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Topic: Anyone else feeling lonely?
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Doux Rêve
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 03:02 PM
  
I often feel lonely.I wonder why, because I have the possibilty to talk to quite a few people, but I just don't feel like doing so, and then I just go and feel lonely. It's like there is something missing inside of me, and nobody can fill the void within. I used to blame that on Saturn in the 11th, but actually I don't think there is a placement for that particular feeling. IP: Logged |
Quinnie
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posted April 30, 2011 03:29 PM
Yep I am....I think it might have something to do with saturn in Libra in opposition to lots of planets in Aries right now... There is a general feeling of frustration and loneliness within relationships for people generally.But hey post up your chart and we can have a look  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 03:44 PM
Quinnie, Thank you for your reply.
Makes me feel a bit better to know that I am not alone through this.
You are probably right about the transiting planets in hard aspects to each other.. there is that huge Aries stellium right now, and Aries is my 12th house, maybe that is the reason.Here is my chart (the Asc aspects are a bit too wide, they are not REALLY supposed to make a Grand Cross, see that Saturn Asc square with a 10° orb.. ahem)  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 03:47 PM
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Lukas
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From: Skopje, macedonia
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 30, 2011 04:00 PM
I have Saturn in Cancer in 12th house. And Saturn is ruler of my 7th House (cusp Capricornus). Ans Saturn has just squares (to Sun in my 10th house), to Mercury and Jupiter in my 9th House, to Pluto in my 3rd house. I feel lonely. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 04:03 PM
I am sorry guys.
Know that even though you feel lonely, you are not alone through this.Keep up the hope. Ps. Thank you for sharing. IP: Logged |
Quinnie
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posted April 30, 2011 04:28 PM
I have Saturn in the 12th too Lukas...definitely a loner or lonely aspect.Doux Rêve I couldn't see your chart...but yes you are not alone  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 05:00 PM
Doux
I was thinking about your question from the perspective of when I have NOT felt lonely.
Why?
These times are rare but I have had them. I usually have a longing which is out of reach.
What do I want or whom?
It is vague. I try to fill my loneliness with people and it doesn't work. I know they can't fill it. I know that but I keep trying. I fill it with activities but it doesn't touch it ,either. I have an answer that I can't grasp so I will go for a bit and be back
Sending love to you Darling  ------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 05:09 PM
Thank you Quinnie.
(((Ami))) Darling thank you.
I know how it feels.
Just hold on .
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starzy54
Knowflake Posts: 221
From: CA
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 05:21 PM
I also feel this way,this week especially I miss my Fiance.I miss him more so this week than i usually do.He lives 3000 miles away lolIP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Praha
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 05:49 PM
Doux Rêve,where's ur Chiron and NN??IP: Logged |
Deluded
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 07:32 PM
Me too. Lonely for too long.In fact, for so long that I think I actually just enjoy it now, just cos I might as well Do I blame it on Saturn transiting 5th house? Sun conjunct Uranus or Moon conjunct Saturn?! (Saturn in 2nd house conjunct Moon in 1st). IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2011 07:49 PM
My Chiron is in Virgo, conjunct my Moon in the 5th.NN is conjunct DSC in Sagittarius. Chiron and NN actually square each other.
Oh guys.
I see there are plenty of us feeling all lonely here! wow. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 09:22 AM
I have been thinking of your question,Doux,ever since you posted it.
It hit me in a deep place, the plaintive nature of it,the human cry.
My answer,in part,is that there will never be a "fit" of US with LIFE.
Life and the human condition are like puzzle pieces which you can never get to fit together. You can twist and turn and partially fit,at times.
However,the end result will probably be that you messed with the puzzle piece so much that it is too ragged to fit anywhere lol ------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 09:32 AM
Thank you for your reply Ami.I don't know if we can ever fill that void within, but everyone tries to live the best way they can. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9324
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 01, 2011 09:47 AM
Very true Doux ------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs IP: Logged |
Venus
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: Beirut, Lebanon
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 01, 2011 09:50 AM
im always lonly too, and i dont feel safe even when im in my bed at night after locking the door with a dozen locks! its weird being this way, i never was before! i blame it on my Libra sun and the constant need of a companion but it never bothered me this much before..IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 09:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Venus:
im always lonly too, and i dont feel safe even when im in my bed at night after locking the door with a dozen locks! its weird being this way, i never was before! i blame it on my Libra sun and the constant need of a companion but it never bothered me this much before..
Aw I'm sorry  But don't worry, sometime you'll find a partner.
For sure. We all feel lonely at times.
I think it's only natural, after all. And, if you feel like you have that anxiety of feeling unsafe alone at night even in your bed with locked doors, maybe you should consider to get some help, it might be OCD or general anxiety.. hard to live with. Just keep it cool, everything is going to be okay. Keep up the Hope, friends. IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 1529
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 01, 2011 10:04 AM
Lonely is when you are on your own. That is house 1. I guess a strong 1st house aspect can show how you would deal with being on your own.I've lived with people all my life, until I moved out. This was a lonely time for me, but I coped. It happens a lot, especially if you live on your own. Maybe nothing much from the chart, apart from how you deal with this. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 10:10 AM
I agree Coffee.Thank you for your input. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9324
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 10:10 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Venus:
im always lonly too, and i dont feel safe even when im in my bed at night after locking the door with a dozen locks! its weird being this way, i never was before! i blame it on my Libra sun and the constant need of a companion but it never bothered me this much before..
Put your chart up ,Venus.------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs IP: Logged |
starfox
Knowflake Posts: 210
From: London England
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 11:06 AM
Yes I've felt lonely all my life.Like one of Plato's androgynes IP: Logged |
abcd efg
Knowflake Posts: 310
From: India
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 01, 2011 12:54 PM
Yes that lonely feeling! Sigh!! When i feel this way i wallow in my own misery for sometime and then turn within. It happens automatically and then i am OK. It works perfectly for me. Does anyone do/try this. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 12:57 PM
starfox, I am sorry.
Know that you are not alone !
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Originally posted by abcd efg:
Yes that lonely feeling! Sigh!! When i feel this way i wallow in my own misery for sometime and then turn within. It happens automatically and then i am OK. It works perfectly for me. Does anyone do/try this.
Yes I do the same thing I think.
I have to endure that feeling, and then I feel better. But then it keeps coming back sigh.
Over and over again. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 993
From: Praha
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 01, 2011 01:51 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
My Chiron is in Virgo, conjunct my Moon in the 5th.NN is conjunct DSC in Sagittarius. Chiron and NN actually square each other.
Oh guys.
I see there are plenty of us feeling all lonely here! wow.
I thought bit of astro answer lies in Chiron&NN... H1-7 NN has circumstance of lone path,and Chiron colours ur Moon... U could be great adviser to troublesome youths,or defecologist.. With ur strong Scorpio,too.
U r not lonely Doux Rêve,u got LL! IP: Logged |
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