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nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 567 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted July 17, 2011 01:06 PM quote: Originally posted by Nicole401: Hope it doesn't hurt as much as it hurt me to let go Sorry girls, what are you talking about. you are just leaving a ship because some other people dont accept a relationship? i just cant believe what I am listening... what is going on.. never thought that people felt this kind of pressure and left relationship because unimportant people opinion. Sorry girls, it is just cannot accept to give up when you are in love for any reason like the ones you have mentioned. it is all non-sense for me. i would fight until the end no matter what IP: Logged
feitlebaum Knowflake Posts: 95 From: AZ Registered: Jan 2011	posted July 17, 2011 01:44 PM What nordic said, Moonfish!!! It sounds like you are counting your chickens before they hatch. Who knows how the square will manifest? I have a ton of squares with my boyfriend, including a double whammy Venus sq. Saturn and his Mars sq. my Saturn. We've been together for 6 months and nothing has seemed to manifest badly. In fact, it just seems to get better. Initially, I was afraid that this relationship would suck and I should get out while I could, but then I realized that Synastry can't predict how it will go. And if you are letting go because of age, well... it could be worse. My boyfriend is 15 years older and our Saturns oppose. More bad synastry aspects, but an awesome relationship overall!! IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 2318 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted July 17, 2011 02:27 PM quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: Sorry girls, what are you talking about. you are just leaving a ship because some other people dont accept a relationship? i just cant believe what I am listening... what is going on.. never thought that people felt this kind of pressure and left relationship because unimportant people opinion. Sorry girls, it is just cannot accept to give up when you are in love for any reason like the ones you have mentioned. it is all non-sense for me. i would fight until the end no matter what I agree w/ everything you said, but sometimes i think it would be easier for the both of us if I just left the relationship. When you love someone you just want to see them happy ya know? So how do you work through a relationship w/ venus-saturn square? IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 2318 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted July 17, 2011 02:34 PM quote: Originally posted by feitlebaum: What nordic said, Moonfish!!! It sounds like you are counting your chickens before they hatch. Who knows how the square will manifest? I have a ton of squares with my boyfriend, including a double whammy Venus sq. Saturn and his Mars sq. my Saturn. We've been together for 6 months and nothing has seemed to manifest badly. In fact, it just seems to get better. Initially, I was afraid that this relationship would suck and I should get out while I could, but then I realized that Synastry can't predict how it will go. And if you are letting go because of age, well... it could be worse. My boyfriend is 15 years older and our Saturns oppose. More bad synastry aspects, but an awesome relationship overall!! I guess I didn't look at it that way. After reading about synastry and how saturn aspects are deal-breaker, along w/ all the ppl not wanting me to be with him it just feels like the odds are against us. But seeing how it works for you maybe I just let get to me. IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 2318 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted July 17, 2011 02:47 PM quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: I also have sun conjunct mars nad venus in cancer Interesting, how does this aspect make you feel? IP: Logged
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 567 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted July 17, 2011 03:05 PM quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: I agree w/ you everything you said, but sometimes i think it would be easier for the both of us if I just left the relationship. When love someone you just want to see them happy ya know? So how do you work through a relationship w/ venus-saturn square? I would play the devil's advocate. If i were afraid that I am not good enough to make a person happy and would ask, i would confront my fear, but i would not decide without letting him choose. at the end of the day, who says somebody is better or not? how do you know he will be happier without you? who knows if the lesson of the saturn person is to overcome her/his fears and trust the universe. if you fall for somebody and this somebody returns your affection there is something to strive for. another story if he were not interested. I suspect that if you give up, yu will face a similar situation later on along your life. we dont have control over other people happiness, but LOVE... love it is a miracle!!! the coincidence of being in love with the one is in love with your is a magical coincidence. I would never give up, because you may be measuring what is better for him according to standards that may not be his. ask him what he wants and i am sure you will be surprised!!! IP: Logged
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 567 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted July 17, 2011 03:12 PM quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: I guess I didn't look at it that way. After reading about synastry and how saturn aspects are deal-breaker, along w/ all the ppl not wanting me to be with him it just feels like the odds are against us. But seeing how it works for you maybe I just let get to me. look at the composite as well. sometimes a wonderful synastry is spoiled by a bad composite or viceversa. on the other hand, i see as we always have a choice. the aspect reveals the difficulties. saturn person pulling aways out of fear and venus feeling unloved or not figuring out the mixed messages the satrun is sending, but there is a choice. saturn does not need to hide what is going on. and i suspect that once the initials fears are overcome, this relationship can become solid. i have heard that if you work as square you can make it work in life like a trine. IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 2318 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted July 17, 2011 04:57 PM quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: I would play the devil's advocate. If i were afraid that I am not good enough to make a person happy and would ask, i would confront my fear, but i would not decide without letting him choose. at the end of the day, who says somebody is better or not? how do you know he will be happier without you? who knows if the lesson of the saturn person is to overcome her/his fears and trust the universe. if you fall for somebody and this somebody returns your affection there is something to strive for. another story if he were not interested. I suspect that if you give up, yu will face a similar situation later on along your life. we dont have control over other people happiness, but LOVE... love it is a miracle!!! the coincidence of being in love with the one is in love with your is a magical coincidence. I would never give up, because you may be measuring what is better for him according to standards that may not be his. ask him what he wants and i am sure you will be surprised!!! So true and your right communication is definitely something i need to work in our relationship. My favorite thing you mentioned was "I suspect that if you give up, yu will face a similar situation later on along your life." I've always took the easy way out, allowing everyone's opinions to take over my life so I wouldn't have to deal with the drama. But he's worth the drama and i'm willing to work it out. IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 2318 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted July 17, 2011 04:59 PM quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: look at the composite as well. sometimes a wonderful synastry is spoiled by a bad composite or viceversa. on the other hand, i see as we always have a choice. the aspect reveals the difficulties. saturn person pulling aways out of fear and venus feeling unloved or not figuring out the mixed messages the satrun is sending, but there is a choice. saturn does not need to hide what is going on. and i suspect that once the initials fears are overcome, this relationship can become solid. i have heard that if you work as square you can make it work in life like a trine. We actually have Sun & Venus semi-square Saturn in our Composite, but the Sun conjuncts Venus. As the Saturn person in the Synastry I will try to be more open about things :] IP: Logged
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 567 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted July 18, 2011 05:38 PM quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: We actually have Sun & Venus semi-square Saturn in our Composite, but the Sun conjuncts Venus. As the Saturn person in the Synastry I will try to be more open about things :] Nice to hear you will give it a try... all my best vibes... and please keep posting the development of the relationship. i would be interested in hearing how it develops. IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 463 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted January 09, 2012 04:46 AM anymore insights from saturn's side? IP: Logged
LoVeLy Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Registered: May 2009	posted January 09, 2012 12:03 PM quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: JO JO thanks for the links. read them all and i cannot help but concluding saying that this is impossible love. romeo and juliet lol I have this aspect with someone (me venus) he saturn. he has the aspect natally and my venus triggers his aspect. anyway, i can see him not wanting to get involved although i feel there is something. i almost know there is attraction, but he backs up...so i just gave up. but it is funny, when i give up, he sometimes do something that makes me wonder "should I give up?" but he can keep me like that forever. i see a scolding role as well. my advice to anyone with this aspect. get real, it wont happen. this is to myself, of course lol..but there is some pain on it. you know it could, but i doesnt...bummer!!! Will it be the same with Ven opp Sat too the Girl is Ven the Man is Sat Thanks IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 463 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted January 16, 2012 09:03 PM "he has the aspect natally and my venus triggers his aspect. anyway" how does it trigger it? what happens when it is triggered? IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2721 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted January 16, 2012 10:16 PM i had this aspect in synastry with a girl who i thought was the love of my life at the time,i was saturn and she was venus,and when i did our synastry the description of this aspect said that there would be something about the relationship that made it hard to spend time with one another,and it said it would be really painful for venus,and that aspect description turned out right on the money,we couldnt spend time together alot because we lived far apart,and it indeed was painful to her,she would cry to me on the phone and say how she wishes she was in my arms IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 463 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted January 16, 2012 10:26 PM i am sorry to hear that. where u in love with her? IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 463 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted January 16, 2012 10:29 PM how did u as saturn felt when she wasn't around? IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2721 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted January 16, 2012 11:00 PM @curiouswoman, it hurt me,i loved her,still do,i think of her alot and its been over 2 yrs since it ended,and this october it will be 3,strange thing was i was saturn and she was venus,and she was the scared insecure one,i knew we had a powerful connection that words cannot describe,and i knew she loved me,but i could tell she was scared, we have tons of saturn in our synastry and that is an indicator of having been lovers in a past life,especially saturn venus contacts IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 463 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted January 16, 2012 11:45 PM what i believe if this aspects works out. it means there will be considerable age difference and the saturn person will be posessive. makes sense? IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2721 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted January 17, 2012 12:33 AM yep its a pretty common belief that it indicates romantic karma,i just know in my soul i knew her before, and yes it can manifest that way,but that is what is makes astrology so complicated and interesting,because any aspect can manifest in several ways,depending on the people and situation,in my experience with the libra girl i was saturn and she was venus,and i held true to the saturn to an extent i wanted to commit,but she was the scared one,she was scared of the powerful connection we had,she had really low self esteem and had experienced rejection,i was not scared at all,i wanted her more then any girl in the world,and our circumstances kept us from seeing one another so we had to maintain a long distance relationship over the phone and she began to fall more in love with me and became attached she began to have doubts and insecurities wondering if i would find another woman while we were apart and she didnt want to get even more involved with me and that happen and be heartbroken,so she cut ties with me ,she was venus but her insecurites and fear tore us apart,and im heartbroke saturn still holding on to a memory IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2721 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted January 17, 2012 12:40 AM yep its a pretty common belief that it indicates romantic karma,i just know in my soul i knew her before, and yes it can manifest that way,but that is what is makes astrology so complicated and interesting,because any aspect can manifest in several ways,depending on the people and situation,in my experience with the libra girl i was saturn and she was venus,and i held true to the saturn to an extent i wanted to commit,but she was the scared one,she was scared of the powerful connection we had,she had really low self esteem and had experienced rejection,i was not scared at all,i wanted her more then any girl in the world,and our circumstances kept us from seeing one another so we had to maintain a long distance relationship over the phone and she began to fall more in love with me and became attached she began to have doubts and insecurities wondering if i would find another woman while we were apart and she didnt want to get even more involved with me and that happen and be heartbroken,so she cut ties with me ,she was venus but her insecurites and fear tore us apart,and im heartbroke saturn still holding on to a memory IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4812 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted January 17, 2012 12:45 AM I had this with the ex hubby. He was saturn and I was venus. In the beginning he was all for it, but I did anything and everything to get away from him.. I really didnt like him at all... But he has an aries moon, and he never gave up.. He chased me and eventually caught me... Over the years, I felt stuck, and I felt that he was holding me down, from being me.. I felt I couldnt really love him, like I was suppose to... But I was glued and couldnt end it.. I was very uncomfortable in my own skin.. I felt like I didnt belong on earth.. Like I was a robot just doing my daily routine.. Not sure if that was saturn/venus or something else though. IP: Logged
astro_flame Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: Jan 2012	posted January 17, 2012 03:10 AM i was in a r/s with the venus sq saturn aspect. the venus person felt repressed by me (saturn) hence she took off cos she couldn't take it anymore. seemed like i was too critical of her subconsciously.. i think u did respond to my thread too. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002543-5.html IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 463 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted January 17, 2012 08:28 PM how would it work if i have venus square saturn with him and he has venus conjunct saturn with me? IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2721 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted January 17, 2012 08:38 PM @curiouswoman,it just depends on other aspects in the synastry,this aspect to me by itself creates a powerful connection between the 2 people,it can create insecurities in the people involved,like maybe venus has self esteem issues and is afraid of love,or saturn feels afraid of losing venus and clings tightly to them,and it can create circumstances that make it hard to be together,but it by no means dooms a relationship,it just depends on the rest of the synastry and most importantly how commited the two people are to each other and how strong there love is IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 2318 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted January 17, 2012 08:55 PM --- IP: Logged

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