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Topic: How would you tell a Pisces that you love them?
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 2941 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 05, 2010 05:24 PM
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Ami Ann Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted September 05, 2010 05:24 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uE1Dho_3UA Listen to this song,Friends.
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racole12 Knowflake Posts: 943 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted September 05, 2010 05:26 PM
Teasel~I completely understand what you mean about summer. It was all wasted on my back injury and I'm still dealing with it  My Angel, Valentine and Boda (marriage in spanish) is conj my NN. (square my Sun/Neptune/Psyche) I have never had someone's planet on that point except Mr. Pisces Draconic Venus is conj all those points exact. IP: Logged |
VioletFlyer Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Adelaide, Australia Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 07, 2010 07:54 AM
I can share my personal anguish/befuddlement over how to understand the Piscean way of love... I'm a Scorpio and I've been in a telepathic conversation about love with a Pisces man for 12 years now spanning 3 continents and we STILL haven't worked it out... We have a very strong love connection, and lucky for him I've got strong psychic/intuitive skills, and so I was able to know that we had the feelings for one another, although he would never SAY it. This went on for YEARS, us spending a lot of time together, me desperately in love with him, him knowing it, but never saying it. Talk about torture... Finally, after 8 years of this, one night, for some reason, he came over, crawled into my bed and just said "take your shirt off". And I said "why?" because after 8 years I wanted the satisfaction of hearing the actual words come out of his mouth. He just said, "because it's nicer that way". Well...one thing lead to another, but before the deed could be done I said, "wait, I just have to tell you that I love you, that I have always loved you, that I switched classes in junior year of college to be in your class so I could get to know you and that I can't stand the fact that it never gets SAID anymore". Well....the look of shock and incredudlity on his face was like nothing I've ever seen. Oh he KNEW all right...but the fact that i said it sent him into a panic attack. We didn't go through with it, I just started bawling my eyes out and it was a mess... he stuck around the next day, sort of painfully watching as a I continued to weep like a basket case, and then I didn't see him for 4 years. Next time I saw him, same darn thing again. He is desperately in love with me- even gave himself away at one point when he grabbed me and pulled me close to him tightly in a crowded bar, then sort of "realized" what he was doing and stepped away. We are back to playing that game where we pretend we are just friends, when we both know nothing could be further from the truth. And it is now year 12... Luckily, I've settled down with someone else, but you know, people like that haunt you and if he called me up tomorrow and was ready to just SAY it, I'd probably go to him. He never will though, so I'm not worried! So...I am the LAST person to be able to tell you how to express your love to them, but in my personal experience for God's sake don't spell it out or they will be on the next train to Tokyo! IP: Logged |
Quinnie Moderator Posts: 1067 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 07, 2010 08:09 AM
Just tell him YOUR way, according to how you communicate. Let the Pisces man deal with it his way. If he runs away he is simply not worth it. Or if you want to suss it out, read him his tarot cards... I read for a Pisces and mutual attraction was written all over the reading. You could always go for the provocative approach, which is to try tom make him jealous by talking to another fella when he is around. If a Pisces man loves you but hasn't told you this,when faced with the prospect of losing you, he will tell you then.I however am of the belief that if he can't communicate his feelings then it's not worth it. Why should you change yourself or how you communicate because this Pisces dude has failed to provide the goods. Love conquers all they say... but everyone has different definitions of love in a relationship... and it takes two to tango. IP: Logged |
Fiery_Water Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 07, 2010 10:13 AM
I hope I am not too late in my feedback. I have sun and moon in pisces- and I've been with alot of pisces guys.The use of fantasy is very important to me, and was very important ot them. also written stuff... texts....role play sthg that starts as a joke... something that s hazy- not clear..... btu in the fantasy there s flirting.a.nd suddenly it gets u closer and it feels real! IP: Logged |
StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 07, 2010 07:22 PM
Violet Flyer - True! Fiery Water - Yes, yes, yes, oh yes! Quinnie - Agree with you 100% as well.Am I contradicting? That kind of sounds like my Pisces male sometimes too. "Yes, No, Maybe."  IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6262 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 08, 2010 01:14 AM
i keep wanting to say this...the way you tell a pisces you love them is"i love you"! i think quinnie is right on, really, if you cannot express yourself the way YOU choose to, it will probably not work, whether he is worth it or not...subterfuge tends to be antithetical to love and trust...unless of course you are just born tricky! IP: Logged |
StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 08, 2010 07:40 PM
katatonic - Well stated. Does not matter if he is a Pisces, he will stay around if he cares about you.IP: Logged |
Quinnie Moderator Posts: 1067 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 10, 2010 08:43 AM
Kat... Two great minds eh lol  IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 10, 2010 04:27 PM
If he doesn't feel the same way, he may not stay around, because no one knows how to act anymore when this line has been crossed and you don't feel the same way. It can be really awkward. Most of us are women, so most of us know how it is, because a lot of times it's the guy who makes the move. Most women, that I know anyway, feel weird after that happens and can't go back to the regular friendship. It's not about caring or not, imo, it's about the whole relationship shifting. I just think there's a better way to find out without being so dramatic and keeping the friendship intact.
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StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2010 11:37 PM
It could be this thread ...  IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 943 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted September 20, 2010 03:32 AM
Thanks but the one I was looking for was started by Gypsy. This morning it had only a date where the tread name should of been and now I can't even find it... IP: Logged |