posted April 08, 2011 08:41 PM            

because i have one with my lady, and i noticed more importantly, our grand trine is actually between all 3 fire element planets - Jupiter, mars, and sun.

her Mars in Sagittarius and Jupiter in Aries trine my Sun in leo (1-2 orb each)

to top it off, my Sun opposes her sun (aquarius) by 1/2 orb, kite?

posted April 08, 2011 08:52 PM            

the houses.. well her mars / saturn/ uranus is in her 6th house, and those planets are in my 5th (a fire house!)

my sun is in my 1st (possibly 2nd) and her jupiter is in the 11th house. her sun is in the 9th house (another fire house)

posted April 08, 2011 09:17 PM            

but if my sun completes her grand trine/kite, what does my 1st house sun (in her 3rd) supposedly offer her?

posted April 09, 2011 02:29 AM            

OK she's bringing her Venus trine Jupiter to you which are in your 1st and 5th houses of self expression. You have a huddled together stellium of Sun/Pluto/Mercury which can feel overwhelming sometimes so this gal brings a lot of loving and soothing energy to you, she makes it easier to unravel some of those feelings and thoughts you cling to and that can make you feel as if you're sometimes drowning, she opens up the emotional atmosphere for you and lets you just emote in a way that you feel accepted and that just makes you feel good. You're right the Mercury Venus Jupiter is good communication, liking to talk to each other and high spirits, being able to laugh with each other and at yourselves, so she's able to lighten the mood. There is a cocoon here that is emotional in tone since the main component is water, the thing with water is that you can feel sometimes as if you're drowning if you get too immersed, but this time it's sort of swimming around with each other and not realizing that other matters need to be attended to. As long as you make sure that you take care of practical matters too you'll be fine. She has Venus in Pisces in the 9th and Jupiter in Cancer in the 12th so in that sense she is very blessed, high idealism and luck at just the right time, lucky you if you're close to her you get to benefit from that.
It looks like you have her tob, so you're bringing her Merc/Pluto in Scorpio to her 5th, which brings her down to earth a bit and focuses her attention on romantic and pleasurable matters, and you bring her Scorpio which has great insight, so combined you give her relationship that has depth and a purpose, there's something meaningful here for her, and it also cocoons her giving her a vehicle to channel her romantic fantasies. This is emphasized by the Mars Neptune conj you 2 share. also her NN on your Asc adds a lot of meaning and purpose to being together, namely for her benefit.

posted April 09, 2011 10:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Hi lunatic,
I don't know the nature of the relationship but I'm just gonna act like it's romantic and if it's not you can just re-read it for a friendship or whatever it is.

OK she's bringing her Venus trine Jupiter to you which are in your 1st and 5th houses of self expression. You have a huddled together stellium of Sun/Pluto/Mercury which can feel overwhelming sometimes so this gal brings a lot of loving and soothing energy to you, she makes it easier to unravel some of those feelings and thoughts you cling to and that can make you feel as if you're sometimes drowning, she opens up the emotional atmosphere for you and lets you just emote in a way that you feel accepted and that just makes you feel good. You're right the Mercury Venus Jupiter is good communication, liking to talk to each other and high spirits, being able to laugh with each other and at yourselves, so she's able to lighten the mood. There is a cocoon here that is emotional in tone since the main component is water, the thing with water is that you can feel sometimes as if you're drowning if you get too immersed, but this time it's sort of swimming around with each other and not realizing that other matters need to be attended to. As long as you make sure that you take care of practical matters too you'll be fine. She has Venus in Pisces in the 9th and Jupiter in Cancer in the 12th so in that sense she is very blessed, high idealism and luck at just the right time, lucky you if you're close to her you get to benefit from that.
It looks like you have her tob, so you're bringing her Merc/Pluto in Scorpio to her 5th, which brings her down to earth a bit and focuses her attention on romantic and pleasurable matters, and you bring her Scorpio which has great insight, so combined you give her relationship that has depth and a purpose, there's something meaningful here for her, and it also cocoons her giving her a vehicle to channel her romantic fantasies. This is emphasized by the Mars Neptune conj you 2 share. also her NN on your Asc adds a lot of meaning and purpose to being together, namely for her benefit.

Can I ask you how you feel her unaspected Sun in the synastry? Do you think she feels noticed and recognized for her Aries qualities for example, or do you feel like you kinda sidestep those and instead the focus is more on you with the action on your Sun?

Thank you, that is interesting. Well,it's a romantic connection. I have a question. You said:
"It looks like you have her tob, so you're bringing her Merc/Pluto in Scorpio to her 5th."
My english are not that perfect, what does "have her tob" mean? And I think the 5th is my house, her houses are 9th and 12th, So I bring my Merc/Pluto scorpio 8th house to her 9th Venus and 12th Jupiter,right?

So, she brings her natal trine to me, I feel complete with her? It's more about her influence to me.

About the question with the unaspected sun, I don't know how to answer that. You think she doesn't feel her presence strong in the relationship because of that, there is a lack of dynamic here?

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posted April 09, 2011 06:43 PM            

The grand trine is:
Your Merc/Pluto in your 8th,
Her Venus in your 1st,
Her Jupiter in your 5th
that's from your perspective

and

Your Merc/Pluto in her 5th,
Her Venus in her 9th,
Her Jupiter in her 12th,
that's from her perspective

I covered both. It can be confusing for beginners reading where the house placements are when looking at synastry charts like this, but it's not complicated really.

posted April 09, 2011 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
tob = time of birth

The grand trine is:
Your Merc/Pluto in your 8th,
Her Venus in your 1st,
Her Jupiter in your 5th
that's from your perspective

and

Your Merc/Pluto in her 5th,
Her Venus in her 9th,
Her Jupiter in her 12th,
that's from her perspective

I covered both. It can be confusing for beginners reading where the house placements are when looking at synastry charts like this, but it's not complicated really.

You're right, I did put 'her' twice, I meant to write it once, the first time should have been 'your.' "Your Merc/Pluto in her 5th." The interp stays the same.

A BIG THANK YOU, I SEE IT NOW..

Well, I wanted to mention that her sun is not exactly unaspected. My ASC Sextile her sun(5) and my sun and mercury opposite her Sun(7, Also there are smaller aspects like my Saturn Quincunx her Sun(3)

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posted April 09, 2011 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Your Merc/Pluto are opp her Merc.
The orb's a bit wide for the sextile to your Asc, and a bit large for the inconjunct.. but I did mean unaspected by planets/luminaries. See if you were the one with the unaspected Sun it'd be easier to get some info o well.
You have me wondering.. How bad it can be. I have read that the planet that is unaspected gets powerful in natal, maybe it's the same in Synastry
Our sun are opposites in 7 degrees.. I will accept that

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