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CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 11:48 AM
  
OK, I guess I always assumed it was Aqua or something. But I don't know, it happens with practically everyone and I dont know why!
Every time I find out or sense that a guy is interested in me, (even if I did like them as a person/friend or maybe a tad bit interested) I start to dislike them... alot! Then it turns to this rage hate thing where I'm like OMG leave me alone! Even if they are nice people who aren't doing anything wrong! Why? What is wrong with me?!?! Is it a defense mechanism or something? You think I need to post my chart? :\ Or is this affiliated with a certain sign?------------------
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Lucia23
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posted April 10, 2011 11:58 AM
OMG, this kind of sounds like some Aquas I know. Does it work in reverse? Like, someone acts not-interested and you start to feel fascinated by them?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 10, 2011 12:01 PM
I don't think it has anything to do with astrology tbh, but who knows?
I'm the same way and I'm a Scorpio.
My mother told me once she was the same way when she was young, and she's a Leo.I think you shouldn't worry about that.
I know how weird it is to feel that way about someone who has feelings for you, especially when you should be flattered, but I guess we are all full of contradictions, and there is nothing wrong with being who you are and feeling what you feel. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 10, 2011 12:04 PM
Maybe it is "I don't want to be a member of a club that will have me as a member  ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 12:18 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Maybe it is "I don't want to be a member of a club that will have me as a member
Had to get a stab in about Aquas.
And thats not it at all.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 10, 2011 12:20 PM
No,it was a general statement that could be applied to all of us. Chill Girlfriend  ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 12:20 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I don't think it has anything to do with astrology tbh, but who knows?
I'm the same way and I'm a Scorpio.
My mother told me once she was the same way when she was young, and she's a Leo.I think you shouldn't worry about that.
I know how weird it is to feel that way about someone who has feelings for you, especially when you should be flattered, but I guess we are all full of contradictions, and there is nothing wrong with being who you are and feeling what you feel.
I don't even have the energy to respond to this.IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic
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posted April 10, 2011 12:23 PM
aspeccts between uranus and the personal planets without a doubtIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 10, 2011 12:24 PM
Crazy Aqua
We ALL have this,to a degree. It is under the category "human" and/or low self esteem.
Some people may/do have it more but you are not an anomaly or a weird-o.
THAT is all everyone is trying to say  ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
OMG, this kind of sounds like some Aquas I know. Does it work in reverse? Like, someone acts not-interested and you start to feel fascinated by them?
I'm trying to think of a situation where that happened..... I don't think it work the other way around, at least for me. I can't recall being attracted to people who don't want me. Plus that is a large group of people lolIP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted April 10, 2011 12:26 PM
It doesn't happen to me. It may be an Aqua thing. I don't know. It could also be a control thing. Perhaps "liking people" is your thing, and you don't like it when other people do it to you first. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 12:30 PM
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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
aspeccts between uranus and the personal planets without a doubt
I have Uranus in the first house, conjunct Mars, semi-square moon, opposed Jupiter (7 orbs too big?) and Chiron. Never really looked into my semi-squares.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 10, 2011 12:30 PM
Crazy Aqua
As Dysfunctionalmystic suggested,what aspects do you have with Uranus and personal planets?
You know what just hit me,list your aspects to the ASC,please .------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
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CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 12:36 PM
AcousticGod
Hmm control could be part of it.I'll just post my chart
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Lucia23
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posted April 10, 2011 12:41 PM
A Saturn-Venus conjunction can mean that the very ways that feel most natural to you for expressing your desires, also make you feel deeply uncomfortable. It can even mean "reading" or interpreting your own feelings wrong, like lust as revulsion, fear as lust, guilt as anger. I'm not sure how it would play out in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 10, 2011 12:51 PM
What does this symbol mean < ?
I am gonna check out aspects to your ASC cuz I think I felt it was the ASC,somehow ,which may yield answers .------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Doux Rêve
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posted April 10, 2011 12:53 PM
I agree about the control part.
I am very Plutonian and my mother has Pluto conjunct Mercury and Sun conjunct Uranus.You have Moon and Pluto in Scorpio. That might be it, along with the Uranus stuff. IP: Logged |
enchantress299
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posted April 10, 2011 12:55 PM
Hmmm...I don't think it's an Aquarian thing, as I've known quite a few Aquas and they all seem to love the attention, even if it's someone they have absolutely no interest in. In fact, many of the ones I've known will manipulate it to their advantage. Me personally, I become VERY UNCOMFORTABLE if someone is actively showing an interest in me and I have no interest in them. I think part of this is because I then feel put upon, like I have to fulfill some sort of role for them and I never asked for the job. Is that possibly why you feel angry when someone else has an interest in you? Do you feel like you HAVE to respond a certain way? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 10, 2011 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What does this symbol mean < ?
Ami, that's for Semisquare.
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dysfunctionalmystic
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posted April 10, 2011 12:58 PM
After I'd written my first reply I actually wondered if you had a freedom/closeness issue...the moon/pluto can be very obsessive and demand a lot of "intimacy" yet the uranian side of you won't like it. It could be that the repulsion kicks in when you simply need space.. but at the same time the moon/pluto has to be able to trust whoever it is giving space to. Venus/saturn is notorious for causing problems in any kind of relationship, you have quite a difficult chart, lots of conflicts that all need a voice and somehow need to be integrated and/or satisfied. You may not be aware of how strongly you put yourself across to people emotionally...I mean that other people will feel your vibes very strongly, they may misinterpret what you are "giving out" and you may not like this..or at least your aqua and uranian stuff won't like it. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 01:02 PM
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Originally posted by enchantress299:
Hmmm...I don't think it's an Aquarian thing, as I've known quite a few Aquas and they all seem to love the attention, even if it's someone they have absolutely no interest in. In fact, many of the ones I've known will manipulate it to their advantage. Me personally, I become VERY UNCOMFORTABLE if someone is actively showing an interest in me and I have no interest in them. I think part of this is because I then feel put upon, like I have to fulfill some sort of role for them and I never asked for the job. Is that possibly why you feel angry when someone else has an interest in you? Do you feel like you HAVE to respond a certain way?
That does make sense, I feel like I suddenly
on trial or on the spot and it just ruins everything! Now if I show them I don't feel that way, which I hate having to do that awkward confrontation, and I don't want to hurt anyone and then I think did I lead them on? Then its like well there goes our relationship now this person thinks I'm a ***** , so I feel stressed.
But it feels like there is something else underneath it all that I don't know..... feels like I push people away. But there is a difference between pushing people away and beginning to hate them.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
After I'd written my first reply I actually wondered if you had a freedom/closeness issue...the moon/pluto can be very obsessive and demand a lot of "intimacy" yet the uranian side of you won't like it. It could be that the repulsion kicks in when you simply need space.. but at the same time the moon/pluto has to be able to trust whoever it is giving space to.
Yes, thats very true and annoying quote:
Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Venus/saturn is notorious for causing problems in any kind of relationship, you have quite a difficult chart, lots of conflicts that all need a voice and somehow need to be integrated and/or satisfied. You may not be aware of how strongly you put yourself across to people emotionally...I mean that other people will feel your vibes very strongly, they may misinterpret what you are "giving out" and you may not like this..or at least your aqua and uranian stuff won't like it.
Maybe its the Neptune in the first house
In what way? Or are you just saying in general?IP: Logged |
northernlad
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posted April 10, 2011 01:07 PM
i'm wondering if it might have to do with your sag asc and a uranus that has a lot going on with it. i have a sag ascendant conj uranus and i have similar issues, although it never escalates to rage... i just need my space to do my own thing and feel smothered easily.IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic
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posted April 10, 2011 01:09 PM
I didn't mean the nep in 1st no, i was referring to the moon/pluto giving out vibes without the rest of your chart knowing.the venus and mars are both con sat...and saturn likes to have boundaries, people could be crossing your boundaries...and you then react by pulling away? IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted April 10, 2011 01:11 PM
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Originally posted by northernlad:
i'm wondering if it might have to do with your sag asc and a uranus that has a lot going on with it. i have a sag ascendant conj uranus and i have similar issues, although it never escalates to rage... i just need my space to do my own thing and feel smothered easily.
It probably adds to it yes, and the intensity of it must be my Scorpio Moon
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