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Topic: NN in Synastry--Hitch Yourself to Someone's Star
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:19 PM
  
This is amazing----NN conjunctions in synastry
I have this with a few people--male and female.
Please share yours and tell me how you experience this conjunction WITHIN yourself.
Also, how does it effect the relationship between you and the other person.
I have a few fascinating stories I will share.------------------
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woah cakes
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posted June 19, 2011 03:23 PM
i can only think of one instance off the top of my head. my NN conjunct someone's moon (virgo), exact. ummmmmmmmm, i found him to be helpful and grounding but he was obsessed with like fixing my thought patterns and has a guru complex, but had a lot of good perspective. he fell head over heels completely in love with me and hasn't let me go and it kinda ruined our friendship. he was more drawn to me than me to him which is strange cuz i would think it would be the other way around.IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
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posted June 19, 2011 03:25 PM
My NNode conjunct his Dsc (suspected anyway, I'm still working on getting the right one but that's as far as I've managed) and his NNode conjunct my Dsc (and Moon, and Chiron, as usual  )------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by woah cakes:
i can only think of one instance off the top of my head. my NN conjunct someone's moon (virgo). ummmmmmmmm, i found him to be helpful and grounding but he was obsessed with like fixing my thought patterns and has a guru complex, but had a lot of good perspective. he fell head over heels completely in love with me and hasn't let me go and it kinda ruined our friendship. he was more drawn to me than me to him which is strange cuz i would think it would be the other way around.
Interesting.Well, my theory is a person's NN is their star, their shining pathway, the way they are illuminated or should be if they follow it.
Someone will attach to their NN in an effort to FOLLOW them.
What did you have that this guy really needed,planet wise?
Do you know what I mean?If not,I will explain when I tell my stories which prompted me to do this thread  ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by Aya_and_baby:
My NNode conjunct his Dsc (suspected anyway, I'm still working on getting the right one but that's as far as I've managed) and his NNode conjunct my Dsc (and Moon, and Chiron, as usual )
I don't KNOW how an angle would work or if it would work.
I will have to see if other people can say on this ,Aya! ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:45 PM
I have a few fascinating stories of NN in synastry.
I don't understand all of what they signify .That is why I wanted to do the thread.I will tell you what I do understand. One is my longest term relationship.His Chiron conjuncts my NN.
This relationship has had incredible pain.If I could RUN from one relationship before it started(not counting my mother  ) it would be this one. So, it WAS defined by pain. However,I am trying to figure out what exactly happens with the NN in synastry to EACH person ------------------
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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 19, 2011 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I don't KNOW how an angle would work or if it would work.
I will have to see if other people can say on this ,Aya!
LOL! I'm starting to get the impression that I always come up with very rare or very unusual aspects! ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:49 PM
So, in the Chiron conjunct my NN,I am trying to figure out exactly how it played out.His wound attached to MY star. This is prolly true cuz I am a strong Neptune.People seem to come to me when they want to get in touch with their Neptune.
So, he DID find God/spiritual things though me but he brought me pain that was indescribable.
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:50 PM
This is my question about the NN synastry.Do BOTH people swim in the energy of the planet,together?
Would BOTH people be brought in to Chiron's pain, for example?
Do you know what I mean? ------------------
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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 19, 2011 03:52 PM
I would think that one's NNode conjunct another's Chiron would suggest that the NNode person would make it their life goal to deal with/heal the other's wounds... No?  ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 03:53 PM
My other story is with a g/f.My Mars conjunct her NN.Her Neptune conjuncts mine. The relationship is JUST as that would seem.
My Mars needs her.Her Neptune needs me. She is more direct, bold, and courageous.I am more spiritual and other worldly. ------------------
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carl
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posted June 19, 2011 04:26 PM
I had a ton of aspects with my ex.
Edit: Did not notice you said ONLY conjunctions sorry.We have tons of sextiles, trines, squares and opp., even some with very tight orbs. But only a few conjunctions. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by carl:
I had a ton of aspects with my ex.
Edit: Did not notice you said ONLY conjunctions sorry.We have tons of sextiles, trines, squares and opp., even some with very tight orbs. But only a few conjunctions.
Carl I am realizing HOW much more powerful conjunctions seem to be particularly in THIS case where it indicates life purpose.
That is why I asked about conjunctions.
I really want to feel the impact of the NN in synastry and conjunctions would be the most powerful. ------------------
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starcrossedleo
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posted June 19, 2011 04:51 PM
My most intense and difficult relationship has been on and off for 7 years. My Sun is conjunct his NN in LEO (my 4th house) and conjunct my IC. He has very low self-confidence and is afraid to take chances-his south node is in Aquarius and he is most comfortable in his group of friends that he has had since high school. he will not venture out on his own-he is afraid to follow his north node path. I feel like we are fated and he seeks something in me (my Sun) and I can help him find his NN path. He also has no fire and his NN is in Leo. I also have many planets in the 5th house (natural ruler Leo) I have almost no water (one planet in Scorpio) and my NN is in Cancer.I am having trouble letting go and just when I think I am over him, he is back. Another interesting thing is someone mention dreaming about the other person. He invades my dreams a lot. He has said he has had a vision of us together. Right now i am trying to move on but there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of him, IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 19, 2011 05:19 PM
In my personal experience, I seem to have strong reservations when someone's planets hit my NN..... I at times feel like its something Im not ready or prepared for... It takes me even longer to trust or get to know what person.. But my NN is in Cap which doesnt really go well will all me leo... Now when someone hits my SN I'm all for it 
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starcrossedleo
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posted June 19, 2011 05:28 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
In my personal experience, I seem to have strong reservations when someone's planets hit my NN..... I at times feel like its something Im not ready or prepared for... It takes me even longer to trust or get to know what person.. But my NN is in Cap which doesnt really go well will all me leo... Now when someone hits my SN I'm all for it
Lioness I wish I began studying astrology 7 years ago. You know enough to avoid that aspect in synastry. Wise choice to avoid it! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 05:31 PM
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
My most intense and difficult relationship has been on and off for 7 years. My Sun is conjunct his NN in LEO (my 4th house) and conjunct my IC. He has very low self-confidence and is afraid to take chances-his south node is in Aquarius and he is most comfortable in his group of friends that he has had since high school. he will not venture out on his own-he is afraid to follow his north node path. I feel like we are fated and he seeks something in me (my Sun) and I can help him find his NN path. He also has no fire and his NN is in Leo. I also have many planets in the 5th house (natural ruler Leo) I have almost no water (one planet in Scorpio) and my NN is in Cancer.I am having trouble letting go and just when I think I am over him, he is back. Another interesting thing is someone mention dreaming about the other person. He invades my dreams a lot. He has said he has had a vision of us together. Right now i am trying to move on but there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of him,
If YOUR Sun is conjunct HIS NN, that goes against my theory.
I am thinking that YOU need something in him.
Is this true in any way?
Does he give you something important even though you may feel YOU are the giver to him?
You may need to think about it cuz it may not be obvious. ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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Rosalind
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posted June 19, 2011 05:41 PM
NN in sinastry... to me was bad any connection I had. NN and Sun, NN and Venus etc. People with whom I shared these connections ended up fighting me and I ended up hating them.PS: My NN is in Aries in 6th house. IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo
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posted June 19, 2011 05:43 PM
I think I may envy his aquarian south node as I am a leo. I have one planet in Aquarius and that Saturn Retrograde in the 9th. I always thought he needed me more and could benefit from our relationship as I could show him the Leo way (but maybe that is my Leo ego speaking). He loses his identity in his group of friends, i think they swallow him up. I feel he needs to be more of an individual and to take chances.I think your theory is correct but I also think he can follow his NN destiny by hitching on to my sun. He has always said that he admires me and lives through my experiences vicariously. IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo
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posted June 19, 2011 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
NN in sinastry... to me was bad any connection I had. NN and Sun, NN and Venus etc. People with whom I shared these connections ended up fighting me and I ended up hating them.PS: My NN is in Aries in 6th house.
I also have my Venus (27 deg) conj his NN (24 deg) as well as my sun (29 deg) conj his NN in LEO and yes we had some horrible fights IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted June 19, 2011 05:55 PM
It is possible to have a good synastry with someone who does not have NN connection with you? For example... I met a guy whose NN or NS does not touch any of my planets nor do I touch his. Just the ASC but I guess is not revelant.I mean only the planet aspects. IP: Logged |
seeleah
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posted June 19, 2011 07:06 PM
Um...so, what does my juno's conjuncting someone's North Node?
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Ami Anne
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posted June 19, 2011 07:15 PM
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
I think I may envy his aquarian south node as I am a leo. I have one planet in Aquarius and that Saturn Retrograde in the 9th. I always thought he needed me more and could benefit from our relationship as I could show him the Leo way (but maybe that is my Leo ego speaking). He loses his identity in his group of friends, i think they swallow him up. I feel he needs to be more of an individual and to take chances.I think your theory is correct but I also think he can follow his NN destiny by hitching on to my sun. He has always said that he admires me and lives through my experiences vicariously.
Hmmm
As you know, Astrology is complex and multi faceted
My related question was do BOTH people experience the planet person's energy?
IOW,I had someone's Chiron conjunct MY NN and *I* was filled with pain from the relationship too
I don't know if I am being clear lol ------------------
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Betty Boop
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posted June 19, 2011 07:38 PM
I've had a few of these conjunctions.
In natal my NN and Venus are exactly conjunct (literally on the exact same degree).. so everyone who has a planet on my NN, also has it conj my Venus.I've had the worst experiences with Mars added to the mix. I find them aggressive, nasty, stubborn and all sorts of things.. that I can't put up with. My best experience was with Moon conj my NN. My best friend has this. We're just very in sync and often feel the same way about important things. Also, I have - my Venus/NN conjunct his own NN - with the man I love. This is just sweet. Overall I definitely prefer feminine planets on NN (Moon and Venus)... I dislike masculine planets there (Sun and Mars).
I don't think I've ever had trasnpersonal planets conj. my NN - (Uranus/Neptune/Pluto)... and I've definitely never had Saturn/Jupiter there in synastry. Mercury - hmmm - I'm divided. It's not bad actually.. but I'm not over the moon with it either. IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo
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posted June 19, 2011 07:54 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Hmmm
As you know, Astrology is complex and multi faceted
My related question was do BOTH people experience the planet person's energy?
IOW,I had someone's Chiron conjunct MY NN and *I* was filled with pain from the relationship too
I don't know if I am being clear lol
I don't think I need to feel his NN energy as I have plenty Leo in my chart and am very creative and independent. But since breaking up wit him I have pursued my creative side more deeply. I call my art therapy. It is complex-that is for sure!! Great topic Ami Anne-you are great at coming up with the most interesting and thought provoking topics IP: Logged |
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