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Topic: Please help me to help these young ones...?
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blonderiverkat
Moderator Posts: 931
From: Tri-State Area
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2011 07:56 PM
  
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
BRK- I know who IQ is. Very skilled man. I see nothing wrong with wanting to learn more about who your children are in relationships with via natal charts. That's not meddling. That's being a parent. If you then start talking to your kid and purposefully trying to affect your child's relationship esp. to your liking then that is meddling, unless of course they ask you to advice them and so on.When you say you would have ended/tried to end the relationship (under different circumstances) yes that would be meddling, but honestly a parent is entitled to meddle in their child's life to some extent. Some parent's over do this and others don't do it enough. specialist- If you want more information, research it. I am repeating what I have heard, I am not an expert on this. If you wish to critique everything you read at least back it up with something substantial and spare us your benign chatter.
Thanks again littlecloud...yes, there is a difference and perhaps a fine line between 'caring and helping' and 'meddling'...I was talking to them about this discussion earlier, and they just laughed...they hear it all the time, and said they 'don't care' what others think... specialist...I agree with littlecloud...I mean few days ago you didn't know what month you were born in, then you 'don't like this forum, and what it stands for', but you have all the answers... ------------------
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blugrey
Knowflake Posts: 347
From: Portland, OR USA
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2011 09:58 PM
All I'm going to say is that in previous times 16 was like 25 because people didn't live as long. People had to survive. As for these times, IMO a 16 year old has no clue of who they really are, let alone who they want to be with. I'm almost 22 and I still don't know. I think it's better to become whole as a person before being able to call any relationship the "one". Just my two cents. If it's meant to be, temporary separation will not stop it from happening. IP: Logged |
starzy54
Knowflake Posts: 90
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted February 15, 2011 11:35 PM
Instead of taking a Astrological standpoint to things,why not let things just be? if they break up,it should be out of their own accord,not based on Synastry or various other charts.Consulting Astrology to every thing that goes on in life,is neither healthy nor productive for normal development in relationships and the like,specifically for young kids who need to grow and make mistakes.Use it as a guide,but don't use it to justify or discredit normal behavior,especially in young kids.Let them see and try other things and live their life.If they are mature enough to be in such a serious union,than I'm sure they will come to their own resolve,on their own time.Life is Life,and what will happen will happen.I'm sure God always keeps a little mystery to his work,not everything will show up/live up to our charts.He's in charge right? lol 
Good luck with everything
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blonderiverkat
Moderator Posts: 931
From: Tri-State Area
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 16, 2011 12:55 AM
It's in the past all...they are fine, and got a good laugh from this topic! No worries people! Kat ------------------
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