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posted March 07, 2011 01:37 AM            

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Ok, I'm being an arse, but I'm trying to prove a point that in the end Gemini/Virgo placements...I honestly don't give fu-ck, just be "you".

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posted March 07, 2011 01:46 AM            

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I don't think anyone is saying either is bad. Just that we get frustrated! I guess this is an example of it? lol

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posted March 07, 2011 01:59 AM            

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☆ Maka ☆
Who ever you are

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posted March 07, 2011 02:57 AM            

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I don't mind Virgo when it comes in the form of the sexy librarian--->> that was pretty much the Libra Sun/Mars conjunct with Virgo Moon (and Scorpio Venus) that I met last year. Of course, I always feel more comfortable with other Virgo Mooners...its like I can do stuff without feeling embarrased. The only other moon I'm that comfortable with is probably scorpio. Pisces is sweet, but unreliable at times

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Gasp!! BM I could have sworn you also were comfortable with Cap Moons...actually this comment makes my poor Cap Moon heart hurt lol. :-)

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And like I said earlier, I'm picky...not afraid to admit it. But if there's anything to be picky about, be picky about the quality of things, not the surface stuff. That seems to be the main difference between the moon and venus in virgo. Atleast from my POV.

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I actually agree with this...I've seen it with a LOT of the Virgo Moon guys I've known they are picky yes...but not really physically picky but more in terms of personality and the types of qualities they like for a girl to have (but what they ALL have in common I've noticed is they do NOT want someone who sleeps around alot). I hope that Virgo Venus guys aren't too bad...I have a pseudo crush on one...and he has either an Aqua or Cap Moon...so I'm hoping that us having Conjunct Mercuries will help me attract him (because Virgo is ruled by Mercury lol).

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posted March 07, 2011 04:16 AM            

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Lol BM knows, I'm not frustrated I'm just pointing out the obvious.

We get these threads that put a spotlight on certain placements and then BOOM whole thread of defenses,bickering, back-slashing.."Oh no she didn't".."Oh I'm not like that".."OMG yesh you are girlfriend!".."Oh hells nah biatch dun you dare BOX me cause I'll put you in your place".."Sorry girl thats be the truth you'sa XYZ".."Fu-ck You".

I'm just saying I know the "beef" about putting certain placements under the microscope, all I'm saying is do you want that beef in a hamburger or a steak cause I don't care anymore astrological.

Also, I'm joking about the Gemini **** thing, it's just in the past LL had threads about Gemini Venuses being unfaithful and I was like..what not that serious as the people were trying to make it out to be astrologically..actually I think those people were just hurt and needed to find something to blame...which is..wierd in real life.."Oh it was her GEMINI VENUS..that **** !"

Honestly I don't know wtf I'm saying *scratches*..except that I'm out of it and I was trying to diffuse the back and forth placement arguement that going to begin. X_X

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posted March 07, 2011 05:30 AM            

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I don't know about Gem Venus people being unfaithful My cuz is a gem Venus and is faithful but she is bi
oops I hope I didn't start anything here

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posted March 07, 2011 09:35 AM            

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O.o Whoops.

Okay, first I should clear something up (mostly to Maka ) : I'm not on a crusade against all Virgo placements. LMAO, that would be ridiculous considering I'm a Virgo Moon. I have no problem with most Virgo placements, I think you know that by now. This thread is only about how I find it difficult to relate to Virgo Venus, probably having alot to do with being a Gemini Venus and our tastes being at odds. I admit, it was originally a minirant and probably not a good basis to start a thread, but the events of the past week got annoying with a certain person. I'm sorry if I offended anyone with the generalizations, those were just observations from RL. If you're a Virgo Venus and you aren't like that, I get it...we're not only one placement in our chart and that placement doesn't always have to manifest in a negative way.

Secondly, if you's have anything to say about Gemini Venus...great! There's always two sides to the story. I think I remember one thread where a Virgo Venus thought we all lived like we were on Sex&theCity or Entourage (if we're male). I think I laughed my @ss of at that comment because at the time it was true for me, I went through a huge partying/live the city-life phase at that time (that cost me O__o).

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posted March 07, 2011 09:38 AM            

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I actually agree with this...I've seen it with a LOT of the Virgo Moon guys I've known they are picky yes...but not really physically picky but more in terms of personality and the types of qualities they like for a girl to have (but what they ALL have in common I've noticed is they do NOT want someone who sleeps around alot). I hope that Virgo Venus guys aren't too bad...I have a pseudo crush on one...and he has either an Aqua or Cap Moon...so I'm hoping that us having Conjunct Mercuries will help me attract him (because Virgo is ruled by Mercury lol).

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Ooops, I forgot: I do love being around most earth moons! The vibe is always chill...especially with Cap Moon. I still haven't found that the 'cold' descriptions apply...particularly with one girl I sit next to. Though she also has a scorp sun, Sag Venus, and possible pisces rising. So favorite Moons list:

1.Scorpio Moons
2.Earth Moons
3. Pisces Moons
4. Aqua Moons

*Hmmm, my experience with male virgo mooners are limited to my father and the patient I had a crush on last year, but because Im not trying to be in awkward mood, I'll just discuss the patient from last year. Or the little I knew about him. He was a little bit jerky the way that only a sun/mars conjunct man could but he wore glasses and had a variety of knowledge about subjects (hence the sexy librarian reference). Unfortunately I never found out what his type was because he was discharged when I came back 3 days later.

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posted March 07, 2011 01:30 PM            

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I've got the venus in virgo placement, and yes, I am very picky. It's got some good points, in that if i'm interested in someone, i take note of what they like and try to make them happy as much as I can. If there's a date, i dont mind planning things down to the last detail, and making back ups in case things fall through. A venus virgo will be the one to balance our checkbook, or reorganize your books, pick out your tie for work, or write all the dates you need to pay your cellphone bill on your calender. They do all the little things that are important, but you forget to do. They like to feel needed. Personally, if they're happy, it makes me happy, but I'm contantly trying to perfect things. My mind's always looking at every single aspect and when I'm in a relationship, it doesn't really help that my mercury's in paranoid detective Scorpio. I get it, it's kind of a turn off when the other person is nitpicky. Don't get me wrong, I find that when Venus Virgos are happy, they're very happy, but the moment something doesn't go right, they nag about it (i also dated a venus virgo). And the whining's always more than the praises, enough that everyone else thinks they're miserable in the relationship when that may not be the case. It's something i have to work on( that's robably the perfectionist part again, -___-), but fortunelately (and i guess unfortunately)my gemini moon keeps me distant from the guys I do date until I'm sure they're what I'm looking for. Virgo's a rational sign, a little too rational, they strive for perfection, and those are definately things you don't want in a romance.

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posted March 07, 2011 01:41 PM            

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Heyyy, you and I are the inverse of eachother! Makes me wonder how you feel about Gemini Venuses...LOL. Moon/Venus square in the chart (even just by sign) is difficult, we're just hard to please...LOL.

And re: the pickyness, like I said...I get it. I'm a Virgo Moon, so I nag about things too. I think we just differ on what areas we need that perfection in. And hey, its not like Virgo Venus doesn't have any good points....sometimes its nice when there's someone other than you that's very particular. Its means the food comes out right and things always go back where they belong.

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posted March 07, 2011 01:59 PM            

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@Benedict
Hmm, I wonder. How does that work? Do you react to relationships the opposite of the way I do?

Venus/Moon conjuncts probably means we'd get along, but like doing different things,
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posted March 08, 2011 12:46 AM            

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This is so very interesting.
My bf has venus in virgo & mars in gemini.
He has definite preferences but gets bored with them. Guess that's the square talkin.

I think virgo being mutuable allows some leeway albeit hidden.
They seem so fixed about what they like/want but can easily switch it up. That's my observation of not just virgo venus but suns as well.

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posted March 08, 2011 02:16 AM            

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Heads up, it might make it easier to take what sign Mercury is in into consideration, when your dealing with Mercury ruled Venus...

My poor dad plays the sacrifical role with women, he has Virgo Venus with Leo Sun/Mercury and the women he goes for are usually very dominate and wear the pants, except for my mom of course...

I've got Gemini Venus in the 7th, but Mercury is in Leo in the 8th, making the flightiness of Venus in Gemini not an issue with me...

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posted March 08, 2011 03:55 PM            

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Hmmm, I would think there already was a sacrificial aspect to Virgo to begin with. With the venus, especially, once they're in love with someone. That's one thing Virgo shares in common with pisces, its just alot more choosey about it.

Anyways, I do agree with the mercury placement. Mine's in Cancer/6th (opposite neptune/trine pluto, sextile moon) so there is some emotional depth added. Scatteredness still applies to my hobbies/interests, but not so much in love and relationships. I can't casually date like a typical Gemini Venus may be able to.

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@Benedict
Hmm, I wonder. How does that work? Do you react to relationships the opposite of the way I do?

Venus/Moon conjuncts probably means we'd get along, but like doing different things,
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That's a pretty good observation to keep in mind, considering that sometimes alot of interpretations don't distinguish between the moon and venus of the same sign at all (even though this thread is probably a good example of why they should). Our attractions and what actually keeps us around are probably switched around. You may be drawn in by someone who is intelligent but seems competant, while I get drawn in by intelligence and charm/scatteredness. Your Gemini Moon probably become restless once things get settled with Mr.Competence and Order, while my Virgo Moon starts to pull my hair out over PeterPan.

Actually, do you find people (guys in particular) believe you have a split personoality?

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Heads up, it might make it easier to take what sign Mercury is in into consideration, when your dealing with Mercury ruled Venus...

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I asked a question about this not too long ago...that if the sign ruling Mercury was what was presented more than the actual placement. Anyway I've dated quite a few Virgo and Gemini guys and I gotta say that their Mercury sign does greatly change things. I know a double Gemini with Venus also in Gemini who is not scattered AT ALL...his Mercury is in Cancer. Plus he likes bigger girls. Another Virgo Moon guy I know and dated had his Mercury in Pisces and let me tell you he was emotional city...and an Aqua at that. So things were dicey...he was critical but always felt bad for being so. And then would try to sugar coat his criticism with the Pisces dreamy way of dealing. In both cases (and both guys being Air signs) they were both more the type that if you appeal to their emotional side or made them feel things more than the rational you could get them to deal with you. Also anything rational left them both out in the cold. They couldn't deal with it. Although both sweared up and down that they were rational.

I know a Virgo Venus guy who has his Mercury in Leo...and from what I have observed he likes perfection. He actually let my Leo Moon roommate hit on him. She got drunk and called herself a wh*ore, and told about all the sexual things she likes to do, including saying she loves with all her heart her ex boyfriend but that she just wanted a d*ck (keep in mind she is a Libra with Scorp Venus). I really thought his Virgo Venus was turned off, even my double Scorp guy friend was turned off. Later that night he told me she was the type of girl you have fun with but not date.

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posted March 09, 2011 02:06 PM            

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Have you figured out the moon sign of that Virgo Venus guy yet? Out of random curiousity, just because as cancers the moon has a very strong influence on us.

And wow, I never realized it but mercury does have a stronger influence. It would explain why I always go for angsty romance over the light stuff. And why the majority of geminis I meet are not the stereotypical geminis.

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posted March 10, 2011 03:58 AM            

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BM, I actually think the guy has an Aqua Moon...he is different and loves Rap music and is so not what you would expect when seeing him. I think he has a thing for another girl so I am staying away and being cautious. Plus he IS a Cancer so I'm thinking he may have picked up on me liking him.

BM its weird I do have a question for you...is there something up with Virgo individuals getting in touch with exes? Especially if they were nice exes. Obviously i'm sure you spotted that I am insanely overly caring and concerned with just about everyone so I deff treat boyfriends/guys I've talked to with the same care. In just the past couple of days I have heard from one Virgo Moon ex (and I tend to hear from him periodically...he has always pointed out I'm super sweet and kind), a Virgo Mars ex (again he thinks I'm sweet as well), a Virgo Sun ex who checks up on me and another Virgo Rising ex. Keep in mind all these exes are NOT in the same city as I (which I'm learning is a deal breaker for a Virgo influenced person...even if you're 30 mins away its too far away and long distance lol) including the Aqua ex with Virgo Moon he is two hours away thought this...despite being an Aqua lol. I should also say this includes two Gemini exes...when one is in town he always wants to try again and says he can't really deal with me without catching feelings...he is a Gemini Sun/Mer/Venus/Mars with Cap Moon and Virgo Rising...and then another one with Gemini Sun/Venus/Moon and Taurus Mercury with a Virgo Dsc contacts me all the freaking time...keep in mind these guys had chances with me but then became flaky or did something I didn't like so I moved them to the "friend" category (lol such an 11th house Venus thing to say) so I'm wondering what is it about these Virgo/Gemini guys that they like about me lol...

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posted March 10, 2011 09:05 AM            

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Just reading through the thread and had a general "theory" I wanted to throw out.
It works for me when I consider which signs/placements I would not want to have in a close relationship.
I am a triple Gem(Sun,Merc,Venus). Virgo annoys me ,badly.
I cannot understand Pisces .They are on a different wavelength.
I like Sag,the opposite sign, a lot.

So,I am thinking that the squares don't work but the oppositions do.
Do you find this?

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posted March 10, 2011 06:14 PM            

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Due to past experiences, I'd rather have ANY other venus than gem.

I mean seriously, is it even possible for them to remain faithful?

I'm a virgo sun lol but I got moon, mercury and venus in Libra (n in 7th house) so me = one man kinda girl.

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posted March 10, 2011 06:24 PM            

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@AmiAnne: Hmmm, I find I do get along with the other 2 Mutable Venuses (though pisces' professional martyrdom annoys me sometimes). Moons its pretty much the same; they all annoy me at some times but pisces and sag are far easier to get along with than gemini. I think it depends on the person: if you have lots of squares in your chart you are naturally going to gravitate to more challenging relationships (in which the person forms squares to most of your placements). Otherwise, yes, then square signs would usually annoy you. I know I cannot stand Libran energy, it just drives me up the wall....on the other hand, I'm not too fond of Capricorn energy either aside from the Moon placement. I don't think Oppositions work that well either in my case, except for with my Venus and Moon.

@Grlygirl: I think in terms of exes, I believe that they served their purpose in the relationship and its time to move on. It doesn't mean I won't be friendly with them if we run into eachother (granted thats only IF things ended REALLY amicably), but I don't really actively go out of my way to stay in contact with an ex. I'm actually pretty weird for a Cancer, once I realize things are past the point of salvaging then I can very easily let go of the person and move on. It must be the mutable Venus/Moon. What I can't let go of is the ideal of a partner that I have in my head....probably why I'm frequently single.

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posted March 10, 2011 06:28 PM            

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@Mintgirl, I can only speak for myself but I'm only a one-man person too. My Mercury's in Cancer though so that probably adds alot of depth to my Venus that wouldn't be there otherwise, I guess. Though that's not to say I've never fantasized about having 837734 seperate men for 23984284 seperate needs, but I don't think I could ever act on that.

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posted March 10, 2011 06:34 PM            

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BM
I don't know how this works but the energy that drives me up the wall is Aqua.
Maybe,if someone in your life, like a mother had a certain energy,you can't stand that energy lol

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posted March 10, 2011 06:39 PM            

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I don't think my distaste for most things Libran has anything to do with my past, they just bug me...LOL (except for the Moon placement, for some reason). Anywho, I have a stellium in Cancer so any person who's all about appearances (eg. shallow) is gonna annoy the crap out of me.

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posted March 10, 2011 09:27 PM            

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^ lol I have three placements in libra and I am anything BUT shallow.

Might be cos your stellium is squaring libra placements lol.

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posted March 10, 2011 11:48 PM            

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Gemini Venus here, can be playful, but I've never really had the desire to casually date - and that hasn't changed with Uranus transiting my 5th, either. (So far.)

I only have my progressed Moon in Virgo, so have nothing more to add.

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