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Topic: Doing the Aquarian dance
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Cynnared
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posted November 28, 2010 06:40 PM
  
DIANA.........I will strongly agree to DISAGREE with you response to my statement and leave it at that. What you say I really do not find to have any truth in it and no more response is needed from this to me please. Done here.IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted November 28, 2010 06:49 PM
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DIANA.........I will strongly agree to DISAGREE with you response to my statement and leave it at that. What you say I really do not find to have any truth in it and no more response is needed from this to me please. Done here.
Oh my...psycho much? My response was my insight into it, being an aqua myself, and it wasn't rude in any way towards you unlike this post I quoted from you... Bunnies also reiterated what I said about aqua behavior, but that's besides the point. Your harsh way of responding to me was so over the top and unmerited. It's actually a little weird.
I will respond to a post where I am singled out and shouted at and I have every right to do so.
Go take a breather...or a valium. IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 06:53 PM
Everyone needs to RELAX.You guys just misunderstood each other (which is usualy the case over the INTERNET). Come on girls!! Lets stay on topic   IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 28, 2010 07:58 PM
IDK... Something doesnt seem right... If she wont get together in person. I strongly feel suspicious....
1. Is she committed to some one else..
2. She is waiting to find out what happens with someone else..
3. She doesnt want to... But my leo says thats just not enough attention... lol... I wonder how much do your really know about her? Do you know where she lives? What her life is like?? Sorry if this sounds rude, but I cant help but think of the negative here.. Its best for you to be the better judge of that... I say if she doesnt want to spend time with you, SOMEONE will.... IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 08:10 PM
lol I know where your coming from but yes I DO know where she lives, I know where she works, I brifly know about her family and she has major fam issues. Her dad and her mum live under the same roof but DETEST each other. He dad used to beat her mum and was a cheater and he hates him at the same time loves him, her mum has a gambling addiction, I just think shes very lonely and like shes told me before when she gets home "she goes straight into her room, lays on her bed hugging her piggy and lays there thinking about how she can make her life better and how she can get out of the shithole shes living in" thats EXACTLY how she said it to me.I know she has some sort of issue at home because she's always complaning that she has family dramas.. But I just dont understand the avoiding seeing me. See I used to see her twice a week when we'd have class together till she dropped out. Even for about 5 weeks BEFORE she dropped out she would come to class but wouldnt care about what was going on, wouldnt pay attention, she'd just sit there browsing the internet and she'd be like you know im only still coming for you and to see you thats the only reason I havent left.. and ofcourse, I didnt believe her. Even when shed be around me I could tell she was nervous and would kinda try to impress me with her stories like she'd give off an image of "dont mess with me" attitude and she'd always talk about the things she owned (property etc) - I think thats her venus in cap talking i've read that they try to impress you with their materialistic gain.. F*ck now im thinking twice about all this.. What do i DOOOOOO!!!!!! I hate going back and forth on my decisions but fk I cant help it IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 08:12 PM
I do have the attention of others. An aries AND a sag are chasing me (I was with the aries on friday night) but because I know they want me and theyre chasing me im interested BUT im not pursuing them because theyre pursuing me. The aqua catches my attention and ignites my interest way more than the other two BECAUSE she is so hot and cold and I dont know what to do with her and because she's playing hard to get - IF thats what shes playing at.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 28, 2010 08:57 PM
Ahhh I love hearing when I guy is infatuated... I dated one gem, I feel for him.. LIKE WOW!! He didnt chase me and I didnt chase him, we just got together... But NOW that I read your post he did show up, where ever I was at, on the weekends.... I loved that... But Im a Leo... So maybe my opposite Aqua wouldnt... He would also leave me hour long messages on my Voice mail... I sooo loved that... We had alot of fun together... Very playful with each other.... U need a LEO.... LOL.. joking.... My advice is dont push to hard.. Keep contacting her, but dont pressure her.. If she's having problems with her family.. maybe u can get her to open up to you about it... Try to have deep conversations with her... UR a GEM shouldnt be a prob! lol IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 09:04 PM
lol yea I showed up once at her work and she FREAKED although she seemed happy but it was funny because I walked her back to her stop and we caught the train together and she was talking REALLLYYYYYYYYY fast (and wouldnt shut up) I barely got a word in and like she was all nervous hahaha wouldnt look me STRAIGHT in the eye and sometimes she would?? She made ME nervous. Anyway and one night I showed up at the club I knew she'd be at and let me tell you, she LOVEEEEDDDD that! lolYea i've been with a Leo before it was good some of my good friends are leos. You guys are cool! Although DEFINATELY egotistical  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 28, 2010 09:17 PM
EGOTISTICAL! What a Leo egotistical!! Never....lolI would prob flip if you showed up at my job also... lol.... NOT the job dude.. not the job... But at the club.. Yeah that was cool... IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted November 28, 2010 09:40 PM
okay here's what i think is going on..i'm an aqua woman and my last boyfriend has libra rising and moon in the 7th. i don't really do the things your aqua does exactly (but i have a taurus moon in the 4th; i'm pretty fond of commitment), but i think i still have some relvant insight. could be, MAY be that she is just waiting for you to be assertive with her. i know my libran-oriented ex drove me nuts with his bending over backwards; accomodation and vacillation. maybe the problem is she interprets this as either a certain lack of interest or lack of backbone. i also thought he was so sweet for being this way BUT more than anything i just wnated him to grab me and say 'LOOK i love you, i want this, let's do this!' instead of always looking to MY feelings and needs. i spent a hell of a lot of time mentally trying to figure him out because i never knew what was accomodation and whether that accomodation was out of love or fear or what. he never really spoke up, or if he did, he'd go right back to accomodation all of the time. also, just a thought, but maybe she's waiting for you to PROVE you love her and be free from your other attachments, again to know you are serious about her. just my opinion, but aquarius, though detached, is still pretty posessive, in my experience. IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 09:45 PM
LOL she didnt flip she was just heaps surprised/shocked but took it alright from the looks of it and the only reason I did was because I was AROUND her area where she works that day so I thought id be 'romantic' lol and surprise her and go to lunch..But yea IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 10:03 PM
Woah Cakes: I think you MAY be right I sometimes as well get the feeling she wants me to do that, grab her and be like ITS LIKE THIS AND THAT and im NOT taking no for an answer. I did that to her ONCE and she tried every excuse in the book to try and get out of here I was like, im not going to take any ****** excuse you throw at me, if I gotta sit out here in the rain till 10pm well then so be it but im NOT leaving without seeing you. And she was like okay where r u? and then I thought shed be ****** off but surprisinly she wasnt and she greated me normally kissed me on the cheek acted normal but wouldnt shut up and kept talking really fast I barely got a word in lol. It was cute Its my libra moon & rising that makes me so like 'accomodating' and I HATE IT but it makes me kinda lets say 'scared' to be aggressive with her (trust me I want to be) because I dont know how she'll take it. And yes maybe she has doubts about me I mean on facebook I have a LOT of girls commenting me and asking when there going to see me next etc and like I said I KNOW she checks through my facebook since she's got me as a favourite and bookmarked on her phone.. So what take action? Be aggressive and dont take no for an answer? IP: Logged |
amowls*
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posted November 28, 2010 10:06 PM
I'm an Aqua and I do all the things that she's doing to you when I like the guy as a FRIEND and don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him that I just don't like him as a ROMANTIC PARTNER.Clues:
-Not hanging out with you 1 on 1
-Making an excuse to not talk to you and say that I'm doing errands
-Being evasive about questions pertaining to whether or not I like you
-Not contacting you for weeks but still glad to see you when I'm out It's kind of obvious to me, idk. IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 10:07 PM
And yea sometimes i'll be aggressive BUT i'll go back to accomodating her and it ****** me off that im this way because from how shes acting she doesnt deserve to be accomodated OR my niceness!I always want to know how SHE feels and I dont do things based on how I feel its like im scared to kind of tell how what I REALLY want because I dont know how she'll take it? I never had a problem until this aqua but im learning a lot about myself through this situation. IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 10:12 PM
Amowls I know and believe me i've analyzed the situation until I cant anaylze anymore and usually I would have given up but she confuses me because she'll act like she just wants me as a friend but then for example:1. She sends me "sexy" fotos of herself. Sometimes without ME asking for them she'll just send them through in sexy poses and pretty much NAKED. I mean thats not something you'd do to your FRIENDS is it?
2. She's told me she likes me. If she didnt why make it up and say it? If you dont feel it just dont say it. And arent aquas all about "honesty"
3. When she's h**ny she'll text me and she wants to like "sext" haha and then she'll be like im playing with myself and thinking about you and all the things I wanna to do you and im about to explode! I want you so badly etc etc etc tell me what you wanna to do me, will you bend me over etc etc. NOW do you understand my confusion? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 28, 2010 10:12 PM
Gem.. What are all ur placements Im curious... Sorry If I missed it.. IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 10:27 PM
Sun - Gem
Moon - Libra
Merc - Gem
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Rising - LibraThe mars in cancer and libra moon fk me im pretty sure. Maybe im confusing her? Im indirect with my feelings and i'll dance around a person until im SURE of how THEY feel THEN i'll make my move. With her, I dont know how she REALLY feels, I want her to tell me DIRECT its like THIS and I FEEL LIKE THIS and THEN i'll make my move but I just cant STAND rejection specially when i've been speaking to her for so long. Kills my ego too much lol. Her placements, i wrote on the first page of this thread IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 28, 2010 10:41 PM
HAHA.. I knew you had cancer! I got it too... The fear of rejection is BIG (try having that with Leo..) You want to be sure... For me at least I just cant bare my feelings to anyone.. Its very hard for me... For the Gem guy I dated I didnt say my feelings for 12 years... lol.... But we lost contact with each other.. long story... Gem.. honestly I think she is playing some type of game... She wants u to chase her, but she wont go out, and she's sending u sexual messages, but at the same time wont go out again....
Something is just not right...
Ask her out... If she says no or some excuse,
Ask her something like What day are you available to go for coffee this weekend.. See what she says....
By doing this your asking her out, but ur letting her pick "when" the time is good, AND you making it seem short, where it wont be too time consuming, and your showing ur interest.... At the least ( I would think) if she cant she would say something like I cant this weekend but I can next weekend.. Or maybe Tuesday.... If she just says no.. and makes excuses.. idk... I dont think she ever will... IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 10:53 PM
You know what im going to do... this weekend I know she'll be out.She told me I could see her this weekend that she is going out. If she is going somewhere local, Im going to show up, take charge, be aggressive (which is how SHE was with me when I saw her at the club a few weeks ago) and then im going to be like so whats up with you? You like me? dont like me? stop fking me around and playing games jsut be straight up and tell me RIGHT NOW i'll let her know that thats her last chance its either get your act together, and start seeing me 1 on 1 or thats it, dont text me, dont email me, dont look for me dont contact me and we'll just cut ties like we never met and thats it. If she tells me straight up I just like you as a friend then sweet ill leave for a while (until Im SURE im over her) and then I MIGHT be friends with her. Thing thats keeping me is because I dont know if she likes me or not and if she DOES then I dont want to fk off and miss out on an opportunity. But seriously if she tells me she just likes me as a friend then I have no problem with that i'll just let it go. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 28, 2010 10:59 PM
I wouldnt suggest being that demanding... More like, I like you and if you feel the same lets see what happens.. But be honest with me,and tell me if you want to be with me... If a guy told me what you wrote.. Hummm I would run for it.. Even if I liked him or not.. If I liked him..... after he said those things, I would give it a second thought... Thats not the best way to approach someone... IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 11:15 PM
Lol well I wont be EXACTLY like that.. i was just over dramatisizing the situation but you know something along those lines.Just you know set things straight. Seriously im over this **** (watch me come back next week posting and having a cry about something else!) haha IP: Logged |
Gem-lib
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posted November 28, 2010 11:16 PM
Lol well I wont be EXACTLY like that.. i was just over dramatisizing the situation but you know something along those lines.Just you know set things straight. Seriously im over this **** (watch me come back next week posting and having a cry about something else!) haha IP: Logged |
LanaofAugust
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posted November 29, 2010 02:04 AM
The thing is - according to my experience - that Aquas are ALWAYS interested when somebody makes a move. It tickles their curiosity. Whether or not it is sexual/romantic interest (and of the lasting kind at that), you will just have to wait and see... Good luck ;-) ~ Lana (the S.O. of an Aquarius Sun&ASC male) IP: Logged |
SpooL
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posted November 29, 2010 03:30 AM
To most Aquas were easy pickings and do catch there intrest, the same as they catch are intrest and they
play "somewhat" the same mind games back.I understand the mind games can be frustrating, if not for my capircorn rissing, alot of saturn in my chart and work/school demanding top priority out of me. I whould have ended up in the same spot you are with another aqua female. What you mentioned about knowing her family problems and to a certain extent of understanding her problems doesn't suprise me. There is a great excert from Linda Goodmans Love Signs, describing the Gemini Man/ Aquarious relationship
I'm sure that most/all the "Seasoned Members" on lindaland have read the book. I wish I had my book with me, and could do my citations. But its packed up. Essentially,the book says we do have a good raport with Aquarians. particularly the ones that have gone throught alot and feel
misunderstood the same way we can feel at times. This leads into what you said about knowing her problems. Now, both you and her need your freedom and free will, I'm sure when both you and her are together its a blast. But she wants to go out and do her own
thing the same as yourself. Worse case scenario, you have a good freind right know with a great spark. Stay good freinds, do your own things and then come together here and there. As long as you watch over an Aqaurians back they'll watch over yours. ------------------------
Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
venus in Tarrus
Mars Cancer IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted November 29, 2010 03:58 AM
Banxmaxthen (tell her. It's that simple. Tell her you like her and if she doesn't like you then you want nothing more to do with her. THis is basic. Force her to make a choice or you will always have this constant rambling in your mind)This is a good point. This bring less an injurious effect on the health. It's not healthyair to be on the love uncertainty over time. IP: Logged |
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