I need space but at same time not too much.

Consistency and ability to appreciate and listen well is really important.

Alittle bit of romance doesn't hurt (though not trite or cheesy)

**Libra moon, merc and venus all in 7th house lol and moon conjunct venus (2')

posted May 31, 2010 08:03 PM            

I like to flirt and, unusually for me, have noticed AT LEAST 3 *cute* guys since January (that's A LOT for me, since I am attracted to relatively few people ) I suppose I must be really shallow, as I don't really need much apart from flirting to feel good. I love dressing up on a daily basis - feminine clothes, bright colours, best shoes within a 10 mile radius, knowing I look fab, and getting admiration and compliments. I don't really want to go any deeper in case I get hurt again. I can't stand the thought of any more pain and emotional involvement right now.

Sun in Aries (8th)
Mars in Gem CJ Saturn (10th)
Venus in Pisces in 6th (CJ Moon/Jupe?)

Don't know if Venus & Mars are square? Possibly Venus is Opp my Asc. I'll have to check that one out.

posted May 31, 2010 08:22 PM            

Point 5 being the most primitive need - without it, the relationship will most likely be platonic only.

Venus in Gemini in 11th
Venus conjunct Mercury in Gemini
Venus trine Pluto in Libra, in 3rd
Venus oppose Fire singleton - Neptune in Sag, in 5th
Moon in Pisces in 8th square Venus

posted June 02, 2010 02:37 PM            

What do I NEED to FEEL loved?

AFFECTION +++++++++
DEPENDABILITY
REGULAR, FREQUENT COMMUNICATION (preferably daily)
HONESTY
LITTLE THINGS are huge to me: (picking me a fresh flower, opening a door for me, asking me how I am, how was my day, how I am feeling, etc.) little things that shows he cares.

posted March 05, 2012 10:32 PM            

Don't need to much physical stuff. More the need to be always mentally in tune and connected imo.

Libra mercury, moon and venus all conjuncting in 7th house.

That and having them be reliable and steady.
Any secretive behaviour, MIA tendencies makes me alittle uneasy.

So basically it's:

posted March 05, 2012 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It's kind of impossible. I need history with someone to feel loved. I'm not someone who will feel loved or love for someone I met a couple months ago. My moon is trine saturn in the 7th, so this and maybe my Mars in the 12th is why I tend to move verrrrry slowly, and cautiously. Then I have Moon opp. Pluto and can shut off my feelings when it gets too much. Needless to say, I can be kind of a brick wall when it comes to relationships. I suppose you could say I need time and lots of hugs too. Hugs help a lot.

I have Sun sextile Venus, both in Aries and both in the 11th. Sag is my DSC. I need lots of SPACE and then come back for tons of howdy do's kisses and affection and catching up. And then lots of spaaaaace, and then more catching up and spaaaace. Lol you see where I'm going with this? I need FREEDOM first and foremost. I was talking to a Gemini last week (am not any longer, he was already saying he was in love with me and we hadn't met yet.... WEIRD) and he was like "Who are you going out with? Where are you going?" Like, NO. Never would have worked lol.

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Is it me, or do alot of gem placement guys throw around 'love' and all that stuff wayyyy too much?

Gets ridiculous actually.
A large portion of guys seem to come off full on at the start imo. Esp when they start blowing up your phone.
Clinginess scares me, I need alot of space myself.

posted March 06, 2012 12:20 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Is it me, or do alot of gem placement guys throw around 'love' and all that stuff wayyyy too much?

Gets ridiculous actually.
A large portion of guys seem to come off full on at the start imo. Esp when they start blowing up your phone.
Clinginess scares me, I need alot of space myself.

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That's my attitude. Clinginess, neediness, ...omg. If you want me to break up with you or hate you, those are surefire ways.

About Gem guys - I kind of expect that. Sure they're logical and stuff but when they have no earth to bring it down to eye level, their heads are forever in the clouds. The guy I mentioned had Sun, Moon, Merc, and Venus in Gemini... Mars in Pisces.

posted March 06, 2012 01:31 AM            

I need honesty, even if I don't happen to like the truth. Loyalty is another biggie for me. I'm not a fair weather friend and I don't want any. I also need my loved ones to understand and respect the fact that I need my alone time. And last but not least, I need open, "mature" communication. Agreeing to disagree doesn't have to be hard.

posted March 06, 2012 03:09 AM            

I need to be able to feel vulnerable in my partners presence. Because I never let anyone see that side to me .We are so fragile when we are vulnerable and to find someone that won't hurt you in that state, is the hardest part of love. I need to be able to trust my partner completly. I need to be able to know my partner is not going to hurt me while i drift off into that fragile state,curled up under his chest. Its the state i let go of all of my power,worries and resposibilities. Its the state where i let him carry the weight of my burdens, if only figuartivly, and in my mind for a few endearing moments.Its the state where I close my eyes and let him protect me, and I let my my gaurd down. I just give in to the powerlessness I feel in my partners presence. I give up my power.

I can only do this with someone I feel truly loves me. So he needs to be able to get me to that state, and I need to be able give in to it.

posted March 06, 2012 05:31 AM            

You should be as into me as I am : Venus in Libra.

That doesn't mean I do not have unrequited love or one side love. I guess it is easy to be turned off knowing well someone isn't that into you.

Accept me the way I am : Sag Rising

During the relationship

Communication , Honesty and Loyalty : Scorpio Sun

During the tough time

Unconditional Love: Although there is nothing like unconditional as both parties do get something in return even if it is companionship or support but I hate being given attitude of give and take.I do not make deals when it comes to heart. I guess it is being bit innocent,naive and idealistic.