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posted May 23, 2011 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ahhh Starfox
My luck is no better if that helps lol

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Yeah..

posted May 23, 2011 07:29 PM            

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posted May 23, 2011 07:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
you
me

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posted May 23, 2011 10:38 PM            

I certainly have a difficult time with the vulnerability aspect of love/intimacy which makes me very "unaffectionate". Both in romantic and unromantic relationships.

For me, to show affection = showing love. Love = vulnerable. Vulnerable = weak. so Affection = weak. That's the logic I use in relationships, I am very discreet if I have feelings... in my younger years, I would overcompensate by acting so aloof and indifferent that men would stray... can't say I blame them tho.

My need for independence & space really makes me hestitant to want to settle... I am extremely picky b/c I will not "give up my freedom" for just anyone.

I would say this is a difficult placement for those that really crave companionship, almost like it creates an invisible wall...

posted May 24, 2011 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by bluegreyeyes:
Aqua Sun and venus here.

I certainly have a difficult time with the vulnerability aspect of love/intimacy which makes me very "unaffectionate". Both in romantic and unromantic relationships.

For me, to show affection = showing love. Love = vulnerable. Vulnerable = weak. so Affection = weak. That's the logic I use in relationships, I am very discreet if I have feelings... in my younger years, I would overcompensate by acting so aloof and indifferent that men would stray... can't say I blame them tho.

My need for independence & space really makes me hestitant to want to settle... I am extremely picky b/c I will not "give up my freedom" for just anyone.

I would say this is a difficult placement for those that really crave companionship, almost like it creates an invisible wall...

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My Mother has Aqua sun combust Mercury. Feelings and affection were very hard for her.
Her sister is a Cancer Sun.I would crave to go to my Aunt's house with the warm Cancer energy.
I still do lol

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posted May 24, 2011 06:39 PM            

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I think the key to nabbing an Aqua Venus romantically is to be even less commitment-centric and clingy than they are.

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posted May 24, 2011 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by thisisaquarius:
I've got Venus in Aquarius and, while I love it to death, I'm pretty sure it's going to keep me single for my whole life! I don't mind though. I love the stage where there's a little affection, mostly just friendship with a question of whether it's more or not. Once it gets past that I back away because romance and relationships smother me. If I found a guy who wanted to be my best friend, took me exploring, did his own thing A Lot and didn't force any sort of romance on me I'd love him forever. I haven't met a single guy like that yet though, so I'm perpetually (but happily) stuck at the pre-relationship stage with every guy I meet and like right now.

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posted May 24, 2011 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by starfox:
I feel like the male version of your reply..

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posted May 25, 2011 05:42 AM            

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Originally posted by thisisaquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by starfox:
[b] I feel like the male version of your reply..

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Edit: your sun is in XI isn't is starfox? Funnily enough, mine is in the same place. It'd be interesting to compare natal charts and see if we have any other similarities.[/B][/QUOTE]

Yes, see what you have similar.

posted May 25, 2011 12:57 PM            

I think it has to do with trust. I'm hard to get to know. I'm very friendly and treat everyone the same and how I'd like to be treated (I've had people commenting on how interesting it is that I treat men and women the same). That's probably got to do with the 11th house, where those three planets are.
I need to feel that the person accepts me, that whatever I say won't be judged. That there's some kind of unspeakable bond between us. I need to feel safe. And I rarely do. I rarely feel that people are worthy of my trust. Life has taught me to keep my arms open but to have standards. I'm a bit naive still.

I'm friendly but there's a part of me most people never get to see. My moon's in the 12th house, which I'm sure "helps" with that.

I also don't flirt like most people do. My flirting is intellectual and very direct. Whenever I try to do it any other way I come off so awkward it's painful. LOL
I don't like things being easy. I like having to work for it, and I guess I expect the same from the other person.
I need my lover to be my friend. To have my back.

Also, I have a hard time finding people I like enough to want to be physically/romantically involved with (but that's probably Pluto in the 7th).

Friendship wise I'm very liberal. I'm not the kind of person that sees friends every day. Or phone. I'm not good with phones. Or direct stuff, like instant messaging and that stuff. I prefer to be face to face with people.

Also, I really value my alone time. And a lot of people don't understand that. I can assure everyone here that doesn't have this placement that Venus in Aquarius NEEDS to be alone. Constantly. You won't be able to understand or even like us if you can't respect that.

In return we give you plenty of time to do whatever you want without us, and we won't nag you for it.

posted May 25, 2011 02:48 PM            

I enjoy affection, and I do fall in love, but it's difficult for me to commit. I simply prefer to be alone on a regular basis.

I have only been involved with one person who did not suffocate me, a man with Sun/Mercury in Aquarius, Venus/Ascendant in Capricorn, and Moon/Mars in Libra. In fact, we got into an argument, he disconnected his phone, so I changed my phone number, and then he moved across the country. Though I miss him and still love him, I was ultimately glad to be back in my own space.

posted May 26, 2011 03:51 AM            

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Originally posted by aethan:
I also don't flirt like most people do. My flirting is intellectual and very direct. Whenever I try to do it any other way I come off so awkward it's painful. LOL
I don't like things being easy. I like having to work for it, and I guess I expect the same from the other person.
I need my lover to be my friend. To have my back.

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Yeah, these lines here are straight up me! I'm not the usual flirt, although I do get a bit moony-eyed when adventurous, cute, and funny guys talk to me. Other than that it's intellectual with extended eye contact. That's just how I do it. Cute gestures make me feel foolish.

'Easy' is horrible. The second the chase is truly over I get bored. I need someone who keeps things interesting so I don't need to rely on the chase to make me stick around.

I agree on the needing a lover to be my friend first and foremost as well. In my opinion that's the most important part of any relationship.

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posted May 26, 2011 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have been thinking about you Starfox.
Have you ever had a relationship with moon conjunct moon or another close moon aspect?
I am thinking that you need very close understanding of who you are from a female.

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posted May 26, 2011 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by thisisaquarius:
The second the chase is truly over I get bored. I need someone who keeps things interesting so I don't need to rely on the chase to make me stick around.

I agree on the needing a lover to be my friend first and foremost as well. In my opinion that's the most important part of any relationship.

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posted May 27, 2011 04:57 AM            

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Originally posted by starfox:
Yes, see what you have similar.

Sun in XI
Moon in III
Mercury in XII
Venus in Ascendant
Mars in VIII
Jupiter in VII
Saturn in II
Uranus in VII
Neptune in IX
Pluto in VII
Lilith in IV
Asc node in Ascendant

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Sun in X(eeks, definitely a miscount before...sorry.)
Moon in IX
Mercury in XI
Venus in X
Mars in X
Jupiter in VII
Saturn in XI
Uranus in IX
Neptune in IX
Pluto in VII
Lilith in XII
Asc node in VII

My Neptune and Pluto are both the same as yours, but other than that they're all different.

posted May 27, 2011 05:25 AM            

I only fall in love with friends, or people I know in a group situation. I have never been on a date and can't actually conceive of the situation.

I'm just coming out of a long two year period that forced me to look and who I am in relationships and how I behave and while two years ago I would have told you that I am always in relationships and prone to committment the truth is quite different.

So, yes, I have always been in relationships but the truth is that I need a ton of space by myself. And if I don't have it, I'll take it the easy or the hard way. While I can love deeply, I am also fairly detached. I'm once divorced and the thought of one person for life is impossible to conceive.

posted May 28, 2011 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ekf:
I have Venus in Aqua in the 11th trine my Mars in Gem in the 3rd with a lovely Uranus in the 7th in Libra.

I only fall in love with friends, or people I know in a group situation. I have never been on a date and can't actually conceive of the situation.

I'm just coming out of a long two year period that forced me to look and who I am in relationships and how I behave and while two years ago I would have told you that I am always in relationships and prone to committment the truth is quite different.

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This is so interesting. Both of us have venus in Aquarius in the 11th house, but you have Uranus in your 7th and I have Pluto in my 7th.

posted May 30, 2011 06:26 AM            

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I dream of having a lifetime partner, you can't imagine having one. You're always in relationship I never am.

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Where's your Neptune?

posted May 30, 2011 06:30 AM            

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Originally posted by starfox:
Do we get a deservedly bad name..?

We're considered too remote for a relationship or possibly bisexual/gay.

Or people politely say "tricky placement"..

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