posted March 31, 2011 04:20 AM            

Does it always work that way? Please, tell me what you think, anyone who has had Chiron relationships?

posted March 31, 2011 09:11 AM            

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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
Never love someone(even yourself) unconditinally... Disappointments are inevitable then....

By the way noone can love someone unconditionally, they just think they do. You love someone because he/she is her/himself or have the qualities you are looking for or only one act of him/her that you see made you love him/her. So this is a condition. There is no such thing unconditional love in pratique. Just in theory it exists..

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She,prolly ,did not mean in in the purist form. If *I* say I want to kill you, I may want to but I don't mean it in the purest sense of the word ,one would hope

posted March 31, 2011 09:30 AM            

You being the Pluto could have overwhelmed him,as the Mars.
The man needs to chase.I don't agree with the woman who say ,otherwise.
I think it is biology.
Perhaps, when the psychic told you he would be your husband, your Pluto got in chase mode.

posted March 31, 2011 09:34 AM            

His Venus oppose your Sun.This is supposed to be a true love aspect,I think.
I will look it up.
I think it is a marriage aspect which bodes true love .
He would be the Venus,the feminine planet.
You would be the Sun,the masculine.
Perhaps,here ,your roles were reversed as in the Pluto/Mars.
I am looking for clues as to why he ran so put that here as one.

posted March 31, 2011 09:44 AM            

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Synastry: Sun - Venus Aspects Between Two Charts

When the Sun in one chart forms an aspect to another person's Venus

Conjunctions, sextiles, and trines between the Sun and Venus are helpful aspects in any relationship. They create a sense of harmony and offer some common interests to the partnership. The Sun person feels more loving and beautiful in the presence of the Venus person. The Venus person finds the Sun person quite charming and intriguing. The Venus person admires the Sun person in such a way that he or she is willing to, and happy to, please the Sun. There is a mutual attraction here that, on its own, is not as insistent or sexual as other indicators (such as Venus-Mars or Venus-Pluto), but it is pleasing and supportive. Acceptance and tolerance characterize the partnership. Perhaps the most apt keyword for this combination is contentment. On a financial level, unless debilitated, this combination suggests some financial "luck" as a couple, or at the very least an overall agreement on how to spend and save money.

In particular, the conjunction suggests that the individuals find much to like in each other. Little qualities in each other that might seem commonplace to other people take on grander, more romantic, and valuable proportions in both Venus and the Sun's eyes. It is easy for the Sun person to draw out affection and tolerance from the Venus person, unless either planet is seriously debilitated natally. The sextile is not as powerful or obvious a connection, but it generates a feeling of mutual respect. The people see value in one another--they're most certainly worth each other's time! The trine is probably the most fortunate of aspects between the Sun and Venus in synastry. The individuals truly value each other. The only potential pitfall with the trine is complacency and lack of challenge, although it is more than likely that there are challenges elsewhere in the comparison, and in most cases this interaspect helps support the relationship.

Note that the idealizing characteristic of Sun-Venus connections is more natural and based on reality than those attractions that involve Neptune.

The more difficult aspects (opposition, square, and quincunx) can point to some problems and discord. The value system of the Venus native in this case is at odds with the Sun native's general outlook and life path. Each person tends to over-indulge the other at times, and frustrate one another the next day. Finding the Sun too dictatorial or self-righteous at times, the Venus person can resort to "playing games", passive-aggressiveness, appeasement, or charming the Sun into doing what he or she wants. The Venus person might also resent the Sun person, as Venus goes out of his/her way to please the Sun person and may not get what he/she wants in return. The Sun person may not appreciate the Venus person, or take Venus for granted. The square, in particular, can be challenging. The give and take of the relationship is tallied up, as Venus in particular wants to make things "fair" and balanced. As a result, when one person gives, the other senses that they are now obligated to give something in return. Depending on the natures of the individuals involved, this can be draining or stimulating! If the couple share resources, arguments over spending habits or where the money goes are likely. If the couple separates, and other rather challenging interaspects exist, things could get ugly, with love turning quite easily to hate. Probably the most frustrating problems with the square is that the relationship seems to promise a lot at the outset, but then frequently falls short of the individuals' expectations.

posted March 31, 2011 10:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I will let you comment on my last few posts before I go on,Venus Pisces

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Thanks so much for taking time out everyone! I will get back with you soon! I'm trying to meet some deadlines at work! Be back on prob later in the afternoon or this evening. thanks again Ami Anne

posted March 31, 2011 11:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
No, the man does not need to chase, but they end up falling over themselves for a piece of a$$ making a fool of themselves. they are trained into chasing. You do not have to chase, but you sure can. If he liked you, it wouldn't have made too much of a difference.

Maybe if you are looking for an astrological reason of why he and you are not together, you have all the reason you need right there. Maybe look at normal reason like your personalities did not match. Of course, this can be done astrologically, but better to find an excuse you can work with.

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Well, we are free to disagree and still be friends ,I hope
*I* think it is the biology of the species.

posted March 31, 2011 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Venus Pisces:
Thanks so much for taking time out everyone! I will get back with you soon! I'm trying to meet some deadlines at work! Be back on prob later in the afternoon or this evening. thanks again Ami Anne

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My pleasure

posted March 31, 2011 06:20 PM            

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I thought Sun opppose Venus was an easy aspect?
Am I wrong?
Could you explain this aspect ,please.I have it as a DW in synastry lol

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posted April 01, 2011 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by staborgi:
I've experienced Sun opposite Venus. We got along but mostly from a kind of "play bickering" kind of back and forth. Truth is though- it IS an opposition. It's attraction but also kind of like...what the Venus person values the Sun can't help but pick on and feel a little gloaty about it in the process (it was my Sag sun opp. his Gemini Venus). I think the attraction comes from being able to provide the exact opposite perspective if that makes sense, as opposed to being neutral or harmonizing and identifying.

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Makes sense,Starborgi

Did it aid the relationship,in the end ,or detract from it,if you can say?