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posted July 20, 2010 12:11 AM         

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35 years!!!!

I wonder how long it will take with my Mom, if ever. With us, it's 2 steps forward, 10 back!

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posted July 20, 2010 03:07 AM         

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We start to talk after a while when I moved far away from her to the other side of the country. We need a great distance between us to start to talk.
I also think both of us think we not want to end up on this way. The life goes fast and my mum is today 72. I think today we know no one can change one another.

Today I also can meet her on another way than I did earlier. There are also difference now because when I feel me hurt earlier I not care today.

I've moon in a t-square to merk/uran/pluto and to saturn

I also see the pattern in my life. My life start with trauma ,my mother and me. I work with trauma and I love it

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posted July 20, 2010 11:04 AM         

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Absinthe, I'm glad things are better now for you guys, thank you for sharing your story.

Starr,

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Thanks Ami. I consider myself to be a fairly healthy person despite everything I've been through, I like to think it's because I'm trying to "evolve", but there is still baggage there. What these lessons are to learn I don't know but I do envy those who have wonderful relationships with their parents. I am hoping to change the paradigm by having a great relationship with my son for the rest of our lives

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I love what you said here!

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posted July 20, 2010 11:25 PM         

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i have given up on my mum and i, i try to appreciate her one day at a time, even though i am very confused.

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posted July 23, 2010 04:35 PM         

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Thank you Soulful.

Lola, you should post the synastry between you and your mother so we can see if it holds up to the pattern we've been experiencing here.

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posted July 23, 2010 04:57 PM         

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Ok I admit I haven't read any posts yet and I don't know how to put charts up. But I was thinking that natally the Moon in aspect to Chiron might show some wounds with regards to parents, and particularly the mother?

I have quite a wide aspect of it but I still count it in my chart.

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posted July 23, 2010 06:00 PM         

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My Moon is conjunct my Chiron natally but it's pretty wide--6 degrees. But yes, I've thought about that too.

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posted July 23, 2010 10:14 PM         

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Yeah my brother has moon conjunct chiron as well. We both definitely suffeed because of our mum.

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