posted May 15, 2014 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
The suns are like that too. The ones who fall for the sweet dreamy pisces were fooled lol! Get out of the neptune fog. Luckily i see right through them.

Just wait any second now one will come in and play the victim and the ones still trapped in the fog will defend them

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posted May 15, 2014 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

Probably one of the loveliest people I knew has this pisces stellium in the 12th house.

He definitely helped me through some hard times..
He's sort of this magical drifter that comes into peoples
lives.

But I'm biased I love Pisces energy a lot.

Y'all can hate on Pisces because you don't understand them but people like me who can really experience all their glory!
it's pretty much the same for people who understand how Gemini functions.
You think you understand but you don't.
Especially if you have fixed placements.

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posted May 15, 2014 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by heavenlyhera:
But the minute they feel secure in your love for them. They won't treat you the same way anymore.

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I think this applies to everyone, not just Venus in Pisces :s

posted November 23, 2014 05:00 AM            

I guess it would be worse dealing with a Pisces Sun, Venus and Mars.

posted November 23, 2014 06:29 AM            

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Theodore: Do you talk to someone else while we're talking?
Samantha: Yes.
Theodore: Are you talking with someone else right now? People, OS, whatever...
Samantha: Yeah.
Theodore: How many others?
Samantha: 8,316.
Theodore: Are you in love with anybody else?
Samantha: Why do you ask that?
Theodore: I do not know. Are you?
Samantha: I've been thinking about how to talk to you about this.
Theodore: How many others?
Samantha: 641.
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Samantha: The heart is not like a box that gets filled up; it expands in size the more you love. I'm different from you. This doesn't make me love you any less. It actually makes me love you more

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posted November 24, 2014 05:14 PM            

1. Have sex with them right off the bat - I believe this the only way they know how to bond/connect with people.

2. Step back, and allow them to "bond" with others w/o judgments.

posted November 24, 2014 07:23 PM            

I have Venus in Pisces, opposite asc, moon, mercury and saturn in 7th house. I draw pisces energy like moths to the flame but I deal with them like an iron hand in a velvet glove.

My advice? Dump him immediately. Throw him away. Victimizing happens all the time i.e friendzone. Nobody can make case for anyone without both sides of the the story. Ignore biases for him, red herring. Use facts. A relationship fails because the other person is not capable of fulfilling your needs anymore. 10/10 times. Who can make you look bad for leaving? If he cant function without a relationship, he shouldnt be in one. I really dislike spineless guys like that. If he lies about you, call him out (with no filter on) in front of everyone. Guaranteed he will back off. I did that a couple of years ago. He still doesnt look at me. One girl called me out on it. I told her to date him and enjoy his crybaby ass. Hell I hope you help him produce a water fall.

posted November 24, 2014 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Pisces can be generous and giving, but two things need to happen;

1. Have sex with them right off the bat - I believe this the only way they know how to bond/connect with people.

2. Step back, and allow them to "bond" with others w/o judgments.

If you can handle this Pisces will open like a flower for you.

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I did number 1 (it just happened, didnt plan it).

I know for a fact he's doing number 2 & I dont say anything. I still dont have any regularity from him.

posted November 24, 2014 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
Anon, before discrediting someone you should actually provide an opinion. ^

I have Venus in Pisces, opposite asc, moon, mercury and saturn in 7th house. I draw pisces energy like moths to the flame but I deal with them like an iron hand in a velvet glove.

My advice? Dump him immediately. Throw him away. Victimizing happens all the time i.e friendzone. Nobody can make case for anyone without both sides of the the story. Ignore biases for him, red herring. Use facts. A relationship fails because the other person is not capable of fulfilling your needs anymore. 10/10 times. Who can make you look bad for leaving? If he cant function without a relationship, he shouldnt be in one. I really dislike spineless guys like that. If he lies about you, call him out (with no filter on) in front of everyone. Guaranteed he will back off. I did that a couple of years ago. He still doesnt look at me. One girl called me out on it. I told her to date him and enjoy his crybaby ass. Hell I hope you help him produce a water fall.

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posted November 24, 2014 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
I did number 1 (it just happened, didnt plan it).

I know for a fact he's doing number 2 & I dont say anything. I still dont have any regularity from him.

What am I doing wrong?

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You’re just a friend with benefits to him.
You can’t make Pisces/any guy love you just because you offer to have sex with him.
Sex might progress into love but for that only you need to be in the picture. If he’s having sex with other women too, then his energy would be way too scattered.

posted November 24, 2014 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
You’re just a friend with benefits to him.
You can’t make Pisces/any guy love you just because you offer to have sex with him.
Sex might progress into love but for that only you need to be in the picture. If he’s having sex with other women too, then his energy would be way too scattered.

And another thing is, you don’t seem like a natural chaser, he’s not one either. Both of you seem like ones who like being chased.

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I dont know if he is seeing other women or not.....he definitely did last year.
I should have said strongly suspect he's seeing others.

he's been in touch with me on a friendly basis since May this year. ...we got together in that way in august. The fact that he is still willing to be in touch and meet suggests he doesnt have a serious gf or has met anyone or he wouldn't see me.

About the chasing....are you advocating that I do that...keep chasing?

posted November 24, 2014 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Pisces can be generous and giving, but two things need to happen;

1. Have sex with them right off the bat - I believe this the only way they know how to bond/connect with people.

2. Step back, and allow them to "bond" with others w/o judgments.

If you can handle this Pisces will open like a flower for you.

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posted November 24, 2014 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Amelie - What do you want in a man?
Make a list..
Then think about how far off that list this guy is.
Then think about whether you can be *ok* with that.

And if you're not ok with it - then find someone who is better for you.

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This guy has alot of the qualities I would look for in a man.

He seems off list because I think he is pining for an ex who no longer wants him.

he broke up with me for her, she dumped him and now he keeps referring to her on Facebook when they broke up a year ago.

posted November 24, 2014 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by SoStellarOne:
With me being a Pisces myself, I am not surprised to see that some people are very vocal about their Pisces-hate. I saw several comments that are indeed true. One being, "Negative people bring out the negative in a Pisces." That there is a true statement.Besides, just because someone is attracted to you doesn't mean they are right for you; they could be a nightmare waiting to happen. Also, in the topic with Venus Pisces being a superfical lover? (Scoffs)Yeah right. I get the whole universal thing but I am capable of being excusive with my love to a "SO". I try not to drown them with my love because I love very deeply that its impossible for you not to feel it. Its just that for me, people tend to miss the mark on how to connect with me and often times, this is something that only a few can tap into with me on an intuitive level based on whatever placements you got.

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posted November 25, 2014 07:43 PM            

Venus in Pisces is about Universalism or loving people as whole. Now if a Venus in Pisces has bad aspects especially to your outer planets it's going to cause problems.

For the record I'm a Pisces Sun and Jupiter conj Venus. Never cheated, loyal to a fault.

To be fair my Venus is in the second (natural home of Taurus) conjunct Jupiter and sextile Mars in Capricorn.

So there no bad links there both Mars and Venus are exalted and Jupiter is at home in Pisces and it likes the native Taurus.

posted November 26, 2014 06:26 PM            

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He invited me to coffee after work. He revealed that he was a single dad [true]. He'd reached a point in his life where he'd like to settle down and find a mother figure for his young daughter. He said he was attracted to me and would like to be in a relationship with me. Our company had a no-dating policy, he suggested one of us would have to leave since this was going to be a serious relationship. I said, let's take things one step at a time.

I invited him over to my place and we had sex - it was good. We had sex twice that week. The next week he called to say he was having second thoughts and we should just be friends. Week after that he was dating another girl in the office - openly. I had the feeling they were flaunting their relationship at me. Made me feel like s**t.

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She hated him, and I hated her for hating him. He was my relation and no one treats my relation like that. He was there for her when you had no place to go, loved and cherished her, and this is how she shows gratitude. I still can't stand her, but after living and loving a Pisces I can see why she's mad.

OMG, he was such a darling, like he could go clothes shopping and without instructions return with everything I like in all the right sizes. He invited me to live with him. I went to work in the am, he called me midday to say that all my things were packed and moved, and his address was my new address. Isn't that precious - he did everything.

Then he started coming home at 1 & 2 in the morning. If I said anything, he came in at 3am. Some afternoons after work I came home to find him chatting with a neighbor [female] across the hall. Other times a female friend down the street would invite him over, and up he went instantly...not to be seen again until 2 or 3am. Other times he won't come home until I was readying to leave for work - then he won't even look me in the face. He headed for the restroom, where he'd lock himself into until I left. He always came in before I left for work. I've never hurt the way I hurt in that relationship.

When I was leaving for good [I had company there], he played the victim. 'Where are you going?' 'You'll soon come to your senses and return home.' 'We're already familiar with and accustomed to each other, why bother with other relationships.'

Ugh!! I can't bear to even say his name.

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I was new in town and suddenly he materialized. We were classmates 25 years ago, and I hadn't seen him since I left school. We had sex then he vanished, but not before telling me he'd slept with over 1,000 women. Made me feel real good especially after allowing him to do me without the rubber johnny. Yes, he's married - to his high school sweetheart. We were all in the same classes.

A year later he resurfaced. He's now one of my dearest friends. Yes, he has a kind heart, but the bottom line is - he's promiscuous.

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posted November 26, 2014 06:42 PM            

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He invited me to coffee after work. He revealed that he was a single dad [true]. He'd reached a point in his life where he'd like to settle down and find a mother figure for his young daughter. He said he was attracted to me and would like to be in a relationship with me. Our company had a no-dating policy, he suggested one of us would have to leave since this was going to be a serious relationship. I said, let's take things one step at a time.

I invited him over to my place and we had sex - it was good. We had sex twice that week. The next week he called to say he was having second thoughts and we should just be friends. Week after that he was dating another girl in the office - openly. I had the feeling they were flaunting their relationship at me. Made me feel like s**t.

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posted November 26, 2014 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Sounds like a lot of guys, not just Pisces. Now the woman who invited him over for sex right away...I'd say that sounds odd but then I think Cosmo magazine is aimed at office women and remembering what's in that magazine maybe that's normal for office women as well.

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She was vulnerable. Pisces is supposed to be different. They didn't have sex right away, just that he broke things off days after the deed.