posted September 12, 2010 02:14 AM         

I think, the planet person uses the Chiron person's energy in order to heal.
So, you, as the Chiron person would be donating your energy to the DSC person.

He would be thrust in to healing wounds that involved relationships,of the partnership type.

You, also, would have wounds opened by HIS healing.

It is an interplay. Both have to agree, in a sense ,or else one will leave cuz it is too intense and painful.

That is my take on it,anyway.

posted September 12, 2010 02:54 AM         

Well I cant speak for him.. But he has come to me for advice..

But yes I have received my wounds, and Im ready to move on, so I dont have to keep feeling this..

Yes it has been intense and painful.. But I have also learned from him... I have grown from my interaction with him..

posted September 12, 2010 08:39 AM         

My mother's sun was conjunct my Chiron, exact.

She,literally ,pulled my energy from me. In fact, I would feel punched in the stomach( the 3rd chakra, I think it is) ALL the time with her

I could feel her winding herself up in a ball to say something to shock/wound me and it would hit with the force of a punch in the stomach and almost take the breath out of me.

My problems are IN the stomach chakra ,now. I have a hard time eating and if I am upset, forget it, I can't eat lol

However, that was an unequal relationship with power.

I have not had much experience with adult Chiron relationships although I have a g/f ,now, whom I love very much . I did the synastry and my Venus is in exact conjunction with her Chiron lol

My thoughts are that it CAN be good for both people in the right setting/time etc.

posted September 12, 2010 09:20 AM         

I'm not sure if this helps but - The most recent experience I have seen unfold before my eyes is that of a Aries/Pisces cusp male 'friend' who has Chiron in Gemini conjunct his gf's Sun. He has a propensity to exaggerate and tell fibs when it comes to her. I almost feel as though he is using her and the lies he concocts regarding her to receive attention from myself and other people in our social circle. He often implies that she is hurting him when she has done literally nothing to him. The worst thing is - because - he has no stories and no actual facts, he makes up events that never occurred between them.

The latest thing he made up was that they had an argument and she threw half his clothes out and locked him out in the backyard. Me and two other people were at her house n the day he claims this happened. He showed up drunk and went to bed. That was all!! But he thinks allll of this drama happened. Very delusional.

He says - she abuses him and allllllllllll of this BS. I can't believe she still puts up with it.

I'm not sure whether this is just his case or whether the Chiron aspect is the troublemaker here.

But at least in this case he (the Chiron) is being very spiteful. I doubt making up 'dramatic' stories to get attention is a Chiron thing though. That maybe Pisces/Neptune in his chart.

:edit: I remembered another situation. Her Mercury was conjunct his Chiron. She often pretended they were in a relationship, when he barely knew her. They worked together for about 6 months so they had a professional relationship and were aquaintances, but this woman made up a whole life time with him - that never existed and made up feelings that he never had for her.

He tried to be nice to her so she understands he simply does not feel the same way, but she would not have it. Her reaction was that he is lying to her and everyone else.
She was just obsessively convinced that he cared about her WAY more than was the case. It was a little creepy.

Also - when he was honest with her and told her how he felt - she basically reacted as though he DID something to her. As though his rejection was him purposely trying to harm her. She simply could not take being rejected. He had nothing against her at all. He was a nice enough guy, just not interested in her in that way. She was simply not his cup of tea and he felt they had not much in common - which frankly, I could understand knowing both of them. I wonder if Chiron can instil delusion.
(On the other hand - to keep it unbiased - this particular girl was a little full of herself. So in general, she probably thought no one should ever reject her, since she is perfection personified.)

posted September 12, 2010 01:01 PM         

IDk I've been thinking and I really cant decided it we wounded each other or healed each other... Its hard to say..

The relationship ended due to "other circumstances" which we was the cause of..

He is probably wounded because Im not willing to accept the circumstances, I feel he is at fault and knew the consequences if his behavior continued. He just expected me to always be there..
Im standing my ground here.. I will not let it go..

posted September 12, 2010 01:05 PM         

Then, you can add the part that Chiron is the wounded healer whose wounds never heal --in the myth.

So, perhaps, when they are opened , they simply ooze and hurt but never heal.

I am just throwing things out cuz I am no expert in Chiron lol

I have a new friendship, now, with my Chiron on her Venus so I will let you know

posted September 12, 2010 01:15 PM         

So, in synastry, the Chiron person is 'denied' the planet or point aspected in the other's chart but provides this to the other. Relationships with Chiron are considered extremely spiritual and karmic but too many Chiron aspects can feel like a burden to the Chiron person. It is like your energy is being leeched away by the other person. Unless the planet person is willing to learn the spiritual lessons involved and become self-dependent or the Chiron can learn to deal with it as a way to pay off their karmic debts, the relationship will eventually begin to feel like a burden and Chiron may end it while the planet wonders what went wrong.

[Speaking as Chiron]

posted September 12, 2010 01:18 PM         

That was brilliant .

Should I give you my U tube link?

posted September 12, 2010 01:25 PM         

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZtbASCE7ZY

posted September 12, 2010 01:35 PM         

x o x
Ami

OK Here is another one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5wQeBLQ194&feature=related

posted September 12, 2010 01:45 PM         

He was the only one in the family with common sense, in a way,like a basic street smarts.
He was a Virgo Sun with Mars in Cap.

I want to feel guilty about that but planets are given by a Higher Authority than we.

posted September 12, 2010 03:56 PM         

I am thinking about that in relationship to my Mother whose Sun was conjunct my Chiron

I don't think I will ever heal the wound she inflicted on me, not totally.
Is that part of what you mean?

The Chiron person will get nothing but continual hurt while the planet person COULD get healing???

posted September 12, 2010 04:00 PM         

The Sun, who was conjunct my Chiron, inflicted (or woke up) an eternal wound in me, and these scars will be with me forever.
But at that point I am now, I can see, that even though it hurt, this is a part of me now, and it helped deepening my personality.
It made me the person I am today, and I wouldn`t want to be someone else!
I am actually thankful for the wound I received, as I learned so much in the process!