posted November 14, 2010 08:39 PM         

and on the back:
"49% Nasty
DON'T PUSH ME"

posted November 14, 2010 08:51 PM         

I didn't expect to get so much input on my marriage. People usually tell me, "Talk to him" and that's it. But I've talked and talked and talked.

My husband and I were married through family, so arranged. i knew him for 2 weeks before we got married.

He was like this the whole relationship. And about good nature, I always have the hope he'll change.

Cold juice,not coffee. sorry for the confusion.

I've also had detachment issues with my dad. it's where my doormat actions come from. Sometimes, any attention from a man is needed.

I agree, i need to leave. I guess I just have to get my footing. My kids are really little, and I haven't been employeed since 2006. I was an accountant on Wall street in Manhattan. But not the exchange, just the street.
Whenever I'd tell anyone my occupation, my beautiful husband would always chime in "not the REAL Wall street."
My moon is in Taurus. Never had a stable relationship with a man, including daddy. So, just imagine the wreck that is me.

posted November 15, 2010 02:37 AM         

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Then why not just tell someone, It's none of your business, Boop?

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Not everyone takes well to this.
Sometimes – it’s best not to say that.. depending on whether you need the person in the future (e.g. for references etc.)

:edit: And sometimes the other person will catch on and think you have a secret - if you say "it's none of your business" and they can become nosier and nosier in an effort to figure it out. So it saves time to lie. :edit:

I don't lie to close family members and I don't lie about things that *do* concern the other person.

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esheep -

I'm really sorry you're going through this. I know it hurts because people like your husband make life seem meaningless. I agree with the posters who told you to end things. Your marriage sounds suffocating. I think maybe you need someone who gets you on a deeper emotional level (your husband probably doesn't). Do you have incompatible Moons?

Sorry things ended up this way though. Fate sometimes bursts your bubble. I'm a hopeless day dreamer so I should know LOL

posted November 15, 2010 10:23 AM         

I consider myself "Broken up" with the neighbor. I haven't yet seen him, so who knows what those eyes of his will do to me. But I'm going to be strong, as I think this topic particularly helped me realize that he's probably happy with his life, isn't looking for the connection that I guess I am looking for, and was just playing games, eagerly accepting any ego boosts I dealt to him.

For now, he's something I need to overcome. right?

posted November 15, 2010 11:42 AM         

You are married, he has a kid, and so flirting or being friendly is ok but perhaps he just thinks that he shouldn't go too far ?

Scorpios have mental boundaries, we can be crap but we respect people and relationships. I will erase someone off my mind if they had a girlfriend ! Even if they still wanted to keep seeing me !

Have you ever thought of divorce ?