posted November 29, 2010 08:39 AM            

So i dont think that its a good idea to continue to show up at places where you suppose she is, cause she could think you have no life without her, and this fact would freak her out...She must be a very independent person based on her placements.

posted November 29, 2010 09:30 AM            

I dont doubt that she likes you as a person, but I doubt that she is 100% attracted to you, for whatever reason and no matter what she may have 'said'. My gut feeling is that either, like Amowls mentioned, she only sees you as a great friend, really does like you, but not romantically and doesn't want to hurt you, but at the same time enjoys the attention/ego boost, when and where it suits her.I'm sure this is not intentional.

Or else, there is attraction from her side but it's not very strong AND aspects of your behaviour are putting her off. You may think that you are not running after her, and maybe you are not, but from what you described here, my venus in capricorn/uranus in the 5th would definitely be put off, if a guy repeatedly had tried talking about 'us' and I wasn't ready, or if he had been ignoring me, then got back in touch, spelling out what his thinking was behind his action. (I hope I make sense, English isn't my first language.) All of this might just seem too heavy at this point in time for her and might also kill any intrigue (at her end.)

My suggestion is, stop all of this trying to talk it out, pushing the subject, explaining etc etc. I also wouldnt ask her again to hang out alone, you've tried repeatedly and she hasn't responded. It's clear to her that you like her, you made it clear, so I dont think it matters too much that there are other women chasing you. Try to hang out in a group with her where she seems to feel comfortable interacting with you, stay/act as friends and see whether your connection can develop naturally. It also has the added benefit of double checking whether there is someone else on here mind.

Edit: For what it's worth, both my aquarius friends and I have been with men in the past we weren't initally that drawn to, but very much liked as friends and eventually ended falling in love with because they kept it on the friends level long enough for us to not feel cornered and just naturally develop feelings. If my ex had pushed me towards a relationship too soon, I would have panicked while fo course still trying to keep him as a friend.

posted November 29, 2010 02:20 PM            

i dunno, us aquas can really come off the opposite of what we actually feel. we are extremely unpredictable and hide our emotions well after all! my point really is that though aqua and libra (and gem) blend nicely, sometimes (at least in MY case), libra's accomodating energy can keep things too static. i dunno, i've recently had involvements with some aries placements that sextile my aqua stellium and that opposite (but similar) energy has a stimulating, exciting effect on me that lacked with my libran ex. then again i also have sag rising and venus, so fire excites me.

posted November 29, 2010 02:51 PM            

If I know anything about her, it's because I was involved with an astro cousin of hers (he was born Feb 16 1987). He likes to chase. Once you show interest in him, he gets bored. You chasing her so obviously might be a put off.

posted November 29, 2010 04:31 PM            

But, there are some aquarians that are notrious flirts there is a part of me that wanted me to say it.

Frankly, I actually posted something similar to his situation several years ago on Lindaland.

I never got a full answer myself, the only answer I got was she wanted to be good freinds and I left it at that and also I was paying less attention.

But, I wanted to look at the postive side before flat out saying shes a coc*k tease doing this for kicks.

There are nasty traits that each sign does,
To be fair all admit some Geminis can be vary manipulative and do it to get there way, just as some young Aquarians can be co*k teases.

but with age it goes away.

Or there nasty traits develop for the better.

I mean Henry kissinger is vary much a manipulator and a Gem, but it helped end the war in Vietnam and earned him the Nobel Peace Price. Its obvious he manipulated a truce.

Anyway back to the post Gem-Lib has mars in Cancer also so there is a part of him that may make him sensitive about the entire thing, but also "easy pry" to a flity aquarian.

I could really see him being freinds with her, as time goes on him being less sensitive and her being less of a tease as time goes on.

amowls/woah cakes

If I may say there is a diffrence in the way both of you post replys and post things on Lindaland.

Woah Cakes your replies and posts are unpredicable.

But, you said your intutive so whenever it seams your not with it, you must be in another "relm"

I assume your personalities whould cary on the why you write things on Lindaland.

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Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
venus in Tarrus
Mars Cancer

posted November 29, 2010 06:37 PM            

Also I remember the night at the club when she was all over me there was this girl I got introduced too (which was the aries im kind of seeing now) and she was up my ass all night too and at one point I was at the bar with her taking shots and the aqua was watching us (she was a few people behind) and she kept her eye ONLY on us 2 at the bar then we sort of came back near the aqua and the aries was leaving and we kissed on the lips (aqua was watching the whole time) and after the aries left, the aqua came back to me and was all over me, grabbing me, feeling me up etc etc.

But yea na fk it. So alrite I need advice do I send her another email and be like look, im sick of chasing you, I wanna be your friend and well if anything further happens well whatever but for now im ONLY looking for a friendship but you make it hard to be your friend when 1. you wont see me and 2. I cant continue to ONLY communicate with you over emails and texts. I've given you plenty of chances to really tell me how you feel or hang out with me whatever (no strings attached) and you always decline. I feel like an idiot always chasing you. I feel like our "friendship" or whatever this is "aquaintances" is very one sided mainly from my side and I also just feel as though this whole time you've been taking me for a massive ride and you loveeee the attention I give you but im over this **** and honestly i've been nothing but nice to you and I hardly think I deserve to get played for a fool the way you've been doing. I DO want to be your mate still and if you ever need me well you know where to find me but thats it from me. You wont here from me again.

Something like that ^^^ or is that too dramatic? LOL. Im not the best at these things.. and I usually end up saying more than I should!

Or do I just dissapear never reply to anything ever again, ignore her emails and texts and thats it just completely dissapear with no explanataion?

And i've decided im NOT going to show up at where she is going to be at this weekend. Fk it. Im not going to waste my time and my saturday night chasing someone who just wants to play games.

posted November 30, 2010 07:01 AM            

A guy I knew did that to me. He pursued me relentlessly for months and then one day when I said my usual
"Oh go away! I'm not interested..
He did.
That drove me crazy.
I ended up married to him.

posted November 30, 2010 08:26 AM            

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BUT she shows interest, sometimes

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