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Topic: Marriage Proposal
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jane
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posted September 21, 2010 04:13 PM
  
Betty -I have been wanting to visit Australia for years now.  quote:
Let me know if you want me to delete this.
You're too cute, you know that?  No need to delete anything. I'm not deleting that post bc of privacy reasons, but instead bc it has no place in this thread. This is your proposal thread and I wrote a huge @ss reply about MY ex. You know, cuz I'm self-absorbed. Too bad I can't delete the moments in my life when I'm acting that way.  quote:
This bride is definitely a Leo - She spent $6000 on her wedding dress and even had fireworks at her wedding
 Ew.
What kind of wedding do you want? I wonder what in our chart shows the way we like to party. I think it's a Venus/Moon/5th house mix. edit: Oh and Sun. I keep forgetting the Sun. quote:
Actually in my syn. - his Sun is opposite my Vertex. What would that mean? Is the anti-vertex unlucky?
NO! Where'd you read that? Bullsh1t Astrology? Well, I hope it's not unlucky since I have that natally. But really, it's not. On either end, vertex contact is powerful. I think both people feel it wherever it's happening, but maybe in different ways. The way it works could be akin to Asc-Dsc contact with a "fated" feel. Palm reader...went once when I was a teenager. What she said has sorta come true. Did you two go? IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 21, 2010 04:18 PM
Ami - quote:
I wanted to skate above life :make it fairy tale and most especially push my own issues down.
That type of raw connection is like a Pluto experience.
It shows you who you are and what you are made of.
I completely understand! Socially I was like that when I was younger. It was only with a love interest where I felt the compulsion to completely lay myself bare for another. The wiser part of me didn't like feeling too in control with a guy, bc I knew in those scenarios I would never dig deep and share the parts of me that needed some help. IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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posted September 21, 2010 05:01 PM
a conjunction to the antivertex is similar to a conjunction to the ascendant for antivertex is an auxilliary ascendant just like the east point Raymond
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No..I am not a Virgo. Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group.
http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=131944976821905&ref=ts IP: Logged |
bunnies
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posted September 21, 2010 05:19 PM
You know I think you might be in danger of overthinking this.
I got married spontaneously..several times
I know that might not sound like the best advice from a woman whose marriages didn't work out but I don't regret them.
Not at all.
In fact I think they lasted much longer because I didn't overthink them.
I had no expectations.
I was free and open to see how they worked out.
Don't analyse all the joy from your life.
I say plunge in Betty Boop.
Plunge in.
Say "Right fella. If you're serious let's do it now!
Don't kill it with monogrammed invites,choregraphed first dances and Aunty Vi getting snotty because she was only invited to the evening do.
This guy sounds like he is fearless.
I like him already.
Don't squeeze the fearlessness out of him.
He has no doubts.
Isn't that just the nicest thing anyone could feel for you?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted September 21, 2010 05:21 PM
I must be crazy but I believe getting married on the spur of the moment is so romanticIt's definitely a Uranian thing to do IP: Logged |
bunnies
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posted September 21, 2010 05:32 PM
Lonake we need to be the bridesmaids.
We can shove her up the aisle all the while she is muttering
"Perhaps I should think this through"
We can be like "Yeah yeah Betty. Shift your ass. We're losing daylight here!Make way people! Bride in a hurry coming through IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted September 21, 2010 05:35 PM
His Moon in Aqua totally makes sense with this  Maybe her Sun/Moon mp is in Aquarius??
..............bettyboop, is it conj his moon? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 21, 2010 07:42 PM
(editing, because it's off-topic, but hi Ami.  )IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 21, 2010 07:52 PM
You know I understand totally ((Teasel))))------------------
Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 21, 2010 11:26 PM
DD - bunnies -
I vehemently disagree!  By waiting, she's not overthinking it. She's feeling it. If she rushed into marriage before she felt like he was who she wanted to spend her life with, she'd be operating from her head not her heart. So you and Lonake can be the bridesmaids. But if Betty's heart isn't in it, I'll be the one in the crowd who objects. I'll do it, I swear! And I'll be completely wasted as I do it. No one wants that. Me rambling on about Fire and passion. It's nauseating enough in written form. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 21, 2010 11:30 PM
It must be wonderful to have someone feel that way about you, but I wouldn't go for it if I wasn't feeling the same way. IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 21, 2010 11:30 PM
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His Moon in Aqua totally makes sense with this
His 7th house Uranus and Aries cnj too! I find sudden weddings romantic too. (As long as love is prompting it. I'm such a stickler. ) Oh, and that Uranus right on the Comp Dsc. They're probably married already! IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 21, 2010 11:40 PM
teasel -Yeah, me neither. People get married for their own reasons & that's cool. If being in love doesn't matter, that's fine for that person. I just don't think wanting to feel in love is overthinking it. On the contrary, I find that the antithesis of intellectualizing a relationship. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 21, 2010 11:43 PM
I understand. I didn't think otherwise, because it is their own business. (And I could just see the above posts playing out.) I used to think that, if I had the money, and I ever got married, I would probably buy plane tickets for the people closest to me, arrange a wedding somewhere pretty, and just go for it. I don't take things like that lightly, so I would have to be sure. Another family member had everything planned when she was fourteen, just waiting for the right man to come along, eventually. She had a whole file for her home, a wedding, and anything else that was important to her. ) IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 21, 2010 11:50 PM
Would you join me in the objection? Or would you go sinking in the pew acting like you don't know me? All while making a cuckoo motion & pointing at me?
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teasel
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posted September 21, 2010 11:55 PM
I might. (Is my Pisces Mars showing? )I'd probably jump out next to her when she was on her way down the aisle, asking her if she's really sure, which could lead to a dust-up worthy of Bridezillas, given all the pushing and pulling going on. (Not really - no dust-ups. I probably would. I'd make it clear beforehand, as well, but I'm a big sister. I had to learn to back off at times, and trust my sister to make the right decisions for her life, and I'd be there for her if it fell apart, or she was miserable - but that goes without saying. So, I waver, but I can't keep my mouth shut if something bothers me that much. ) IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 22, 2010 12:08 AM
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asking her if she's really sure
So diplomatic and sane. I'd spray her with my champagne gun, only to find that I'd already drained it (the source of my intoxication). I know we're kidding. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 22, 2010 12:19 AM
Bunnies' post actually had me thinking, briefly, but then I stayed with my own feelings.(I *just* got the cuckoo thing. I'm really not with it tonight. I think I need to go to bed now. ) IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 22, 2010 12:36 AM
I probably worded it poorly.Good night!  Too bad you're hitting the sack. I'm working on something that will take me all night so I'll be popping in here periodically.
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Betty Boop
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 23, 2010 07:35 AM
Guys - Thank YOU so much for your advice!You crack me up!! I feel like making a comic on this extra entertaining wedding scenario - with Bunnies and Lonake dragging me off to the altar, while Jane is drunkenly objecting and Teasel tries to talk me out of it hehehehe
Jane
I've been extremely busy today - I'm still working now lol Sorry I can't reply properly IP: Logged |
Aries_girl
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posted September 24, 2010 06:47 PM
I just wanted to say my comments too. This is my first post here...so I would like to start with a happy post...
His sun conj your venus, an aspect that leads to the marriage often...
your sun rising is aries and his ascedant is aries too. compabatibily between you. Your venus conj his asced.
your venus and his moon=positive aspect
his sun and your moon=positive aspect
he has uranus in his 7th house, that's why he proposed to you suddenly.
I wish you the best!IP: Logged |
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