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From: Jax, Fl, US
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posted March 03, 2011 05:48 AM            

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Has anyone ever been with a person who has Venus in Pisces, regardless of their sun sign and other planets..have you ever noticed most Venus in Pisces men display the same traits and use the same manipulation tactics to get their way or excuse their horrible behavior?

I've dated 4 guys with Venus in Pisces. All of them have been horrible lovers and on top of that all of them have done the same thing. They've been nasty people and they try and excuse their behavior by playing this victim role. If they do something wrong (like cheat,lie, mind games,ect) they'll make you feel like you're the bad person. They'll start off by pouting around and being distant, then minute you do/say one thing wrong. They'll milk it all they can. They go around searching for people to sympathize with them and they'll make up tall tales about the other person. And you'll find the men usually attaches to women for sympathy. They'll never admit they had any wrong doings. They won't admit the fact that the reason the girl is not nice anymore is because he cheated on her??

It's horrible. Because there are two types of people. People who do bad things and try to find every excuse in the book to make it seem acceptable and get a posse of people to feel sad for them. Then there are the people who say..."I f*cked up. Big time. I am so sorry. I want to make this right. What can I do?" And those people don't go to their friends to sympathy or pity parties. They suck it up and will go distances to make it up for the person because they genuinely do care for them.

I can't sit by anymore and listen to all this big talk about the Pisces lover is the true lover and what not. Total bullsh*t. Trust me, they'll go out of their way and do wonderful beautiful things for you in the beginning. That's only because they feel so vulnerable with you. But the minute they feel secure in your love for them. They won't treat you the same way anymore. Maybe it's because the reality of true love/devotion can't be shown through materialistic things alone (i.e., poems, music, art, ect.) But true love is shown through the tests of time. I feel like they love the beginning stages..writing poems, making art to express themselves, and writing gorgeous songs about how crazy they are about you and how it's forever. But truth is, it's not forever. It's for fun for them. It makes their dream world colourful, but when reality hits in..they want out. They don't want true love.They don't want to face consequences for things they've done wrong. They want to live in this made up selfish world in their head and not think about the way they make other people feel. They only care about being the good person. Doesn't matter if they backstab the one person that does love them. If for one minute they feel like an amazing guy and the superman of every girls dream. They'll toss whoever under the bus to feed that dream.

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posted March 03, 2011 07:40 AM            

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If you get involved with Pisces energy, no matter the planetary position, you have to have your wits about you or you'll be overwhelmed by Neptunes drama and eery waters.

I don't think Venus in Pisces is fickle at all actually, however I do experience them to be a little indecisive and easily influenced. Manipulationa nd mind games comes with the territoty if you are dealing with a water position.

I think that you just need time out to recover.

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posted March 03, 2011 09:21 AM            

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A Pisces Venus never tries to hurt other people on purpose.

You need time to heal.

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posted March 03, 2011 09:26 AM            

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Supposed to be an exaltation right?

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posted May 12, 2014 03:33 AM            

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That the thing, these forums never get to the deeper parts of discussions on such things. This was teetering on becoming interesting!

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posted May 12, 2014 03:38 AM            

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Someone has been burned by one too many Pisces and is lumping together a large sum of people in very negative terms.

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posted May 12, 2014 04:46 AM            

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If they were horrible lovers, why did OP date them?

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posted May 12, 2014 05:02 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
If they were horrible lovers, why did OP date them?

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Multiple times, eh?

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posted May 12, 2014 05:06 AM            

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Yes it does definitely match my experience and I got burned too long ago to be just burned. Maybe the women are diff tho

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posted May 12, 2014 05:44 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
That the thing, these forums never get to the deeper parts of discussions on such things. This was teetering on becoming interesting!

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i.e. if you find sign bashing interesting

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posted May 12, 2014 05:45 AM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Multiple times, eh?

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Yeah, sounds like sour grapes to me.

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posted May 12, 2014 05:49 AM            

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I have to disagree. First of all Venus is exalted in pisces, so venus energy is at its best form.
The venus in pisces I know are very giving and loving in love.
The only exception maybe the retro ones.

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posted May 12, 2014 05:50 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Yeah, sounds like sour grapes to me.

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Me too. Personally, I find Pisces in Venus to be quite lovely, simply impressionable.

I.E , if theyre with someone negative, it brings out the negative in them. Maybe thats the issue here.

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posted May 12, 2014 05:51 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
A Pisces Venus never tries to hurt other people on purpose.

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False. They're just very talented at hiding their intentions (even from themselves)... If we're going to generalize.

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posted May 12, 2014 05:52 AM            

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A friend of mine has Venus in house of Pisces (12th house). That woman has been in a relationship for over 5 years and cheats...

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posted May 12, 2014 07:15 AM            

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Victoria Beckham has Venus in Pisces.
conjunct David Beckham's Mars in pisces.

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posted May 12, 2014 07:17 AM            

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Hi,

In my opinion, what you are describing has little to do with astrology. Most people, men and women, who are willing to cheat/lie/deceive (as a way of life) and who do it use the same tactics: blaming the other and finding excuses for oneself.

But I agree that negative Neptunian energy involves: elusiveness, evading harsh reality, escapism, using big dramatic words, preferring a lie to upsetting someone and many other things you described.

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posted May 12, 2014 07:27 AM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Me too. Personally, I find Pisces in Venus to be quite lovely, simply impressionable.

I.E , if theyre with someone negative, it brings out the negative in them. Maybe thats the issue here.

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Whilst That's a really positive take on it.

In my case there was Venus-Saturn synastry which may have characterised the exp

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posted May 12, 2014 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by florence:
Whilst That's a really positive take on it.

In my case there was Venus-Saturn synastry which may have characterised the exp

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Hmmm. Im not a Pisces venus but my moon and Saturn are both conjunct exact. I have a lot of Venus- Saturn with pisces Venus too.

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posted May 12, 2014 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
A Pisces Venus never tries to hurt other people on purpose.

You need time to heal.

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Horrible lovers?!?! I beg to differ... On my knees.

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Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
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posted May 12, 2014 11:00 AM            

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Ime this is true. The one I dated was looking more for a scapegoat than a partner. He needed a villian in his life to blame things on. There are people out there who dislike me whom I've never even met, thanks to Venus in Pisces. And he did have a smooth way of making you apologize for his bad behavior

Eta- His Venus was squared by Saturn

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posted May 12, 2014 11:40 AM            

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I remember I was dating venus in pisces, and oh my dear !!

They were horrible lovers. I mean what are these people even thinking? Why does this placement they possess even exist? These people are cruel and their only objection is to ruin lives. RUIN. LIVES.

NEVER DATE THEM. EVERY SINGLE. And by every single I mean every single one of them are such ***********. What are you even thinking ??

So much astrology involved in this.

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posted May 12, 2014 11:46 AM            

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i am a pisces venus man. my venus is in opposition to saturn in virgo.

i can relate to making drama, playing victim role in some degree, but once i have been aware of playing this pathetic game i stopped this.

But on the other hand i pisces venus is really really great as placement since i am unconditional in love, if i love you i will love you despite everything you think that you don't deserved such love. And that's some huge good point from pisces venus.this love is unlimited and endless.

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posted May 12, 2014 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by chargeomentum:
I remember I was dating venus in pisces, and oh my dear !!

They were horrible lovers. I mean what are these people even thinking? Why does this placement they possess even exist? These people are cruel and their only objection is to ruin lives. RUIN. LIVES.

NEVER DATE THEM. EVERY SINGLE. And by every single I mean every single one of them are such ***********. What are you even thinking ??

So much astrology involved in this.

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posted May 12, 2014 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
If they were horrible lovers, why did OP date them?

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She's just feeling hurt by them.

The way I see Venus in Pisces is, they are impossible for one person to love. Many people love them and that's what you have to deal with and if you cannot, move onto another Venus. Goes with Venus Pisces territory and they have a hard time navigating it meaning you will get caught up in it too so be prepared.
It's the sign of Venus's exaltation means they will have a lot of Venusian in their life and will be strongly Venusian.
Too much Venus is difficult to handle unless you can be numb, put a smile on your face, like to be with people, like to share the spotlight and like to party like it's 1999 most of the time.
Venus is not about possessiveness or connection as much as about parties and having a good time. If someone has strong Venus, especially exalted, they can be admired and loved by a lot of people and that can be difficult to deal with for them and for the people who know them.

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