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Topic: How would you tell a Pisces that you love them?
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The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 07:12 AM
Simply that- what do you clever astro folks think is the best way of expressing feeling to a Pisces?Even if they seem to be an extroverted fish, I think these guys can be a bit shy when it comes to matters of the heart. So, you like one... you think, secretly (as it always is with them :P) that they like you too, so how would you tell them how you feel without scaring them off? (I have an Aries moon, so I know I can be a bit brash and too upfront!) Feel free to post any successes or misses you've had doing just this! IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 2633 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 07:26 AM
Use Telepathy. Pisces gets the love feelings from your heart chakra, they do not need to verbalize. They will confuse you and themselves when they verbalize love. They wont confuse feelings though. IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 07:27 AM
Haha Well, first of all, good luck, I hope it all goes well. I'm an aries moon too and I was dating a pisces guy not long ago. I told him that I had feelings for him. Which I think is ok, and nice, even if he doesn't feel the same way, noone gets hurt when you say that :P Plus being an aries moon it's so hard for me to keep things bottled up inside. I already knew he kind of liked me, but nothing extraordianry. But then, we were watching TV and there was a Manu Chao video so I remembered his song 'Me gustas tu ' and since he knows some Spanish, I asked , what does 'Me gustas tu' mean ? without really knowing what it means. And he said 'It means 'I love you'' But he totally thought I asked it on purpose !! lol And he was a bit more romantic than usual in the following days I guess they like it more when you say it in an indirect manner ?? IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 07:31 AM
Btw I broke up with him because he was like 'Ok let's become lovers' but I felt that he didn't treat me the way I wanted him to.And he wasn't the kind of guy I could date casually. I don't know why. If he loved me more that could make him special maybe. He had that 'I'm a pisces I love the birds the trees and you too' vibe lol IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 07:34 AM
thank you iQ and swirl-kitt!iQ, great idea! that makes sense (and virgos love plans that make sense ) haha I think I have already used an abundance of telepathy. do you think physical clues would help? maybe just going for a kiss? (the scary option) swirl-kitt, thanks haha I like your story! maybe it was fate guiding you to say what you did?! indirect sounds good... for the record, I am almost bound to get rejected here, even though I am sure he does like me in a way, but thought I might as well go for it. but yes, I'm always fascinated by how people express love, so keep any stories coming! IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 07:34 AM
He also had Scorpio mars and I know he is secretive about his feelings.He is extremely friendly with girls but you should make the first move IP: Logged |
Ursa Knowflake Posts: 92 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 10:43 AM
Swirl-kit and iq have the right idea. I'm one of them (fish) and I think we like moments that are woven together with feeling. I have aries mercury so I have a mouth that can bring a lot of grief. My manner of speech can be caustic and I often do not think before I say something. That being said, I am not good at handling the same directness focused on me in romantic situations. It can be extremely painful to be confronted with feelings through direct verbal expression, even if I think you are the bees knees. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 01:57 PM
Thanks Ursa (cool name btw). Everyone seems to agree on this one then!Hmm... but how do you get across your feelings clearly without words? (I know that seems like a silly question, but I have some pretty heavy mercury influences, so not using words seems impossible ) IP: Logged |
raspberri Knowflake Posts: 2550 From: venus Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 01, 2010 02:01 PM
What iQ said. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:09 PM
I have Pisces Moon and it squares Neptune with 1'23 orb. I would want a woman to tell me that she loves me by touching my hand gently and look deep into my eyes and tell me softly that she loves me and kisses me. I don't really care for the telepathy thing. I'd do the same with her. I'd put her hand over my heart. I'd also tell her that I love her through poetry. ------------------ No..I am not a Virgo. Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group. http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=131944976821905&ref=ts IP: Logged |
raspberri Knowflake Posts: 2550 From: venus Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 01, 2010 02:13 PM
I have Mars in Pisces and I love it when a man just touches me without speaking. I want him to take control without being too technical; if you want me then take me. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:15 PM
hmmmm interesting. Good, so the touching subtlely idea might not be such a bad one?IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:17 PM
he has a website where people can anonymously send him questions which he answers... I was thinking about putting a hint on there. would this work?IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2127 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:17 PM
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Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:19 PM
MNF,What is your relationship with him? Why do you want to tell him you love him? IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:21 PM
I have Mercury conjunct/parallel Venus (Mercury-Venus occultation) in Scorpio in 3rd house and even Mercury sextile Geocentric North Venus Node in Virgo.I have to verbalize my love even though I am very feeling oriented type. My Mercury-Venus-Neptune parallel as well as my Mercury,Venus,and Neptune in 3rd can easily account for expressing my love through poetry. When I am in love, I feel inspired to write poetry or to speak through the depths of my soul to connect. I have also done that through being artistic and creative like making Valentines Day card and Anniversary card for my exgf Meghann. ------------------ No..I am not a Virgo. Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group. http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=131944976821905&ref=ts IP: Logged |
raspberri Knowflake Posts: 2550 From: venus Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 01, 2010 02:24 PM
I write poetry too!I've written a poem for someone and gave it to him IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:37 PM
Diana- hello well, I am not going to tell him I love him exactly, I just thought that made a snappier topic title! but I do want to tell him somehow that I like him and would like to go out with him. we are friends. I have known him for a year and the whole time I have always wondered if he secretly liked me. he's hinted one way and another constantly! but I don't know, I just get a strong *feeling* that he does. and now he's single again. and I don't know I just feel I have to tell him one day... or do something. it's just like an underlying feeling that's telling me it needs something to be done about it!IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:41 PM
"I write poetry too!I've written a poem for someone and gave it to him" I'd love for a woman to write poetry to me. I am interested in a woman that has Moon and Mercury in Pisces. She even has Moon quintile Neptune and Mercury square Neptune. My Mercury-Venus conjunct her Midheaven and trine her Mercury. My loving way of communications could have a nice effect on her.
------------------ No..I am not a Virgo. Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group. http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=131944976821905&ref=ts IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 02:42 PM
Hi hmmm...can you just flirt with him? I don't think it's ever a good idea to tell a friend you're in love with them. It's too jolting. It makes people totally freak out and it can ruin the friendship. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2127 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 03:02 PM
"hmmm...can you just flirt with him? I don't think it's ever a good idea to tell a friend you're in love with them. It's too jolting. It makes people totally freak out and it can ruin the friendship"Yes I agree but if there is someone who can take it so is it a pisces man.... My exhusband and I engaged to each other after 3 weeks. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 03:06 PM
Hmmm, good idea Diana. You're right, it does freak friends out more than it would with someone you've always had a sexual kind of relationship with... even if you're just telling them you like them I guess! I do try and flirt, but I'm not sure how it will always go down... the other day we were planning a day out and I asked what he wanted to do and he put 'Shag? or we could go to london or something...' followed by 'you do realize only half that message was serious. you know I hate london' but the next day when I reference that he replies 'no, seriously, what are we doing?' sorry haha not meant to be a massive ramble! Basically, he's so cryptic, I just feel driven to being more straightforward, and if he turns me down, then fine that's an end to it and he should stop flirting with me! IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 03:07 PM
popcorn, you think Pisces can handle more full-on romance then?IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6262 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 03:07 PM
referring to the past lives you are sure you two shared could be a way in...IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted September 01, 2010 03:10 PM
katatonic- that sounds like a unique but potentially good way of doing it! ohh, I'm going to have to use some kind of cryptic referencing to get into his fishy bubble aren't I?IP: Logged |