posted March 20, 2011 05:34 AM            

But we're very intense, maybe a bit obsessed with one another. I have never trusted a man, ever. They always lie (the ones I've been with anyways), and he hasn't lied to me. I fully trust him.

And it's quite amazing how he can read me, no one can read me like him. I don't have to say anything or do the "I'm fine" girl thing. He knows, and he cares and it's really refreshing- for me I've always wanted someone who I didn't have to explain every little detail to.

I think maybe with the little I know of astrology, I have opened up to him alot and he has forced me to understand myself- not really him as much as just the relationship I guess. I understand me more, and I accepting myself and he deals with me really well which makes my learning a lot easier I guess?

It all feels like that cliche thing- OMG I've never felt this before. But, I have really never felt this before. We have alot of deep talks our bedroom life is HOT- we get eachother and it just works.

On the other hand our arguments lol. Not ever big ones but I get quiet and go into a shell so my scorp rising doesn't lash out and he just sits and waits with me. Though I have a tendency to make him feel guilty (not meaning to do that :/). But, I've learned how to control that more, and loosen up.

I don't even know if that has to do with it just a guess.

posted March 20, 2011 08:40 AM            

Pluto always operates on a relationship at a very deep level. There is absolutely nothing superficial about its operation. Even if you are not trying to change your partner, you will. And the changes will be felt from the innermost depths to the outermost reaches of your lives.

One problem that can arise with this aspect is a serious conflict of life directions. This is likely to be the source of considerable ego conflict between you.

The only way to deal with the energy of this aspect is to avoid all ego games. Confine yourselves to real sources of conflict and don't indulge in mutual harassment over small matters that you do not really care about but are using to score points at the other's expense.

***In SYNASTY***
What does it mean for your relationship when your natal Pluto is square your partner's Sun? A Pluto square Sun aspect can bring challenging insights. You and your romantic partner are likely to have a profound effect upon one another and you will experience romantic life on a whole new spiritual level. If your partner's Pluto is square your Sun, you may find yourself giving up everything you thought you had in order to begin your relationship. This will very likely be the most intense partnership you have known.

No matter what, this relationship has a powerful impact on both of your lives. You find your partner utterly fascinating, intriguing, and even mesmerizing. You are drawn to the Pluto person in a way that can be hard to verbalize. After meeting him or her, you feel like a fish out of water if that person is not around! The fascination is mutual, in fact, although your partner tends to have the "upper hand", so to speak, when it comes to the ultimate fate of the relationship. Why? Because you feel intensely expressive and unique—special, if you will—as a direct result of the Pluto person's attention, and he or she may feel the need to control that expression as the relationship passes the initial stages (which is likely to have been characterized by intense mutual attraction). Your partner can sometimes feel threatened by your displays of independence, ego, pride, and autonomy. He or she has an extraordinary window into your soul, and can easily see both your strengths and vulnerabilities. What your partner does with this privileged perception is the question. He or she can certainly help you grow, but there can be a temptation to subtly undermine your confidence if your partner would rather keep you dependent.

Because the nature of your relationship is deep, and because your connection to each other may seem other-worldly and hard to define, there can be downright explosive moments in your relationship. You may feel thrown off-balance now and again, fearing the loss of your partner, while he or she needs to take extra care to avoid trying to control the direction of your life. You draw out each other's dark sides, and there can frequently be battles of will between the two of you. There is a compulsive quality to your partnership that can be unnerving at times, and exhausting as well. Your connection certainly runs deep, and the very nature of your relationship makes it an especially significant one.

posted March 20, 2011 08:47 AM            

Sun square Pluto---both in composite and in synastry----in my own words:

posted March 20, 2011 02:44 PM            

I've found that to be only very slightly true. The reason why there are power struggles is because what we have is so intense that we are both like super insecure about showing ourselves to each other...whoch we feel the other person can already see anyway.

posted October 19, 2012 04:48 AM            

I found out that in my synastry with different people it seems to work this way. My pluto squaring his sun makes him obsessed with me, however his Pluto doesn't really touch much of my planets. I noticed in other synastries if someones Pluto squares my moon I'm the obsessed one,etc..

Here are me and this guy:

My pluto squares his sun less than 1 degree
trines his venus, opposes his mars, squares his jupiter, trines his uranus, squares his nn by 2 degrees and trines his mc.

Now his pluto only sextiles my mars less than 1 degree, trines my jupiter and squares my ac.

posted October 19, 2012 05:28 AM            

They been together since they were 15 and 14
They have DW Sun/Pluto. One is a square, one a trine.
My dad's Pluto squares my moms sun. mom's pluto trines his.

I have the same DW with the guy I just started talking to (as my girl RAS knows so it's interesting to read this right now) His Pluto squares my sun. My sun trines his Pluto

posted October 19, 2012 06:52 AM            

his pluto scorpio 12.31'21r
my sun leo 12.32'22

posted March 08, 2013 10:31 AM            

Obsession, jealousy, needing to be around eachother daily.

Only way i can describe it.

I am the sun and he is the pluto.

posted May 28, 2013 09:43 AM            

NOT GOOD

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Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus ( 11th House )
Moon in Libra
Rising sign Libra

Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen

posted May 28, 2013 10:10 AM            

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posted May 28, 2013 10:57 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I would like to hear people's experience with this one. I have Sun sextile Pluto which feels nice, as if you can stand up and be strong

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I have sun trine pluto in synastry.

These are mine and my boyfriends synastry pluto aspects:

Moon trine pluto
Mercury trine pluto
Pluto trine sun
Pluto trine saturn
Chiron trine pluto
Mars conjunct pluto
Pluto conjunct uranus
Pluto conjunct pallas
Uranus sextile pluto
Pluto sextile lilith
Neptune square pluto
Sun square pluto
Lilith square pluto
Juno square pluto
Pluto semisquare Asc
Pluto opposition chiron

Composite:

Venus trine pluto
Neptune sextile pluto
Pluto sextile Asc