posted April 10, 2011 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
I don't wanna even admit this cos it took me yrs to find this out about myself but I have to say that I am v.much the same as how you described yourself in the 1st post and that's what it means for me, I have found.

I also wanna say that our Venuses are conj in Cap, mine is sq Saturn and yours is conj it.....Just an option on the table!

I still don't know exactly *why* I'm like this, but I'm at a point where I can admit this to myself. But at first it was weird for me to accept cos I always thought only men were like that.
Now that I accept it in my life, much of my past and current actions and feelings, etc. make sense. And where I *was* nothing made sense, I was on autopilot and felt somewhat out of control, cos my mind said I was one way, I believed that I wanted stability etc. but my actions and words said the opposite.

Not saying you're like this, just that you're not the only one! I was pretty surprised when I found women go through this too. I'm so sexist lol.

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posted April 10, 2011 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Also you have Mars conj Uranus, Moon conj Pluto (I have the square), Sun Aquarius (I have Sun sq Uranus). The major thing that's different is the Sun sq Moon that you have. I feel like I've gone over your chart before but I can't recall...I think I mentioned relationships that have closeness + space so that you don't get to feeling too suffocated.

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posted April 10, 2011 10:47 PM            

I want to say that outer planets are attuned to the collective unconscious, so you're acting on the needs desires of your generation, you're a conduit. I feel like saying "use it or lose it!"

I'm gonna send some links now cos you're making me think of OPP!

Outer-Planet Peeps: Are You One Of Them?

OPPs: Living on the Edge

posted April 11, 2011 08:31 AM            

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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
OK, I guess I always assumed it was Aqua or something. But I don't know, it happens with practically everyone and I dont know why!
Every time I find out or sense that a guy is interested in me, (even if I did like them as a person/friend or maybe a tad bit interested) I start to dislike them... alot! Then it turns to this rage hate thing where I'm like OMG leave me alone! Even if they are nice people who aren't doing anything wrong! Why? What is wrong with me?!?! Is it a defense mechanism or something? You think I need to post my chart? :\ Or is this affiliated with a certain sign?

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I have met meny aquarians with this characteristics. I met this guy who said he never has had more than 4months relationship. when he fell for somebody, the woman did not respond similarly. otherwise, women who fell for him where not the ones he wanted.

I have also observed this in venus conjunct uranus types. or uranus in 7th.

my belief is that the need for freedom is triggered when you know somebody is there. while you are attracted but not sure about his feelings you are the most interested. once you got him, you start (unconsciosly) feeling suffocated. it is like a mechanism that says "wahtch out" your freedom is at stake.

i suspect that once you acknoledge this as an issue, you can give yourself time to discover somebody and feel comfortable with his "availability". gives yourself time, dont throw away something that can be valuable, but give yourself time to get used to receive these wonderful feeling of being loved.

best

posted April 11, 2011 08:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Lucia23:
A Saturn-Venus conjunction can mean that the very ways that feel most natural to you for expressing your desires, also make you feel deeply uncomfortable. It can even mean "reading" or interpreting your own feelings wrong, like lust as revulsion, fear as lust, guilt as anger. I'm not sure how it would play out in Capricorn.

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Umm really badly...

posted April 11, 2011 08:50 AM            

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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
So basically its my whole chart and its combination.

OH! I'm not good with semi-square or semi anything haha but
How would that Uranus semi-square my moon affect me?

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posted April 11, 2011 09:01 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
[b]Oh dude, I'm totally like that and I'm an Aquarius moon with some significant Uranus aspects. I don't know what it is, either. I mean, this doesn't ALWAYS happen, but if anything I just feel bad for them? Clearly they wouldn't like me if they REALLY knew my personality, and I know they're just projecting ideals onto me that don't exist, and there's pity on my part for that. Then I just make it a point to avoid them.

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I think the laughing bit is you sag rising...

posted April 11, 2011 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Hon, you have some *major* outer planet stuff goin on, actually it's a pretty cool chart! I like it, with all those neat-o conjunctios.

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yaay haha

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Originally posted by Lonake:

I want to say that outer planets are attuned to the collective unconscious, so you're acting on the needs desires of your generation, you're a conduit. I feel like saying "use it or lose it!"

I'm gonna send some links now cos you're making me think of OPP!

Outer-Planet Peeps: Are You One Of Them?

OPPs: Living on the Edge

Dancing the Unconscious - The Outer Planets

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posted April 11, 2011 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
These are excerpts from Donna Cunningham's How to Read Your Astrological Chart: Aspects of the Cosmic Puzzle. They can be found at books.google.com and also at amazon.com which is where the screen captures were taken,

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posted April 11, 2011 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Taken from books.google.com, screenshot of 'How to read your astrological chart' - donna cunningham,

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posted April 11, 2011 08:28 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I have met meny aquarians with this characteristics. I met this guy who said he never has had more than 4months relationship. when he fell for somebody, the woman did not respond similarly. otherwise, women who fell for him where not the ones he wanted.

I have also observed this in venus conjunct uranus types. or uranus in 7th.

my belief is that the need for freedom is triggered when you know somebody is there. while you are attracted but not sure about his feelings you are the most interested. once you got him, you start (unconsciosly) feeling suffocated. it is like a mechanism that says "wahtch out" your freedom is at stake.

i suspect that once you acknoledge this as an issue, you can give yourself time to discover somebody and feel comfortable with his "availability". gives yourself time, dont throw away something that can be valuable, but give yourself time to get used to receive these wonderful feeling of being loved.

best

Nordic

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posted April 11, 2011 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
the venus-saturn as other have expressed makes difficult to receive affection. if as something inside you tells you that you are not lovable.

but hey, you have sagitario rising exalted in cancer in 7th. you are not allowing anyone to steal your freadom. add to the aquarian combo and...north node in aquarium and you get the picture that you need TOO MUCH space on one hand and accept that you deserve to be loved.

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posted April 11, 2011 11:42 PM            

The people who really get me in my life have hard aspects to the outer planets from their luminaries and we are in the same boat, even across generations, there's that bond cos you're both attuned to the same energy even if it's not the same sign.

But some are *overboard* like the lady I know with Moon conj Pluto in LEO of all signs, she's a whole diff animal, but she practically lives and resides on Pluto, president, mayor, governor, what have you. I will say that you feel very protected when you're around her and that's what Plutonians need, to protect and be protected.

I have other examples I dunno if you want, but that's my point with this. Look at the natals of the people you're interested to see if you're vibing on similar levels, these levels will be emphasized in the interaction no matter what the synastry says, this is the level where you two will feel bonded.

posted April 12, 2011 06:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Anglerfish:
I think the laughing bit is you sag rising...

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posted April 12, 2011 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Since you have v. strong outer planet correspondences in your chart, Ideally you'd be with someone the same, hard aspects to the outer planets from Sun Moon Angles. You won't feel out of place when you're around them, esp if you're sharing a similar chart dynamic (both have Asc hard aspect Uranus for example).

The people who really get me in my life have hard aspects to the outer planets from their luminaries and we are in the same boat, even across generations, there's that bond cos you're both attuned to the same energy even if it's not the same sign.

But some are *overboard* like the lady I know with Moon conj Pluto in LEO of all signs, she's a whole diff animal, but she practically lives and resides on Pluto, president, mayor, governor, what have you. I will say that you feel very protected when you're around her and that's what Plutonians need, to protect and be protected.

I have other examples I dunno if you want, but that's my point with this. Look at the natals of the people you're interested to see if you're vibing on similar levels, these levels will be emphasized in the interaction no matter what the synastry says, this is the level where you two will feel bonded.

And I pay a lot of attn to generational planets, and generational dynamics with regard to astrology, just because I really see them play out in people, even if they're not emphasized in the natal. If they're emphasized then it becomes a driving force.

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