posted May 04, 2011 08:31 PM            

hmm

The Leo or the Sag...

decisions
decisions

I think she looks happier with Michael Vartan (He's the Sagittarius)

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And here's an Aries/Pisces couple (also together for years) - Sarah Michelle Gellar & Freddie Prinze jr.

posted May 05, 2011 04:10 AM            

I can understand why that story confuses you; his behaviour does seem a little erratic. Wish I had some insight to offer you, sorry..

Rachel

posted May 05, 2011 09:32 AM            

Interesting to see what happens, though!

Rachel x

posted May 05, 2011 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by love being Aries:
yeah Rachel...u know that we don't like ambiguities or beating about the bush. the worst torture for an Aries is to keep them guessing where they actually stand with you LOL. besides he said a few things like he wants to remain unpredictable etc. just don't know. still waiting for things to further disclose themselves

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posted May 06, 2011 06:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:

So, in this case, there are two choices: either I walk away right then and there, or I put the cards on the table and say what's on my mind. I've had a bit of success with the second one and guys confessed they weren't sure how THEY standed with me so they acted ambiguous.

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posted May 06, 2011 08:36 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
A best match for an Aries woman? A shield & broad sword

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posted May 07, 2011 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by love being Aries:
the thing in my case is that he is a very good friend, now what do i say, you don't want to see me romantically so m ending the friendship too, and i did put the cards out, yet he clearly rejected the ides [though in a very dignified way, did hurt me for few days but then i moved on...so Aries of me ] and then he comes back and beat about the bush...urghhh

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posted May 07, 2011 12:52 AM            

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esides he said a few things like he wants to remain unpredictable etc. just don't know. still waiting for things to further disclose themselves

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I think quite a few men out there behave this way.
I think it’s seriously bad behaviour… and (this is definitely my Capricorn talking) I dislike rewarding bad behaviour.
I would have to stop all input… when this happens – because it’s the only way they would think twice about their behaviour in the future (even if it won’t be with me… but with their future love interests).

If you continue to give them attention – they will form the impression that this *works* with women in general --- that keeping people guessing is fun, and keeps you at the centre of their attention.

You have to cut ALL attention. Losing you completely - is the only way to educate them.

posted May 07, 2011 01:06 AM            

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Actually that's a huge turn off for me - if he's undecided about being with me.

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I feel the same way. It's not just annoying - It's actually a sexual put off. My attraction levels go down.

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I personally have made a decision not to accept this type of behaviour, even if I like the dude

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Same. I don't even wait at all. I'm so convinced that people who behave this way have insecurity issues and psychological issues (attention seeking, low self-esteem etc.) that I think it's best for me to keep my distance.
I'm rather sexually/emotionally healthy and I'm happy with who I am.
So I need to be with someone who is just as relaxed about everything and honest ^

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there are two choices: either I walk away right then and there, or I put the cards on the table and say what's on my mind.

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That's interesting. I always walk away.
But maybe I should consider the second option.
I guess I have an ounce of pessimism about it... "tiger don't change its stripes" kind of thing..
And -- If I was upfront about my feelings towards them - and lest say I had a positive reaction....... I still couldn't forget that they have insecurities/issues that I don't particularly want to deal with.
Because this would mean they ONLY began to behave normally once they were sure I liked them.
This kind of insecurity is definitely a put off.

I don't see this in earth sign men though. I've never had the problem with them. I actually find them pretty honest. It's just that they like to take things slowly - which I don't mind.
But water sign men are huge culprits

Just my experience ^^

PS. I dislike the stubborn ones who get it into their heads that this behaviour is attractive to women... and no matter what you do or say --- they really believe that this is something you are *enjoying*. That's why I completely avoid them and give zero input.

I don't think the word "annoying" registers.
It's like when little boys pull on your pony tail in primary school to annoy you and get your attention.
It's just that some things can be slightly annoying *but* you can put up with them.... whereas other things (like this indecisive crap) is extremely annoying and you have no desire to put up with it at all (or at least I don't).

posted May 07, 2011 03:35 AM            

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Sometimes you just have to put your foot on the ground and say ENOUGH![/B]

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posted May 07, 2011 09:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:

I think quite a few men out there behave this way.
I think it’s seriously bad behaviour… and (this is definitely my Capricorn talking) I dislike rewarding bad behaviour.
I would have to stop all input… when this happens – because it’s the only way they would think twice about their behaviour in the future (even if it won’t be with me… but with their future love interests).

If you continue to give them attention – they will form the impression that this *works* with women in general --- that keeping people guessing is fun, and keeps you at the centre of their attention.

You have to cut ALL attention. Losing you completely - is the only way to educate them.

The other thing is – People do not believe that you are genuinely upset, unless you leave.
Otherwise – they think their behaviour is either tolerable to you or attractive. So they have no reason to change.

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posted May 07, 2011 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by love being Aries:

you are right. i did stop caring about him after this attitude he gave me, but then he comes back again like m his best friend and bla bla. but yeah now i will try this no attention thing with him. lets see

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Oh, he's gonna die! LOL. But he earned it.

Betty ! Yeah, we should have our dignity and not fall on our back when they behave like this. Yeah!! Easier said then done, though... But, yeah!!!

posted May 07, 2011 05:14 PM            

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Dreamy I emailed you, I hope you received it, I don't know if you still use that addy I have. [/B]

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posted May 09, 2011 01:01 PM            

He is an attractive guy. So I was into, when I first met him. He led me on a bit, but regected me, but we still exchanged numbers.

We would text and flirt sometimes, and I would hang out with him and friends sometimes.

But then I realized oh he has a girlfriend.
I never met her though.

and then he had another girl after her.

And it just seems the older he gets, the sleezier he gets.

He was on and off with the 2nd girl so much and often he TRIED to get rebound sex with me.
And when he was on with his girlfriend, he would hang out with me behind her back, when I was up front with my ex about who I was hanging out with.

So obviously I'm not interested in this Sag guy anymore.

When he is drunk he has issues with boundries, and is a '**** block' Like I shouldn't have to tell him no twice, if you know what I mean. If I don't want to make out with him when he's drunk he will say something like "It's cause I'm ugly" And then I will snap at him. (cause it has nothing to do with that)
He is an ecellent wing man when he is sober. But when he is drunk he is useally all over me.
And that is really starting to p!ss me off. I had to tell him one time in front of people at a party "Just cause I've made out with you a few times, and we are both single, doesn't mean I always have to make out with you!!"

I hung out with him yesterday. It was 6 guys, and me and my friend where the only girls there. And there was drinking. So he was seriously all over me. Which is annoying cause I want to check out the other guys there! I was talking to this one interesting guy...and then Sag guy would sit between us, try and change our subject, and try and make out with me.
But I was glad that he was a **** block when his older brother was tring to talk to me. Cause one, he's hooked up with my 2nd cousin. Two I'm so not into him like that. Like he is nice, but eww no.

posted May 09, 2011 01:17 PM            

And his moon is in Taurus, his Merc is in Sag, Venus in Libra, and Mars in Scorpio.

posted May 10, 2011 10:51 AM            

^thats what I said a page back
And I found out that my Sagittarius guy friend's brother is a Libra. I like him but I don't 'like him like him' (haha Hey Arnold idioms!)

posted March 27, 2012 01:51 PM            

An ARIES , he's charming yes and you will be attracted to him since there's soo much in common but you will end up exhausted from this relationship ... too much arguments and the energy is not balanced

A taurus , he's cute and extremley a gentleman but he has his anger bursts , he will always tell you what you want to hear this relationship can turn into a good marriage but there will no spark of excitment

A gemini, it will be interesting and fun and he's one of the men you can be totally yourself around him since he doesn't care about anything except the way you talk

A cancer, he's very shy and reserved howvere he 'll express his interest in body language ( he'll only look at you, seem to be only seeing you, ask about you, ready to help you ) he will be very sweet and you will love it to the extreme since you are eactly the opposite. This can work out perfect if you have enough romance and sensitivity ... [ don't believe the others who says it's not good ]

A leo, never experienced this. But they say it's great.

A virgo, never experienced it.

A libra , there 's always this fiery shiney spark between us and I love it , am totally me and my energy is always at its best when I'm with this guy !

A scorpio , what I love about that scorpio man is whatever I did he seems very interested in , and he seems to make me feel a young girly woman inspite of all my aggressive behavior ... even the crazy side of me he seems to love it and when I say something totally crazy and random he looks at me and smile widely and never say anything and I know I did please him ... love these men ! I tell you they are the best for us cause with them, you will never have to give up on your aggressive tom boyish acts cause they adore it and appreciate it . To me they are the full package.

A sagg , I lovvve them ! never been with a boring sagg , we always share this mix of friendship caring yet sexy relationship. Also here my energy is at its peak and am over shiney, radiant, funny and flirty when am around them . Not good for a stable relationship though... it lasts for months ...

A capp , I have been in a terrible one. He has been putting constraints all over me and my freedom was smashed ! and very boring...

An Aqua good as friends , though there's chemistry out there , but I always seem to have hate-love relationships with them , however cause we both are easy going it plays out good to have a " shallow " friendship.

posted March 27, 2012 01:54 PM            

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My experience ..

An ARIES , he's charming yes and you will be attracted to him since there's soo much in common but you will end up exhausted from this relationship ... too much arguments and the energy is not balanced

A taurus , he's cute and extremley a gentleman but he has his anger bursts , he will always tell you what you want to hear this relationship can turn into a good marriage but there will no spark of excitment

A gemini, it will be interesting and fun and he's one of the men you can be totally yourself around him since he doesn't care about anything except the way you talk

A cancer, he's very shy and reserved howvere he 'll express his interest in body language ( he'll only look at you, seem to be only seeing you, ask about you, ready to help you ) he will be very sweet and you will love it to the extreme since you are eactly the opposite. This can work out perfect if you have enough romance and sensitivity ... [ don't believe the others who says it's not good ]

A leo, never experienced this. But they say it's great.

A virgo, never experienced it.

A libra , there 's always this fiery shiney spark between us and I love it , am totally me and my energy is always at its best when I'm with this guy !

A scorpio , what I love about that scorpio man is whatever I did he seems very interested in , and he seems to make me feel a young girly woman inspite of all my aggressive behavior ... even the crazy side of me he seems to love it and when I say something totally crazy and random he looks at me and smile widely and never say anything and I know I did please him ... love these men ! I tell you they are the best for us cause with them, you will never have to give up on your aggressive tom boyish acts cause they adore it and appreciate it . To me they are the full package.

A sagg , I lovvve them ! never been with a boring sagg , we always share this mix of friendship caring yet sexy relationship. Also here my energy is at its peak and am over shiney, radiant, funny and flirty when am around them . Not good for a stable relationship though... it lasts for months ...

A capp , I have been in a terrible one. He has been putting constraints all over me and my freedom was smashed ! and very boring...

An Aqua good as friends , though there's chemistry out there , but I always seem to have hate-love relationships with them , however cause we both are easy going it plays out good to have a " shallow " friendship.

A Pisces , he'll understand you and will love how mentally strong and independent you are he 'll turn to you for descisions ... but you , you will never understand him . Not good, my energy level was very low in this , and I couldn't handle his quite weird ways ... plus he never takes the initiative.

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