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Topic: i want out of this relationship =/
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aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:20 AM
  
i want to get out of this im tired i dont want a future with him at all =/ he makes me miserable.. hes not my type i dislike him to the fullest but some how i always end up with him .. how do i get rid of him and why is he still around ive tried everything  IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 1558
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 01:27 AM
Sweetie can you fix your chart and remove your name?
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AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:29 AM
does he force himself in your life or do you just like having the conflict with him? I can't help but think that you enjoy this tension somehow. Am I wrong? Are you asking how to stop enjoying the Conflict? Or do you want him to stop invading your life?IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:34 AM
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Sweetie can you fix your chart and remove your name?
thank you i did it IP: Logged |
Lonake
Moderator Posts: 4643
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 01:37 AM
Does he have a tob, I know you do.IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:38 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
does he force himself in your life or do you just like having the conflict with him? I can't help but think that you enjoy this tension somehow. Am I wrong? Are you asking how to stop enjoying the Conflict? Or do you want him to stop invading your life?
yeah some what i enjoy it but the hitting and arguing is so annoying i have no privacy around him at all plus hes so careless & yes i want him to stop invading my life i was in a relationship like this b4 and it was exactly the same ughss IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:39 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Does he have a tob, I know you do.
whats tob ? sorry IP: Logged |
Lonake
Moderator Posts: 4643
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 01:39 AM
Oh sorry, time of birth, like from birth certificate?IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:40 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Oh sorry, time of birth, like from birth certificate?
yes 1: 43 am IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:42 AM
He hits you? When does it hit you? What is it usually over?IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:44 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
He hits you? When does it hit you? What is it usually over?
stupid things like if i was to ask him something lets say like why he didnt pick up my phone calls or if i try to get the truth out of him ... also if i try to leave the house while hes there that will be a total disaster IP: Logged |
sassaqua
Knowflake Posts: 213
From: Australia
Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:44 AM
Going by your name I was expecting to see an Aqua Sun.I had a look and saw pretty good synastry, but then, your moon is only opposite his saturn - the only aspect. Have you been together long? Can I make a leap-guess - 2 years or so? Do you feel like you are kind to him, and take care of him, but you don't seem to get the same back? Is that what the issue is? You have venuses conjunct - that's a nice one, one that mitigates a lot they say (I had it tho with my horrible, psychopathic ex, it didn't mitigate a much, just kept the wishful thinking going). The synastry looks pretty good for attraction anyhow. I will look some more.. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:46 AM
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Originally posted by aquarqueen:
stupid things like if i was to ask him something lets say like why he didnt pick up my phone calls or if i try to get the truth out of him ... also if i try to leave the house while hes there that will be a total disaster
I bet the arguing is more annoying than the hitting. Do you feel love when he hits you? Like I know its wrong and you do too but do you feel like a connection when he hits you? IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
I bet the arguing is more annoying than the hitting. Do you feel love when he hits you? Like I know its wrong and you do too but do you feel like a connection when he hits you?
really i dont even know i just like to see him feel sorry 4 what he did . IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:47 AM
but when he argues with you, do you see it as very childish. Like it is a complete turn off right. Whereas the hitting, you get some sort of sick satisfaction out of it? but then feel guilty later and abused. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by aquarqueen:
really i dont even know i just like to see him feel sorry 4 what he did .
So he apologizes afterwards and that makes you feel loved. Like there is the conflict but his apologies sort of work together with it and you feel incredible? IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
but when he argues with you, do you see it as very childish. Like it is a complete turn off right. Whereas the hitting, you get some sort of sick satisfaction out of it? but then feel guilty later and abused.
Yessssss !!! i really do omgg!! IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:52 AM
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Originally posted by aquarqueen:
Yessssss !!! i really do omgg!!
It is exactly how you feel isn't it? You would almost feel empty without it. Like if he treated you completely nice all of the time, you would be sort of indifferent to him right? IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:54 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
It is exactly how you feel isn't it? You would almost feel empty without it. Like if he treated you completely nice all of the time, you would be sort of indifferent to him right?
Yes to nice is no good nor is to mean .. i cant stand this because i try to like the real nice guys but it doesnt work out i feel like if im too free when theyre to nice like if i could do anything in the world and they wont find out .. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by aquarqueen:
Yes to nice is no good nor is to mean .. i cant stand this because i try to like the real nice guys but it doesnt work out i feel like if im too free when theyre to nice like if i could do anything in the world and they wont find out ..
Nice guys seem fake to you right? You understand that all guys have a little dark to them and for them to act completely nice is just not being a real person, you like real and raw guys right? IP: Logged |
aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Sweetie can you fix your chart and remove your name?
how do i go about deleting another post ? IP: Logged |
sassaqua
Knowflake Posts: 213
From: Australia
Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:59 AM
Omg, this is sounding awful Aqua  I see he is quite a bit older than you - this is not on! I see your pluto is inconjunct his moon; you both are challenging eachother's moons. However, I don't understand what it's getting to the hitting stage - what's up? I will continue looking..
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aquarqueen
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: bronx
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:59 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
Nice guys seem fake to you right? You understand that all guys have a little dark to them and for them to act completely nice is just not being a real person, you like real and raw guys right?
Yes i do astro & sometimes i think they are kind of feminine for that like a man shouldnt have to be all worried about a little cut IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:59 AM
aquaqueen I like you, you are honest and down to earth. Do you have facebook?IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 02:00 AM
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Originally posted by aquarqueen:
Yes i do astro & sometimes i think they are kind of feminine for that like a man shouldnt have to be all worried about a little cut
haha exactly. IP: Logged |
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