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Topic: Being insecure
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glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 05, 2010 11:45 PM
 
What aspects in synastry would make someone that normally feels pretty confident with the opposite sex feel insecure/vulnerable???
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seeleah
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From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 05, 2010 11:57 PM
you know..I felt this hardcore with my ex boyfriend until I did some massive energy work around it...but my feeling is..something to do with pluto/moon/saturn....i could be totally wrong, and of course in bad aspects...*shrugs* I will be following this thread! thanks! Maybe venus..but I am thinking more moon. IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 12:00 AM
When he touches your Saturn for sure...either draconically or natal.. Squares, Oppositions, Inconjunctions, does this person make any aspects to your Saturn with any of the placements?IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 12:07 AM
Well there is Venus conj Saturn but here is our synastry...  IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 12:14 AM
Do you see his Moon/Jupiter opposition which acutally is not a bad placement squaring his Venus...this sits on your Saturn.
This a Cardinal Energy, but what Im not understanding is that your Jupiter is there too...this should balance out the feelings of insecurities so actually Im thinking the issue is with you..because your Jupiter/Saturn conjunction squares your Mercury...what is it he doing that makes you feel insecure?IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 12:35 AM
Just the way that he talks...I feel like if I ask him questions about what's going on in his life, he is real talkative and when I talk about me or my life, I get no response. He also doesn't compliment too much...you're right it could be just me but I'm used to having it go smooth w the opposite sex and with him I feel transparent (best word to describe). I know he does care about me...just doesn't have a way with words!! IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 12:50 AM
Your Venus is affected here too...I may be wrong...but I feel like this is the Universe showing you what you do to yourself.Do you compliment yourself....when you get dressed up or do your hair, do you truly like it?
Do you think you are pretty?
Because if you did you wouldnt need a compliment...and then you would get them because your conifidence would shine through and the Law of Attraction would come into play and you would attact compliments. When we want something in your case a compliment...the Universe is not going to give it to you its going to give you just the opposite until you say enough and start to give it to yourself ...it mirrors back to you that which you do hence the saying you reap what you sow. So you have opitions here...you can examine yourself...do you compliment him?
If not then perhaps you should start and watch and see wont he start complimenting you...this is because Energy works like Ouroboros...it gives back to you what you put out....OR...you can find another man, especially if you see that he is not complimenting you because he is just not secure enough in himself to give you what you need to be happy.
I personally know I am done with men who "dont have a way with words"...******** ....he is just stingy with his words and Im gonna be the one to shut that **** down and show him that he is wrong so that he can either change and grow or move on and prey on the next victim because I am not a victim...but thats just me...  There is always another man waiting out there when you love yourself. Funny how that works. IP: Logged |
glamgem25
Knowflake Posts: 615
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 11:53 AM
Yes, like I said in the beginning, I am a confident woman. I am happy with my looks and normally have no problem with getting compliments, etc. I give him so many compliments lol it's crazy!! He's always calling with his problems and I'm always trying to build him up and make him feel better. Even when I'm sick or in a bad mood, I never feel like I can be ugly to him so I'm always nice!! So I think does he really care or am I his shrink? lol I know I make him feel good about himself. IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 11:56 AM
Yeah...then its some sort of an Energy trap, designed to pull you into lower level emotions.What is that you do like about him? That keeps you there despite his being a douche bag...(cant stand guys that dont see the beauty in a woman)
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 06, 2010 11:56 AM
Is this the Mista we were talking about on Yahoo  ------------------
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glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 02:44 PM
Yes this is "that" darn Libra. I guess what I like about him is his seriousness and maturity. Doesn't cross the line in conversations. He loves his home life and is a very hard worker both at home and for work. He reminds of an old man sometimes lol, set in his ways but its cute to me. Different from what I normally see in men! IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
Knowflake Posts: 732
From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 02:54 PM
Gotcha...was your father like this?IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 02:56 PM
No not at all IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 06, 2010 03:24 PM
OK ,Glam, now I have a context for him. I can think about it some more .------------------
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oneruledbymars
Knowflake Posts: 732
From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 03:33 PM
Thats wild glam....he obviously has some type of hold on your despite the fact that you dont like how your being treated.
Perhaps this is a situation where you stay in the moment and see what happens...IP: Logged |
glamgem25
Knowflake Posts: 615
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 04:46 PM
Well I should say also that he is not ALWAYS like this....that's why I posted another thread about moody mars in cancer/asc because he gets in these moods and being a Libra sun it's a whole lot of back and forth. When it's good it's great!! I know Ami told me that mars in cancer people always side step their way to everything even when attracted so I give him the benefit of the doubt I guess and feel like there is really something there underneath it all IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 04:47 PM
So what aspects would show this? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 06, 2010 04:53 PM
Mars in Cancer : Picture a sideways moving crab trying to make the moves on you  ------------------
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glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 08:03 PM
lol Ami!! ok ok!! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 06, 2010 08:05 PM
Picture a sideways moving crab chasing you AROUND the sofa ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 06, 2010 08:11 PM
I didn't MEAN to make you feel badly or joke at anyone's expense.
Mars in Cancer just cracks me up cuz I have it and it is such an annoying placement ------------------
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1437
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 06, 2010 08:17 PM
I can talk on Yahoo if you are still there, Glam .------------------
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amowls*
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From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 08:47 PM
I wonder what's going on in the composite. Is there are lot of 6th house action? If there is a lot of stuff going on in the 6th house, one party will feel used (even if that's not really the case). IP: Logged |
glamgem25
Knowflake Posts: 615
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2010 08:50 PM
Ami-no I know you were kidding, lol no biggie. I signed off to make dinner. Back now though. Here is the composite amowls....  IP: Logged |
glamgem25
Knowflake Posts: 615
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2010 01:05 PM
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