posted October 05, 2010 08:05 AM            

In synastry, I have Pluto /Venus, Pluto/Mars and Pluto/Moon

I think I can feel the differences in them.

posted October 05, 2010 08:17 AM            

This one does not have the ego combativeness feel of the Mars/Pluto square.
It would be grand passion like when Rhett picked Scarlett up and took her up the stairs lol

posted October 05, 2010 08:23 AM            

This one is a feeling I have never had. It has all of the power of the Pluto square Mars but not the combativeness.
To me ,it feels tender like when you saw your baby for the first time or when you loved someone so dearly your heart swelled.
This I have only had for a very few people: my grandmother and my children.
It is a combination of very tender and very powerful.
This would be when you want to just sit and touch his face ,wash his hair or give him a bath like a baby lol

I feel like I can separate them and the different feelings/senses they give like various spices or different flavors.

posted October 05, 2010 09:45 AM            

Fenia...Mars/Venus is just raw atttraction. Sort of like when you see someone and they are just unbelievably attractive to you for what ever reason...you know the kind where you are like OMG..he is so ******* hott!..And when he smiles at you or give you attention you just absolutely swoon and it takes months..sometimes years (or maybe only a week if he is a loser..lol...) before the butterflies in your stomach calm down. Its almost like you cant say no to them if you wanted to.
Here is a good example...you know those dates you go on and you kiss them on the cheek and thank them for a nice date. But you dont want them to come in. You will probably ask them out on another date or accept the invitation if they do, but your intent on taking it slow, at least that what you tell yourself...when actually you just arent really attracted to him.
Ok well Venus/Mars is that date where you are so enamored with them the entire date and you think they are so hot that by the time you get alone you can barely contain yourself and when you finally kiss...its like fire.
I find that no Venus/Mars connection make it hard for you to find fulfillment in the relationship even if you do find them attractive physically...its then usually one sided...where he is just "not that into you", for whatever reasons he finds or vice versa...its just not there Energetically, and you find out pretty quickly.
I can promise you, you will never forget the sex you had with a Mars/Venus conjunction though even if you go your seperate ways this is the one you will always say you had "amazing sex" with.
In the long term it can be a little harder to maintain as a stand alone Energy than Venus/Pluto passion for longevitity as it has to be constantly approached from a higher dimension...only looking at it in the 3rd dimension can cause either of you to mishandle the inherent intensity of your attraction...it stands that even if this person isnt physically your ideal. You wont care...you will still think they are hot...Mars embodies the masculine and Venus the feminine so naturally the Mars has more control here...but all the factors must be considered in the chart because I find that it can go either way...all the same its still noted that someone takes the lead and 80 percent of the time is Mars.

Pluto-Venus has a slightly different feel. Its more emotional. So right off the bat you can see that this connection will take you deeper, while Venus/Mars allows you to stay surface and may even inhibit you from going deeper because you are caught up in all the hotness...Pluto-Venus is designed to push past the hotness...this is the person that hold you after sex, not because they are cuddling even if its what they think it is..its really because the subconsciously want to possess you but dont get me wrong there is comfort in being wanted. Here Pluto has the all the control though...Mars and Venus may be 60/40.....Pluto-Venus is more like 75/25...thats why I feel that this one is better handled as a DW...it feels better when both have the power that way there is more balance. Because Pluto here can see right through to the heart of who Venus is...nothing is hidden...and with that ability comes the ability to control for better or for worse and often times especially in 3D consciousness it is for worse.
This tie is found more in Soulmate/Twinflame relationships because it is necessary for the channel of transformation and regeneration...death and rebirth on a spiritual level is constantly happening here. And thats what Soulmate/Twinflame relationships are all about. They are a vehicle for the fast track of your souls growth, because they deepen over time and the depth seals the bond by teaching both the meaning of unconditional love... To have these connections in Synastry is and earned gift I feel because of its Karmic implications.. Venus-Mars connections spin tires...its fun for the moment but does nothing really for your soul growth besides opening your 8th Chakra up. Here Venus is refined through the alchemy of Pluto and learns exactly what love is and is not and Pluto tends to have a more obsessive quality in there attraction than Venus but Venus adores the attention... Pluto here must face all of his darker issues and lots of realease work must be done so that he is able to transmute his lower level Energies or else be at the mercy of them and stifle what could have been his ticket to ascension.

Hope this helps you...they are my two favorite connections in Synastry..I prefer to have both...here is a simple analogy incase I totally confused you...

Venus/Mars- Quickie...wham bam thank you mam...
Venus/Pluto- They make love..slow and tender, hard and long..

Either way if you have one or more of these connections in your Synastry or Composite your gonna have good sex.

posted October 05, 2010 09:49 AM            

I was getting sucked into your description. Absolutely on spot for me.

posted October 05, 2010 09:59 AM            

This was the impression I got back. I was lying in bed next to the person I love. I was looking in to his eyes but I was whole, authentic in who I was.
I felt that sense of strength, groundedness, centeredness in myself that I used to have so long ago.
I know where I want to go. I will know when I get there.
Then, I will be ready for the powerhouse of energies that the synastry has.
Pluto is not for the faint of heart.You need to have your feet on the ground so when the tidal wave washes over you, you are still standing.

posted October 05, 2010 01:52 PM            

I want to hear your view on this. It`s like hearing a great, intense, truthful story. So I am just leaning back for now.

BTW one musical actor has some of these constellations with my chart.

His Venus conjunct my Venus
his Venus square my Pluto
his Mars square my Venus
his Mars conjunct my Pluto exact
his Eros conjunct my Venus exact

posted October 05, 2010 04:38 PM            

With Guy1 I had the Venus/Pluto conj we also had
Psyche opp Eros
Pluto conj Mars

posted October 05, 2010 09:50 PM            

I have this with an ex cancer guy...

his venus sq my mars
my venus sq his pluto
his sun sq my pluto...

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Looking back I WAS the aggressive one... It was an immediate attraction.. We literally saw each other from across the room, and locked eyes.. It was very intense...

After great bedroom play
He would just spoon me allll night, saying he didnt want to let go...

That was over 13 years ago..... Ironically we just started talking again.. I found him on FB.... We have been talking everyday since...
He has also looked for me over the years..

posted October 05, 2010 10:07 PM            

I had looked for him b4 of FB, but never found him... He just recently signed up.. Bam there I am... I guess its time to finish it... It's also a "good" time for both of us... He found me before, but I was married.. So I didnt reconnect with him.. I told him no...

His anti vertex sits on my Mars
his NN conjuncts my MC
his eros conjuncts my Chiron

I'll check the other vertex/NN aspects later..

Only two trines everthing else is squares (O LORD)

I dont hit his Saturn at ALL... I thought we wouldnt want to see me again...