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ecomat
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Budapest, Hungary
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 22, 2011 02:16 PM
  
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
OK Ecomat
You have the same as Aya.What do you think? I gave her a good whooping 
well, we shere with Aya that i, too commit slowly and it's not a "light-hearted" process for me. plus, i have (almost) all the planets and positions that point towards being reserved, shy, oversensitive, dark mood, etc. i keep these tendencies under control, but you can only change so much.
as a general rule, i'm not a master of social interactions (again, i'm not helped by being the said things), but when i find a similar soul, it's usually immediate attraction, without words. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 22, 2011 02:25 PM
Northernlad
You are a cutie If Merc is in the 7th--you need a relationship like breathing.You feel incomplete without it.
If it is in the 8th,it would be like Snarly.
What do you think  ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 22, 2011 02:38 PM
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Originally posted by enchantress299:
Alright...Taurus is on my 7th. Venus is BARELY in my 9th, as it conjuncts my MC within 1 degree, but it IS in the 9th. Essentially I can't stand a guy who wants to stay at home. Homebodies need not apply.
Makes sense.You would not need a homebody.You would need a traveler--mentally,spiritually and perhaps physically,too.
You need someone to share 9th house concerns with.------------------
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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northernlad
Knowflake Posts: 86
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posted May 22, 2011 02:45 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Northernlad
You are a cutie If Merc is in the 7th--you need a relationship like breathing.You feel incomplete without it.
If it is in the 8th,it would be like Snarly.
What do you think
but I thought Snarly had mercury in the 9th? i usually use pladicus anyway, so we'll go with 7th. For the longest time all I wanted was a relationship. I'm 25, and I have spent a grand total of 7 months in a relationship. I find that nowadays I'm not constantly yearning to be with someone. I decided that if I'm going to be as picky as I am with men, it serves no good to waste energy wishing and longing for a relationship. I think saturn opposite venus comes into play here as well.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 22, 2011 02:50 PM
Oh Sorry Northernlad
I got confused .OK--from your last post.I think your Mercury is in the 7th.
I am the same way.I feel incomplete if I don't have a partner.
Flings and short romances(5th house) are not for me lol------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 22, 2011 03:16 PM
Descendant is Sagittarius.
Ruler Jupiter is in Libra in the 6th, conjunct Venus.I have no idea what my needs are concerning relationships lol. Someone a bit Virgo-like I presume, modest, intellectual, service-oriented. NOT critical though  IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
Knowflake Posts: 595
From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 22, 2011 03:28 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes totally
This was what I meant ,too. Your partner must be second your needs.
You need this.You must find someone who will/can do this,too.
If it is reversed. The ASC ruler in the 7th. You make your needs second to the partners.
I actually wouldn't say that. I have moon in 7th and also recent experience made me realize how much I push my own needs to the background to make room for those of my partner. It's just that when push comes to shove I will always try to be self-sufficient and as independent as possible. That is something that a few of my previous partners couldn't deal with because it confused the hell out of them, they just never knew whether I loved them or not. The absolute most important qualities I look for in a man is that I can have intellectual and high standing conversations with him, can filosophise (sp?) with him, that he is understanding and has the ability to give me freedom. I'm feeling a Gemini and Sagittarius influence there rather than the 1st house influence. In return, ironically enough, I would give myself to that man completely. A man who is well mannered is probably something that most women want, because I can't imagine a woman not caring about the fact that her husband always drinks too much at family gatherings and makes a fool of himself. Before that I didn't care about that much, I naively believed that love is enough, but after my last ex I've realised just how embarrasing it can be to live with someone who is antisocial and badly mannered. Especially when I have to deal with all the bad family feedback and find myself making excuses for someone who doesn't really deserve it. I just can't imagine any woman happily dealing with that for years on end. And when you step into a relationship, one rule does count: if you don't want to be around my family, you don't want to be around me. I do make exceptions for relatives that I don't like to be around myself Strange though that with absolutely no 4th house connections to the 7th house, it's inhabiting planets or my 7th house ruler (4th house is in Pisces and Neptune only aspects Venus) I find it so important that my partner gets on with my extended family... ------------------
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lunatic
Knowflake Posts: 228
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 05:51 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok this is a cool one Lunatic
You need a very deep,deep transformative and passionate relationship.
If not,you are not interested.Actually,from seeing you on here,I concur
That's right bb! Passion or nothing! I also like the fire signs more than the others for a partner. IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 982
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 22, 2011 06:09 PM
my DC cusp is Gemini. Mercury is in my 1st house in opposition with my chart ruler Jupiter in the 7th house. LOLOL!!!i have issues with not being able to set boundaries. also lots of mirroring. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9764
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by lunatic:
That's right bb! Passion or nothing! I also like the fire signs more than the others for a partner.
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starcrossedleo
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Registered: May 2011
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posted May 22, 2011 06:15 PM
Sagittarius DC so Jupiter which is in my 11th house of associations. Very interesting because my ex had his south node in Aquarius (his comfort zone) He was all about friends and had a strong social network. I know a lot of people but am a bit of a lonerIP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted May 22, 2011 06:26 PM
Cancer on 7th house cusp and Moon in 3rd house. What on earth could this mean?  IP: Logged |
Stawr
Knowflake Posts: 445
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 06:28 PM
Ami your so fun and awesome for doing this!My DC is in Saggitarius ruling Jupiter in Cancer in the 2nd house. With that cobo I'm guessing I want someone who I can go on adventures with, that can afford it. Va-va-VOOM! Kind of life. But is also full of knowledge, and give me a secure and beutiful home life. And is sensual. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 22, 2011 06:35 PM
H7 in VirgoMercury in H6 in Leo.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9764
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
Ami your so fun and awesome for doing this!My DC is in Saggitarius ruling Jupiter in Cancer in the 2nd house. With that cobo I'm guessing I want someone who I can go on adventures with, that can afford it. Va-va-VOOM! Kind of life. But is also full of knowledge, and give me a secure and beutiful home life. And is sensual.
You are so sweet Stawr
Thank you for saying that. ------------------
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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starcrossedleo
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posted May 22, 2011 06:38 PM
Yes Ami-These games are great - I am getting more comfortable with the houses meaning and I don't have to reference the ruling planets anymore!!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 22, 2011 06:59 PM
quote:
Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
Yes Ami-These games are great - I am getting more comfortable with the houses meaning and I don't have to reference the ruling planets anymore!!
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lunatic
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posted May 22, 2011 07:00 PM
Yep, thanks Ami.
What do you think about Capricorn and 7th house?
Maybe that woman would like a stable relationship, but giving more attention at work?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 07:02 PM
quote:
Originally posted by lunatic:
Yep, thanks Ami.
What do you think about Capricorn and 7th house?
Maybe that woman would like a stable relationship, but giving more attention at work?
What is on the cusp of the 7th. Which house is that planet in? ------------------
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by Aya_and_baby:
I actually wouldn't say that. I have moon in 7th and also recent experience made me realize how much I push my own needs to the background to make room for those of my partner. It's just that when push comes to shove I will always try to be self-sufficient and as independent as possible. That is something that a few of my previous partners couldn't deal with because it confused the hell out of them, they just never knew whether I loved them or not.The absolute most important qualities I look for in a man is that I can have intellectual and high standing conversations with him, can filosophise (sp?) with him, that he is understanding and has the ability to give me freedom. I'm feeling a Gemini and Sagittarius influence there rather than the 1st house influence. In return, ironically enough, I would give myself to that man completely. A man who is well mannered is probably something that most women want, because I can't imagine a woman not caring about the fact that her husband always drinks too much at family gatherings and makes a fool of himself. Before that I didn't care about that much, I naively believed that love is enough, but after my last ex I've realised just how embarrasing it can be to live with someone who is antisocial and badly mannered. Especially when I have to deal with all the bad family feedback and find myself making excuses for someone who doesn't really deserve it. I just can't imagine any woman happily dealing with that for years on end. And when you step into a relationship, one rule does count: if you don't want to be around my family, you don't want to be around me. I do make exceptions for relatives that I don't like to be around myself Strange though that with absolutely no 4th house connections to the 7th house, it's inhabiting planets or my 7th house ruler (4th house is in Pisces and Neptune only aspects Venus) I find it so important that my partner gets on with my extended family...
Well Aya
These house rulers are one layer of the puzzle ,only.
We have not put in planets, aspects to planets, aspects to planets that rule houses etc.
This is a slice of the complicated soup only for fun and learning purposes ------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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lunatic
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posted May 22, 2011 08:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What is on the cusp of the 7th. Which house is that planet in?
In the 7th cusp Capricorn and her Saturn in 7th.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 22, 2011 08:20 PM
quote:
Originally posted by lunatic:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b] What is on the cusp of the 7th. Which house is that planet in?
In the 7th cusp Capricorn and her Saturn in 7th.[/B][/QUOTE]Ok Lunatic
This is what I have. They need a partner to be fufilled. They feel lost without that significant other in a committed relationship
A fling or short term romance will not do it for this placement. They want a partner lol ------------------
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lunatic
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posted May 22, 2011 08:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok Lunatic
This is what I have. They need a partner to be fufilled. They feel lost without that significant other in a committed relationship
A fling or short term romance will not do it for this placement. They want a partner lol
Many many thank you Capricorn stands for reliability then.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 22, 2011 08:45 PM
No Darling
It is not Capricorn ,per se. It is the 7th house ruler IN the 7th house ------------------
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mel0nfish
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posted May 22, 2011 10:36 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Tell me which sign is on your 7th house cusp?
Then, tell me which house the 7th house cusp's ruling planet is in.
That will be the characteristics you want in a partner/partnership. For example,Taurus is the sign on the 7th house cusp.Venus rules Taurus .Venus is in the 7th house.
This means committed relationships are very important to me.
Please share
Cancer is the 7th house cusp. My moon is in the 11th house. I will fall in love with a friend? IP: Logged |
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