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Topic: Venus sq Saturn
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Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 08:12 PM
  
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
I had an inconjunct with my ex - our venuses were conjunct(cap)and inconjunct his saturn (gem), He had this venus saturn inconjunct in his natal then.I was all sweet and sugar nice, but he was hard and even cruel. Sadistic streak to him. I've wondered how to place attribution to a lot of his behaviours. This cruelty could've been anything I guess, for instance, his pluto also squared my venus. Anyone actually HAD a relationship with this venus saturn square?
I'm in one right now except I'm the saturn person and he's the venus. I never abuse him but sometimes i do try to avoid him. IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 08:15 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Interesting, sometimes i think that way too lol. Maybe my problem is I have a lot of squares to my moon, including dejarina. I went through some emotional abuse through school so i'd probably have a lot confidence if it weren't for that x.x idk.
Well my self confidence changes a lot!! Sometimes its great, sometimes it's so bad i don't even want to get out of the house (usually when I'm in sweats). IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm in one right now except I'm the saturn person and he's the venus. I never abuse him but sometimes i do try to avoid him.
Why do you avoid him? 'Cause that's the exact same thing the saturn I know is doing.
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Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Well my self confidence changes a lot!! Sometimes its great, sometimes it's so bad i don't even want to get out of the house (usually when I'm in sweats).
Same here D: what house is your sun & mars in? IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Why do you avoid him? 'Cause that's the exact same thing the saturn I know is doing.
because i'm insecure about having a relationship with him. A lot of girls like him and sometimes i think he deserves better IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 08:32 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Same here D: what house is your sun & mars in?
They are in the 11th house.
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Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 08:34 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
because i'm insecure about having a relationship with him. A lot of girls like him and sometimes i think he deserves better
So you avoid him because you think someone else could make him happier than you ever could or..?
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Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 08:39 PM
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So you avoid him because you think someone else could make him happier than you ever could or..?
Exactly, & not only that he's 10 years older than me IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 08:47 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Exactly, & not only that he's 10 years older than me
Is it because it'd be considered socially unacceptable (him being older than you) or because you don't feel you're experienced enough? IP: Logged |
feitlebaum
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posted July 16, 2011 08:50 PM
I avoid talking to people I like when they are around, in general. I want to see if they will notice me.  IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 08:58 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Is it because it'd be considered socially unacceptable (him being older than you) or because you don't feel you're experienced enough?
Yea, i feel like it's socially unacceptable. my parents don't care but his friends, & the girls who crush on him always say "i can't believe your with her" IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 09:02 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Yea, i feel like it's socially unacceptable. my parents don't care but his friends, & the girls who crush on him always think "i can't believe your with her"
Wow! He's the Venus right? Because that's what my friends would say about the Saturn I know. They'd be like "he's so.. Different from you", & stuff like that. That's also why I never dated him, no one ever seemed to approve of our relationship. IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 09:04 PM
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Originally posted by feitlebaum:
I avoid talking to people I like when they are around, in general. I want to see if they will notice me.
Well isn't that ironic! When I like someone I laugh and talk even louder then usual!! I believe that is the logical thing to do when you want someone to notice you.. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 09:11 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Wow! He's the Venus right? Because that's what my friends would say about the Saturn I know. They'd be like "he's so.. Different from you", & stuff like that. That's also why I never dated him, no one ever seemed to approve of our relationship.
Really? Aw that's sad ): Yes he's the venus person. I know he cares about me a lot but i don't want him to feel like he has to choose me over his friends. IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 09:35 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Really? Aw that's sad ): Yes he's the venus person. I know he cares about me a lot but i don't want him to feel like he has to choose me over his friends.
Yeah.. Well hope he doesnt care too much about what his friends and the rest of the world has to say about you guys, unlike me  IP: Logged |
feitlebaum
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posted July 16, 2011 09:43 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Well isn't that ironic! When I like someone I laugh and talk even louder then usual!! I believe that is the logical thing to do when you want someone to notice you..
Yeah, it is weird. I get nervous and I'm afraid to stutter or look like a stalker.
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Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Yeah.. Well hope he doesnt care too much about what his friends and the rest of the world has to say about you guys, unlike me
I don't blame ya, i'm probably going to leave him sooner or later. I'm starting to fall under the pressure. IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 09:57 PM
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Originally posted by feitlebaum:
Yeah, it is weird. I get nervous and I'm afraid to stutter or look like a stalker.
Guess that's how my sun conjuct my mars works in my favor. I'm not afraid to give away hints that I like someone. By the way, how could you possibly make yourself look like a stalker?
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Nicole401
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posted July 16, 2011 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I don't blame ya, i'm probably going to leave him sooner or later. I'm starting to fall under the pressure.
Hope it doesn't hurt as much as it hurt me to let go IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted July 16, 2011 10:35 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
Hope it doesn't hurt as much as it hurt me to let go
Aw thanks Nicole, i'm sure i could move on IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted July 17, 2011 12:51 PM
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Originally posted by Nicole401:
You have Sun conjunct Mars too?
I also have sun conjunct mars nad venus in cancer IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted July 17, 2011 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
I had an inconjunct with my ex - our venuses were conjunct(cap)and inconjunct his saturn (gem), He had this venus saturn inconjunct in his natal then.I was all sweet and sugar nice, but he was hard and even cruel. Sadistic streak to him. I've wondered how to place attribution to a lot of his behaviours. This cruelty could've been anything I guess, for instance, his pluto also squared my venus. Anyone actually HAD a relationship with this venus saturn square?
I suspect nobody have HAD a relationship with this venus saturn square... bummer!!! IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted July 17, 2011 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm in one right now except I'm the saturn person and he's the venus. I never abuse him but sometimes i do try to avoid him.
why do you try to avoid him? IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted July 17, 2011 12:58 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
because i'm insecure about having a relationship with him. A lot of girls like him and sometimes i think he deserves better
Moonfish, after reading all the saturn-square thing and being myself the venus person, i suspect that he has not clue what is in your mind. he will never suspect you avoid him because of fear. why do you think he deserves better? i am surprised how accurate is the description of the interaction saturn-venus and your behavior being the saturn person IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted July 17, 2011 01:02 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Really? Aw that's sad ): Yes he's the venus person. I know he cares about me a lot but i don't want him to feel like he has to choose me over his friends.
why dont you open up and express your fears. he may be shocked to hear that all this time you have been afraid rather than uninterested. IP: Logged |
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