posted September 02, 2010 11:21 AM         

Birthdata:

Mine
October 29, 1971
San Francisco,California
3:20 AM

Hers
April 2, 1981
London,Canada
2:56 AM

Her Chart compared to Mine:

Moon conjunct Moon - 4'37
Moon trine Sun - 2'28
Moon square Jupiter - '28
Moon square Saturn - 2'40
Moon square MC - 3'25
Sun trine Jupiter - 4'12
Sun trine Asteroid Dwarf planet Ceres - 1'27
Sun conjunct Transneptunian Dwarf planet Eris - '14
Sun sextile MC - 1'15
Mercury trine Mercury - 1'51
Mercury trine Venus - 1'34
Venus trine Jupiter - 2'54
Venus trine Asteroid Dwarf planet Ceres - 2'45
Venus sextile MC - '02
Venus sextile Node - '42
Venus conjunct Chiron - '39
Mars trine Jupiter - 4'15
Mars trine Asteroid Dwarf planet Ceres - 1'24
Mars sextile MC - 1'18
Jupiter trine Saturn - '33
Saturn sextile Jupiter - 2'19
Saturn trine Saturn - '49
Asteroid Dwarf planet Ceres trine Mercury - '56
Node oppose Node - 1'36
Node trine Jupiter - '35
Asc trine Juno - 1'05
MC conjunct Mercury - 2'26
MC conjunct Venus - 1'00
Juno conjunct Sun - 1'35
Juno trine Moon - '34
Transneptunian Dwarf planet Haumea sextile Mercury - '03
Transneptunian Dwarf planet candidate Varuna square Asc - '15

My Sun trine the conjunction of my Moon and her Moon
T - Square of her Moon square my Jupiter - Saturn opposition
Her Moon aspects my lunar t-square

Her Venus conjunct my Chiron and sextile the trine of my Node and MC
(corresponding midpoint picture of
her Venus 11'11 Aries
conjunct my MC/Node in 10'51 Aries

My Moon trine the conjunction of my Sun and her Juno

My Mercury grand trines her Mercury-asteroid dwarf planet Ceres trine and sextile her transneptunian dwarf planet Haumea for a Kite

My Asteroid dwarf planet Ceres trine her Mercury-Venus-Mars conjunction
My MC sextile her Mercury-Venus-Mars conjunction

Declination:
Her Sun contraparallel my Uranus - '30
Her Mercury contraparallel my Chiron - '03
Her Mercury contraparallel my Asc - '24
Her Neptune contraparallel my Ceres - '00
Her Neptune contraparallel my MC - '07
Her Asc parallel my Jupiter - '07
Her MC parallel my Mercury - '27
Her MC parallel my Venus - '13
Her Jupiter contraparallel my Juno - '10
Her Saturn parallel my Juno - '06

Her Mercury links to my Chiron parallel Asc
Her Neptune links to my Ceres parallel MC
Her MC links to my Mercury parallel Venus
My Juno links to her Jupiter contraparallel Saturn

Right Ascension:
Her Uranus square my Mars - 1'23
Her Chiron trine my Asc - '54
Her Ceres trine my Venus - '51

9TH HARMONIC
Marriage,completion
My Sun binovile her Asc - '00
My Moon novile her Sun - '41
My Moon novile her Mars - '38
My MC quadranovile her MC - '26
Her Mercury novile my Node - '17
MC binovile her Node - '17

My Moon novile her Sun-Mars conjunction

DRACONICS

My Draconic Sun conjunct her Neptune - '00
My Draconic Saturn oppose her Asc - '42
My Draconic Pluto conjunct her MC – '25
Her Draconic Venus conjunct my Neptune - '30
My Draconic Venus oppose her Draconic MC – '36
My Draconic Moon oppose her Pluto – '34
My Draconic Sun oppose her Draconic Juno – '01
My Draconic Juno oppose her Chiron – '16
My Draconic Vertex oppose her Jupiter – '05

Direct Midpoints (Conjunction and Opposition only)

My Moon in 3'11 Pisces
conjunct her Venus/Asc in 3'16 Pisces
conjunct her Sun/Asc in 3'54 Pisces
conjunct her Mars/Asc in 3'56 Pisces

My MC in 11'14 Gemini
conjunct her Sun/Node in 10'41 Gemini
conjunct her Mars/Node in 10'42 Gemini

My Asc in 13'27 Virgo
oppose her Moon/Mercury in 14'00 Pisces

Her MC in 20'46 Scorpio
conjunct my Venus/Mercury in 20'03 Scorpio

Her Moon in 7'24 Pisces
oppose my Ceres/Pluto in 7'48 Virgo

Her Venus 11'11 Aries
conjunct my MC/Node in 10'51 Aries

I didn't list any asteroids except Ceres because it's a dwarf planet and Juno because it's a major asteroid associated with committed relationships,partnerships
I considered all the big named transneptunians , using much smaller orbs.

I am open to the use of the minor asteroids though. If you see anything on them,please feel free to share.

I like that 2 of our big 3 are compatible. Our moons are compatible by being in the same sign - Pisces. Our Ascendants are compatible by being in the same element - Earth with hers in Capricorn and mine in Virgo. Our Suns are incompatible by sign,element,gender, but they share traditional ruler Mars. I also find it interesting that our Suns aspects each other's Moons with my Sun trine her Moon and her Sun novile my Moon which is a 9th harmonic aspect. 9th harmonic is associated with marriage and completion.

2 of the 3 other personal planets are compatible. Our Mercuries are compatible by being in the same element - Water with hers in Pisces and mine in Scorpio,and they trine by aspect. Our Mars are compatible by gender with hers in Aries and mine in Aquarius. Our Venuses are incompatible by sign,element,and gender but they share traditional ruler Mars and aspect each other's Midheavens with her Venus sextile my Midheaven and my Venus conjunct hers.

My Sun exactly binovile her Ascendant is very interesting too.

Synastry only shows the chemistry between 2 people. It doesn't show if they will get together or not. There can be numerous reasons that the couple don't get together.
She's in Toronto, Canada. Distance could be a problem. However, she told me she would like to live in California one day. It seems like she would be open to relocation.

Free will is the ultimate factor

That's how I am going to approach things with Julie. She and I recently met. We're not in any relationship. She seems like a busy woman. She's even going through a Saturn Return and she is going through a lot of changes just like it shows.
I feel that I should approach things cautiously and practically. I don't want to look desperate nor aggressive. I think that showing some detachment is necessary.

Raymond

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 02, 2010 11:29 AM         

Ami

posted September 02, 2010 06:32 PM         

second, it's not a relationship though
She and I just recently met.

3rd,I first messaged her before Mercury went retrograde,and she added me on her facebook before Mercury went retrograde.

also
Just because a relationship starts during Mercury retrograde doesn't mean that a relationship can't last nor it will be bad.

Retrograde Mercury isn't necessarily a bad thing. I think that it really depends on the aspects.

I just don't share the doom and gloom view when it comes to retrograde planets. There is a lot more to retrogrades.

Retrograde objects can also indicate connections to the past....whether the past in present life or dealing with pastlives.
For instance, I have a friendship now with a guy that I haven't seen in 21 years. I actually met for the first time in 21 years over a month ago. I didn't contact in over a month. He happened to see me when I checked my mail,and we talked for a bit. http://www.cco.net/~trufax/research/Natal%20Retrograde%20Planets.pdf
http://www.planetwaves.net/cainer/archive/000490.php

Like I said before, I believe free will is the ultimate factor.

I have the book,DYNAMICS OF ASPECT ANALYSIS by Bil Tierney

He wrote the following for KEYWORDS FOR RETROGRADE PLANETS

CONSTRUCTIVE

meditative
profound
depth awareness
inner strength
reformation
humility
universal identity
self knowledge
subtle
self-attunement
reflective
spiritual power

NON-PRODUCTIVE

withdrawn
inhibited
blockage outer awareness
maladjustment
regression
timidity
thwarted self-identity
morbid self-absorption
evasive
self-undoing
repressive
health problems (often psychological)

It really depends on what an astrologer believes and practice.

Raymond

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 02, 2010 06:50 PM         

The numerology is perfect, at least the way I do it. You have birth# conjunct birth # (2), plus birth # ruler (the moon) conjunct birth # ruler in Pisces. Next you have lifepath ruler conjunct lifepath ruler in Sagittarius. Excellent aspect for long term compatibility and mutual support philosophical expansion of others.

The pSynastry tells a story of a flowing earthy relationship that may eventually get a little rough. Her pMars @ 4 Taurus opposed your nSun @ 5 Scorpio points to electricity, excitement and a buring desire to co-mingle auras. Your pVenus @ 10 Capricorn trine her pSun @ 11 Taurus highlights a comforting interchange of give and take. If either of you desired a relationship I don't see much stopping you. On top of her pSun, she also has nSun & nMars @ 12 Aries squaring your pVenus @ 10 Capricorn: by denotation this means attraction, but it also hints at a possible power struggle. For now, the Cap/Taurus link with keep the peace. But once that becomes exact, the Capri/Aries dynamic will take over.

posted September 02, 2010 06:55 PM         

I think that it lot depends on how one person goes about things during the period. I do believe that it also depends on aspects.

I wrote the following stuff about Mercury Retrograde

I checked the geocentric nodes of Mercury at the time Mercury goes retrograde. I believe that they could be relevant as they relate to Mercury's orbit.

Geocentric North Mercury Node in 9'48 Leo
conjunct Juno in 9'19 Leo

relationships,partnerships involved

Geocentric South Mercury Node in 20'03 Virgo
conjunct Mercury 19'04 Virgo

as you see,
when Mercury goes retrograde, it will be conjunct its Geocentric South Node.

That would suggest that the upcoming retrograde Mercury period is indeed related to past communications.

Mercury conjunct its own node is Maximum Effectiveness....Mercury's themes are strongly pronounced

during the moment of its retrograde,
retrograde Mercury in 19'04 Virgo
trine Geocentric South Pluto Node in 19'23 Capricorn
trine Geocentric South Saturn Node in 20'15 Capricorn

so it seems like it can be a time of uncovering past secrets,reality checks
Saturn and Pluto Nodes move very slowly,and so these nodes are collective energies,and these matters involve the collective
It would be interesting to see what comes out in the media

It looks like the retrograde Mercury will be involved in relationships with me because it will conjunct my Geocentric North Venus Node in 18'53 Virgo in 1st, trine my Geocentric South Saturn Node in 18'00 Capricorn and Geocentric South Pluto Node in 18'18 Capricorn in 5th,and sextile my Mercury in 18'21 Scorpio in 3rd. I have to get some officers and directors for the non profit organization that I started. I think that's what the retrograde Mercury period in my chart is about.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/205066.html

I joined Spiritual Networks site on August 15th,and I have over 60 people on my friend's list. All of them except for 3 people added me first.

I think the main thing with Retrograde Mercury is to be as clear and direct in your communications as possible and don't assume what people are thinking. I think that introspection and reflection before communicating in words can be a good way to deal with the Retrograde Mercury. That's what I do on a routine basis to minimize language errors connected to my Dyslexia.
I don't have a retrograde Mercury, but I do have a retrograde Saturn in Gemini in 9th that is in opposition to my Jupiter-Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd ,and that opposition squares my Moon for a t-square. Maybe my retrograde Pallas in Gemini in 9th is also similar to a retrograde Mercury in Gemini in 9th. That retrograde Pallas is oppose Neptune and square Moon for t-square.

I believe that Retrograde Mercury has to do with the need to paying attention a lot more and go over things before acting or saying something. It's time to be more thoughtful when communicating to avoid saying,writing something that was

Things that go badly during retrograde Mercury is due from human mistakes which could have been prevented with thoughtfulness.

People who have neurological processing differences like I do, every day is like Mercury retrograde. I know that it is for me.

I lost count how many times I've had my absentminded,forgetful,'ditzy" moments, and made "bonehead" mistakes as well as not using common sense.

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 02, 2010 06:58 PM         

quote:

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It really depends on what an astrologer believes and practice.

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posted September 02, 2010 07:22 PM         

The numerology is perfect, at least the way I do it. You have birth# conjunct birth # (2), plus birth # ruler (the moon) conjunct birth # ruler in Pisces. Next you have lifepath ruler conjunct lifepath ruler in Sagittarius. Excellent aspect for long term compatibility and mutual support philosophical expansion of others.

The pSynastry tells a story of a flowing earthy relationship that may eventually get a little rough. Her pMars @ 4 Taurus opposed your nSun @ 5 Scorpio points to electricity, excitement and a buring desire to co-mingle auras. Your pVenus @ 10 Capricorn trine her pSun @ 11 Taurus highlights a comforting interchange of give and take. If either of you desired a relationship I don't see much stopping you. On top of her pSun, she also has nSun & nMars @ 12 Aries squaring your pVenus @ 10 Capricorn: by denotation this means attraction, but it also hints at a possible power struggle. For now, the Cap/Taurus link with keep the peace. But once that becomes exact, the Capri/Aries dynamic will take over.

So yeah, this is what jumps out at me in this synastry. "

I appreciate your insights on that.

I am not jumping ahead of myself.
I don't see it as a relationship. I am approaching her with practicality,caution and carefulness. I am not being aggressive in any way. I think some detachment is necessary.

I am especially drawn to her spiritual qualities. I know that I am better off with a lightworker type. That's why I joined Spiritual Singles site. Even if she isn't the one, another lightworker will be the one. I need to share my life with a nonconformist,spiritually oriented woman who also believes that her path involves helping and serving others and wants to help make the world a better place. I have recently come to grips with myself as a lightworker, and I will accept whatever the Universe has in store for me. On some level,I always felt like I was a lightworker but didn't know the label for it. I am very in touch with the darkside of life because of my past experiences, and so I tend to see the duality in things. I believe that my neurodiversity advocacy,running a non profit organization (which is actually for genetic neurodivergents that can fit with Indigo,Crystal stuff), and working with the transneptunians and working with a 21st Century Astrology system are all parts of my lightworker path is about.

I am interested in Julie, but if it only turns out to just be a friendship, then I will be fine with that. There are other women like her, and so there will be other opportunities.

There is that saying "Don't put all your eggs in one basket", and I agree with that.

my next Solar Return period has the following:

next Solar Return does seem to show the potential relationship that may involve foreigners,travel

conjunction of:
Sun in 5'20 Scorpio in 9th
Venus in 5'36 Retrograde in 9th

sextile Ceres in 5'50 Capricorn in 11th
sextile Pluto in 3'18 Capricorn in 11th
sextile Lunar Nodes Stationary Direct in 4'26 Capricorn/Cancer in 11th/5th

square Ascendant in 3'57 Aquarius

There is also Mercury in 12'54 Scorpio in 9th
trine Moon in 14'23 Cancer in 6th

3 planets in 9th house in Solar Return

not sure if I will meet a gal through spiritual/religious organization, or friendships involving them or through travels, or a foreigner or maybe all of the above

9th house will be the main theme for the next Solar Return period.

The Ascendant ruler Uranus is conjunct Jupiter in 2nd trine Midheaven. The Descendant Ruler Sun is conjunct 9th house ruler Venus in 9th and square Ascendant.

Raymond

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 02, 2010 07:28 PM         

X Ami

posted September 03, 2010 02:01 AM         

These points will become factors in deciding whether you will have a long lasting friendship, a fruitful working partnership or a love relationship. The Synastry is good, a long lasting friendship is definitely on. If she is also Neuro-Divergent, the bonding would be very strong due to mutual understanding.

posted September 03, 2010 03:48 AM         

I don't know. Actually the word, neurodivergent is just a term that just means a different mind. Some Autistic Spectrum people first came up with that word to define themselves as not being disordered and not needing to be fixed. It comes from the Neurodiversity Movement which started from the Autistic Rights Movement. Neurodivergent is just a civil rights term for a person who has mental processes don't fit the norm of society. The term is mainly applied to people that have both significant strengths and significant weaknesses. According to Developmental Adult Neuro-Diversity Association (DANDA), it mainly includes Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,Autistic Spectrum,ADHD,Dyscalculia,and Tourette Syndrome.

"NDs are more likely to be 'extreme machines' than NTs, that is, they are either brilliant or useless at things and rarely mediocre. They may, on occasion, appear to be average at some tasks. However, this may be due to brilliance at one aspect being cancelled out by being useless at another aspect of the same activity."

The rules of easy and difficult tend not to work for NDs, and in many cases are actually reversed. For some, complex mathematical analysis is 'a walk in the park', whereas an actual walk in the park (if they have to cross a busy road to get there and then cannot find the exit, when they remember that they should have been somewhere else half an hour ago, and the temperature is too hot for them to cope with) can be a nightmare." http://www.danda.org.uk/pages/neuro-diversity.php

"Neuro-Diversity is often linked to enthusiasm, creativity, originality, lateral 'outside the box' thinking and the ability to take the strategic perspective (Skills desperately needed within the workplace). Attention/concentration control problems can have a positive flip-side in terms of hyper-focusing (i.e. being totally absorbed and preoccupied) and not knowing when to give up.

"Many of the world's innovators are NDs, who have found their niche. This may well be a combination of original thinking coupled with hyper-focusing resulting in achieving what may well have been considered impossible and even madness to attempt. The series Great Britons was peppered with NDs such as Churchill and Newton. NDs also make a very significant contribution in terms of art and drama. Because of having to deal with their condition, many NDs are hard working, determined and compassionate."

The world would be a poorer place if we were all NTs, as it would be if we were all NDs. The skills and talents of many NDs are complemented nicely by the organisation, implementation and multi-tasking skills that many NTs have."
http://www.danda.org.uk/pages/faq.php#question_5

For me, my neurodivergent is connected ultrasensitivity and being primarily a visual/picture thinker as well as multimensional,lateral thinker and that interferes with left hemisphere processing and ultrasensitivity. I am metaphysically oriented type too,but it's not something go around advertising. I talked to my mother,and she's the same way. It seems to run on both sides of my family.

Ron Davis Gift of Dyslexia explains about that type of mind
"Dyslexic people are visual, multi-dimensional thinkers. We are intuitive and highly creative, and excel at hands-on learning. Because we think in pictures, it is sometimes hard for us to understand letters, numbers, symbols, and written words.

We can learn to read, write and study efficiently when we use methods geared to our unique learning style."

He was referring to the neurodivergent spectrum as Dyslexia as he recognized the overlapping traits that the neurodivergent conditions have with each other. He has both Dyslexia and Autism http://www.dyslexia.com/

People that are neurodivergent can easily relate to the Indigo,Crystal stuff. I have talked to some,and they even said that.

I wrote a critique about Neurodivergent or Indigo.
I share many of the traits that Doreen Virtue wrote about Indigos in her book, The Care And Feeding Of The Indigo. I picked up the book because I could relate to so much of it. I'd say that I was more Crystal-like in early chilhood, and I became more Indigo-like after special education therapies
that helped me develop good language and motor skills. Just looking at my chart,anybody can see that I can strongly relate to these traits.
My best friend who is shaman is also neurodivergent with Dyslexic,Dyspraxic,ADHD traits that has been in special education classes. He doesn't believe that Indigo,Crystal people are in all generations and doesn't just apply to a certain generation. http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=131944976821905&v=app_23 73072738#!/topic.php?uid=131944976821905&topic=136

the type of neurodivergence that I am talking about fits with twice/dual exceptional

Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD,and Aspergers Syndrome are some of the most common forms of learning difficulties linked to dual exceptionality. Sensory Processing Disorder is to, but that tends to overlap with all 4 of those neurodivergent conditions. I have Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD , and I have ultrasensitivity that would get labeled "sensory processing disorder" http://www.giftedkids.ie/dual.html

Psychiatry don't recognize the metaphysical. They would say that people with psychic and metaphysical experiences are schizophrenic,psychotic. In his book on Neurodiversity, Thomas Armstrong included schizophrenia, arguing that it may just be different type of mind.

If I bared my soul to psychiatrists, I'd be diagnosed as psychotic,schizophrenic. It was bad enough that I was diagnosed as schizoaffective bipolar disorder because of my speech irregularities connected to my neurodivergent speech. My father was diagnosed as a paranoid schizophrenic, but he is a metaphysically oriented neurodivergent just like me. From what my mom told me, he was highly superstitious. He was raised in the home that involve belief in magick and spirits. He came from the Black Creole culture in Louisiana where he was born and raised. Interestingly, he had Moon in Pisces just like me. He even had stationary retrograde Neptune. My mom did describe him as "real real sensitive" He also had speech,coordination,and auditory irregularities like I have. He was the more extreme neurodivergent out of my parents.

There is also the Edison Gene/DRD4 7R Gene. I strongly relate to the Edison Gene/DRD4 7R stuff. It was Thom Hartmann that influenced me to see ADHD as not disorder that needs to be medicated. The problem is that there are too many causes of ADHD symptoms,and so they think that all ADHDers are the same. From what I see, I come from an Edison Gene/DRD4 7R gene family on my mom's side. http://www.thomhartmann.com/blog/2003/01/edison-gene-adhd-gifted-creative

The way the Indians viewed ADHD is very interesting. Interestingly, I have Ketu in 12th in my Vedic chart that seems to reflect their view of ADHD for Ketu is said to be a placement for potential moksha (liberation from samsara aka cycle of rebirth) connected to going through so many things including suffering. My Moon is in the 24th nakshatra, Satabisha which is ruled by Rahu and associated with deity Varuna. Interestingly, My Moon is square retrograde Varuna with 10 minutes of arc.

The whole point of my starting Developmental Adult Neurodiversity Association (DNA, suggesting genetic) is to help people with genetic neurodivergence that fit with the dual exceptional/twice exceptional,Indigo/Crystal,Edison Gene/DRD4 7R gene and help raise awareness that they have strengths and not just weaknesses. If the education system was a multisensory learning environment and not an auditory sequential learning environment as well as teachers adapting to students learning style, there would be no need for special education for people that have no intellectually handicaps. One of the objectives of DNA is to help push for education reform that would include replacing auditory sequential learning environment with a multisensory learning environment.

I wrote about genetic neurodivergence versus acquired neurodivergence

I am just coming at it from the Neurodiversity Movement perspective, wanting a middle approach. Maybe that's the reflection of my integrating my Saturn-Neptune opposition/contraparallel.

That's why I came up with the Metatron Cube Brain as the logo. It represents the complexity of the neurodivergent mind. Of course, it hints that DNA is organization for people that can relate to the Indigo,Crystal personality.

The whole point of the Neurodiversity Mmovement is promoting the belief that there is nothing wrong with neurodivergence but that society's perception of neurodivergence is wrong for it doesn't acknowledge that minds can be different and not be deficient.

I am striving to help change the perception of how people of different minds are viewed.
You could even say that I even want to be a part of a paradigm shift. Why not? I can strongly relate to this stuff in both positive and negative ways. I think my very strong transneptunian energy including especially my very strong Sun-Earth-Eris Node alignment can indicate that I am suitable for this mission. I do believe that it's part of my lightworker path. Being 21st Century system astrologer is also part of that path.

My Myers Brigg/Keirsey profile is INFP/Healer.

Even if Julie is not a neurodivergent, there can be good understanding, especially if she's an empath......she does have Moon in Pisces like me. She even has Moon-Neptune aspect like me - She has Moon quintile Neptune, and I have Moon square Neptune. She and I both have Moon sextile Sedna in common. I'd also think her Mercury in Pisces trine my Mercury in Scorpio would be good for understanding. I'd think her Moon in Pisces conjunct my Moon in Pisces and trine my Sun in Scorpio would too.

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 03, 2010 04:22 AM         

My Spiritual Singles profile says the following things that mention neurodivergence,neurodiversity advocacy,and special education:

This part of the essay questions that I answered for my profile:

Describe yourself (personality/attitude/passions/beliefs):
I was born in San Francisco and grew up in Sacramento. I was born to a black father and white mother. My whole background is Black, Portuguese,English,German, French,Italian,Puerto Rican,and Native American. I have a history of Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD. I believe in treating others like I want to be treated - a fellow human being with a soul.

Share something unusual or extra special about yourself:
I was in special education for 3 years to correct my Dyslexia,Dyspraxia. I want to spend the rest of my life helping people with special education needs. I was even told that my life purpose is to help the Indigo,Crystal children.

I started a nonprofit neurodiversity organization called Developmental Neurodiversity Association (DNA) this year in 2010. I also started Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group.

What are you most passionate about?:
Neuro-diversity Advocacy and Astrology.

Where do you see yourself 5 years from today?:
a husband,a father, and successful as a neurodiversity advocate and head of neurodiversity organization,making a profound difference in the lives of people with neurodivergence.

As a neurodiversity advocate who started a non profit neurodiversity organization that I hoped to be international, I am going to be public figure. Of course, I am going to tell everybody about my neurodivergence and everything related to it. That's the whole point of neurodiversity advocacy. I have to be true to myself and others. There can't be any "hiding in the closet"
Everyone of my profiles online mentions about my neurodivergence,neurodiversity advocacy,and the non profit organization.

It makes no sense to not tell Julie about my neurodivergence

The 2 messages that I sent to her on Spiritual Singles site were this:

1st message:
Hi

I saw your profile,and it caught my eye. I find you quite attractive. You and I also have some good astrological compatibility too. I see that you have Sun in Aries, Moon in Pisces, and Ascendant in Capricorn. I have Sun in 5'20 Scorpio trine Moon in
3'11 Pisces and Ascendant in Virgo. We have
Mars-ruled Suns in common. Mars is traditionally ruler of both Aries and Scorpio. We have Ascendants in earth
signs and Moon in Pisces in common.

I like to strike up a friendship with you,

I am on facebook http://www.facebook.com/#!/raymond.n.andrews

I am also on yahoo messenger
astynaz@yahoo.com

Raymond

My 2nd message:

Hi

I am a man looking for woman to marry,have children with,and spend the rest of my life with. I want her to be spiritually oriented and share metaphysical interests in me. I want her to accept my neurological
differences (Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD) and to support me in my neurodiversity advocacy/activism. It takes a special woman to be with me.

Do you think that you could be the one?

email:
astynaz@yahoo.com
http://www.facebook.com/#!/raymond.n.andrews

Here is me on youtube. I warn you....I sound very young. I definitely don't sound like my age of 38. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSvkhGm0qUU

and then she added me on facebook

She already knew that I was a neurodivergent by checking my profile.

I told her about my neurodivergence when I messaged her I even gave her the link to my youtube video about my neurodivergence and the non profit organization.

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 03, 2010 05:04 AM         

"I want to put all of those things together for a new 21st Century Astrological system. I have multidimensional way of perceiving things. When I look at objects, I don't see just one side. I automatically visualize all the other sides from visualization. I am mainly a visual,picture thinker. I see things in my mind's eye nonstop. The way I do Astrology reflects how I think. I believe that my Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD helps me as an astrologer.

I have strong interest in Numerology too. I also like Tarot. I also consult with Doreen Virtue angel decks. I had a reading done,and it was really insightful. I was told that my main life purpose was to help the Indigo/Crystal Children, and the card associated with that popped up. When I bought my own angel decks, The Indigo/Crystal Children card was the first one that I picked of the decks. I've taken my life purpose seriously that I recently started Developmental Neurodiversity Association (DNA,suggesting genetic) which is a nonprofit that helps people with neurological learning differences and raise awareness that they have strengths and not just weaknesses. I came up with the idea of Metatron Cube and Brain combination logo because I wanted a symbol that symbolizes the complexity of the neurodivergent mind. Metatron is said to be the archangel that specializes in helping the Indigo/Crystal Children. I think that Indigo,Crystal are mainly about ultrasensitive,metaphysically oriented,and nonconformist people that fit in with neurodivergent conditions and are gifted.

I have a Neurodiversity blog. This explains about neurodiversity,neurodivergence. It will give you some insight into what I am like. http://people.tribe.net/4b0cf8c4-1fc3-4171-92d3-b0915985bf95/blog

I am also interested in astrological indicators for neurodivergence. I'd like to write a book one day about them. http://tribes.tribe.net/neurodivergence/thread/c07da1b6-129d-4ff2-a613-3a05b4f58c4e

I was pretty honest and straightforward about my neurodivergence.

She told me that she was told that she's an Indigo too. Of course, I can totally relate to the Indigo,Crystal stuff. I was told by the Doreen Virtue angel reader that I am a lightworker,Earth Angel,and Incarnated Angel.

I now embrace the lightworker label, but I don't embrace the Earth Angel and Incarnated Angel labels. I have 5 of Doreen Virtue's books including the one on Earth Angels.

I can relate to the Knights Paladin (half angel,half wise one) the most. I even have the Arthurian Legend asteroids very strong in my chart including especially Moon conjunct Lancelot with 3 minutes of arc and Galahad square Ascendant with 10 minutes of arc. I even have an Arthur square Mercury-Camelot conjunction. Since I was a kid, I have been very interested in Arthurian Legends,Knights,Crusades,Chivalry,and anything related to it. I did join the Armed Forces, and Doreen Virtue said that Knights Paladin are drawn to the Armed Forces. Heck.......I was mainly into the Star Wars movies because of the Jedi Knights and their lightsabers. I can relate to the Star People profile. I think my interest in Astronomy,Astrology,and Science Fiction are part of it. I have been told by 2 psychics that I had pastlives on other planets that including take a few breaks from Earth in my cycle of lives.

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 03, 2010 12:29 PM         

I don't know how Mercury goes retrograde via secondary progressions

When transiting Mercury went retrograde, Mercury was in 19'03 Virgo in my 1st was sextile my Mercury in 18'21 Scorpio in 3rd

When Mercury goes direct, Mercury will be in 5'21 Virgo in my 12th will sextile my Sun in 5'20 Scorpio in 2nd and
square my retrograde Saturn in 5'08 Gemini in 9th

I've actually benefited during the retrograde Mercury period that included gaining over 60 friends at Spiritual Networks site. The DNA facebook group is doing well with 613 members in 3 months. Even some well-known neurodiversity advocates Girard Sagmiller and Mark Foster recently joined the group. They were invited months ago.

Maybe retrograde Mercury works well for spirituality and neurodiversity.

retrograde Mercury is introspective
and every day is like retrograde Mercury for people with neurodivergence

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted September 03, 2010 06:27 PM         

I am glad you met someone, and think it is great that you approach it slowly and let it evolve on its own. Us astrologers sometimes tend to jump to conclusions, but you seem very levelheaded about it, and I think that is really good.

The synastry on its own looks pretty harmonious, all in all, maybe a bit more friendship oriented than wildly passionate with all these trines and sextiles?
Also, I noticed a lot of MC-involvement, that would indicate a potentially strong soulbond, but also maybe the opportunity to work together? Or build something together?

I had to grin when I saw her Sun was tightly conjunct your Eris. How fitting!
After all you are "Mister Eris", and her Sun conjuncting it must evoke a strong resonance in you.

There also seems to be an emphasis on nurturing and caring (Moon and Ceres) as well as communication (Mercury and Haumea maybe, too? You know better than me about Haumea though. It could also be that I mistake Haumea for Makemake here, but one of them wasn`t about creativity and communication. or am I wrong about that?)

What seems to be missing a bit are Mars aspects. In addition to a very harmonious synastry otherwise it could be difficult to "get the relationship going", as maybe the drive and energy to do so is lacking, or in other words, it may develop slowly into a friendship and then from a friendship maybe into more.

The Draconic interaspects (I am referring to the Neptunian ones) indicate a spiritual theme, for both of you.
Also Draco Sun opposing Draco Juno with such a tight orb could indicate that there was a past life marriage or relationship between the two of you.
Do these Draco planets link to tropical planets? That would be the spots / places where the past life interaction "seeps" into the current incarnation.

BTW what orb do you use for the Transneptunians like Varuna or Haumea or Dwarf planet Ceres in synastry?

And am I right in that you allow 5 degrees for personal planets aspecting each other (up to Saturn I guess)?

posted September 03, 2010 06:40 PM         

tropical synastry
9th harmonic
declinations
midpoints
signbackground
Draconics