posted March 05, 2011 04:46 PM            

I'm a Gemini Venus, so obviously my tastes can be a little eclectic (or weird, if you want to be blunt). The thing is, I don't care. I like what I like when I like it. I don't limit myself because I *shouldn't* for whatever invisible social rule. So you can imagine its maybe just a *little* annoying when everything that's of interest to you is picked apart to death because its just not 'cool' enough.

For irony's sake: I'm a Virgo Moon. I've heard all about the highlights of the moon/venus conjunction in synastry, but it does not apply to me...atleast not in the longterm. It starts out great, but then eventually becomes irritating. Yeah, I have my picky points too ...but about more important things than how so and so's nose is not in perfect proportion with their eyes, or running up huge bills shopping exclusively at Abercrombie and American Eagle.

posted March 05, 2011 06:11 PM            

Virgo Venus and Merc people do tend to grate on me. I love Virgo ASC and Virgo Suns and Moons though. (Probably my Taurus Rising) but the Merc and Venus tend to just be too limiting as you said. I do believe that Virgos have a lot to offer and I do think they are very critical thinkers in a good way, but just sometimes when they say things I wince. haha.

posted March 05, 2011 07:30 PM            

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they're only attracted to supermodels (male or female) regardless of how they actually fit on the scale,

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eh. the one i know is not necessarily attracted to super models at all. he tends to date girls less attractive (conventionally) than he is. he has a definite type though, and doesn't seem to deviate much from it.

posted March 05, 2011 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
he has a definite type though, and doesn't seem to deviate much from it.

you're right about everything else though lol.

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posted March 05, 2011 09:14 PM            

Ami Anne: I'm one of those Virgo Moons who throws a fit when my food is served the wrong way. -___-

Amowls: I guess its just me then. I remember in particular one girl who was a close friend freaked out when she found that her footy crush had imperfect facial proportions. No lies. I understand that she's an art major but....yeah, there's a reason we're not that close anymore.

posted March 05, 2011 09:55 PM            

But when it comes to romance I prefer Venus in Virgo. I'm a Venus in Pisces maybe thats why. But then I've only had "romantic experiences" with Venus virgo.

posted March 06, 2011 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
For irony's sake: I'm a Virgo Moon. I've heard all about the highlights of the moon/venus conjunction in synastry, but it does not apply to me...atleast not in the longterm. It starts out great, but then eventually becomes irritating.

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posted March 06, 2011 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
[b]For irony's sake: I'm a Virgo Moon. I've heard all about the highlights of the moon/venus conjunction in synastry, but it does not apply to me...atleast not in the longterm. It starts out great, but then eventually becomes irritating.

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I have a Gem Venus - I do get attracted to Gemini Moons, but in the end, I find them too cold and unreachable. I much prefer people with whom I know exactly where I stand because otherwise I go crazy in my head analyzing everything and I don't like to be in that situation. To me, Gemini Moon is pretty much the worst placement that Gemini could be in. Because it's your inner emotional nature that is all grey, not just your interests or personality. I can't deal with it even though I have 4 planets in Gemini. To me, even a Virgo moon is better. Or Aqua or Cap. But Gemini moons are just way too unreachable.

posted March 06, 2011 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
[b]For irony's sake: I'm a Virgo Moon. I've heard all about the highlights of the moon/venus conjunction in synastry, but it does not apply to me...atleast not in the longterm. It starts out great, but then eventually becomes irritating.

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posted March 06, 2011 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
To me, Gemini Moon is pretty much the worst placement that Gemini could be in. Because it's your inner emotional nature that is all grey, not just your interests or personality. I can't deal with it even though I have 4 planets in Gemini. To me, even a Virgo moon is better. Or Aqua or Cap.

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posted March 06, 2011 05:02 PM            

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I have Capricorn Moon so I'm smiling
Maybe something's wrong with me, lol, but the Gem Moons I know are sweethearts. We get along pretty well.

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No they are not bad people at all! I have many Gemini moon friends, but in relationships I cannot deal with them at all.

I must say 99% of the time I am with guys who have fixed moons. Mutable moons are fascinating to me - as are most people with Mutable placements, but in the end, I just want to be with some steady and yet someone who can let go.

Virgo can be a tricky placement for me. But I do have Taurus Rising so yeah... I much prefer those Virgo squares than the Pisces ones. I have a Virgo moon friend. He is able to see through people so clearly. He's truly amazing to me. I love Virgo in pretty much anything but Venus and Mars - Venus because they tend to be too restrained and Mars because I've have experience with it and it was frankly boring. lol I guess because those two signs are most pointedly having to do with friendship and relationships those are the hardest ones to deal with... which is why I typically can get along with people who have very different Sun/Moon signs but have aspects to my Merc/Venus/Mars. I think those tend to be more accurate tellers of how I'm going to get along with someone.

posted March 06, 2011 05:12 PM            

Venus and Mars in Virgo are a whole 'nother ball game (mars mostly depends on the sex of the person). There's this one chick in my class with both mars/venus conjunct in virgo and she grates on my every last nerve. Libra sun too. Not only is everything a popularity contest with her, but she's negative and exclusive (in the manner that I mentioned earlier) too. She also has a pisces moon near my mars so we're mutable squaring eachother up everywhere. Hope I never get stuck working with her.

Last virgo mars man I was attracted to was great (because of his taurus moon) but he was paradoxically prickly. It was weird considering he was a stoner who couldn't keep punctuality.

posted March 07, 2011 12:08 AM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
I am a Virgo Venus and I agree...we are too picky. But I can't help it. I'm not into supermodels though. Normal men do it for me too.
I don't limit anything else though. Music taste for example. I listen to everything ( from classical, rock, pop,folk, hip hop to metal) it doesn't matter what genre as long as it's good music. I have a Gemini Mars though and it's aspecting my ascendant, venus, mercury and other plantes, so it's quite dominant. Maybe that's why my tastes are so erratic.

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posted March 07, 2011 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by oceaneyes9:

about gemini. i cannot handle gemini, i think they are so fun and we agree on alot superficially... but thats about as far as it goes. change of directions give me whiplash, the lack of ability to go deep just makes me wanna ****** scream, the unreliability dont even get me startrd.

ill just leave them to someone else

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See I feel like Virgos come off as superficial... even though I can sense that they have something underneath it all. Geminis can think deep, but only in our own heads. I feel like Virgos are similar in that they can only do the same inside of themselves if that makes sense?

Geminis tend to be reliable only when reliability is not expected or demanded. As soon as it's expected it loses it's charm for us. We want to give freely, not have it dragged out of us! I know this is terribly frustrating. Those of us with a bit of Earth or Fire are a bit easier to deal with on this one. I know I am pretty reliable but I have a stellium in Cap and Taurus Rising.

I think that both Gemini and Virgo are not able to draw out the best in each other. Simply because both are observers rather than action takers. I know that those I know who have Virgo placements or heavy Virgo in them tend to draw my admiration and my interest, but it is almost always impossible to get closer than the surface. It's so frustrating because I think there must be something tender and beautiful underneath all that analysis and then I hit a dead brick wall (aka the evil critical Virgo mental block!!!!!) and as a Gemini I am not of the nature to try and put something into action. So it just ends up like a dead end. Virgos bring out the mothering instinct in me and then it's like BAM! They shut down emotionally and return to their little colorless little Virgo world of numbers and folding socks! LOL I for myself, really hate getting rejected and Virgos reject most often! hahaha

posted March 07, 2011 01:21 AM            

From my observation I've witness Gemini placements being extremely slutty..

Now cue the endless list of defenses from people with Gemini placements..

In cases like this you do you and I'll do me and we will agree to disagree.