posted October 30, 2011 09:24 AM            

The trick is "Do you know any places where I can get X food? That's my favorite." He'll take care of the rest, trust me. He's not going to sit idlly and wait. Capricorns will "grab the bull by its horns." He's lusting after you big time. He wouldn't waste his time on you, much less kiss you, if he were not interested.

This Capricorn knows what he wants, knows how to get he wants and moves super fast. So, don't just go by astrological stereotypes. I got my wife to marry me 22 days after our first date. We've been married almost 19 years (I have two threads about that story).

posted October 30, 2011 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm a Capricorn Sun, Capricorn Mars, Aquarius Venus, Pisces Ascendant guy.

The trick is "Do you know any places where I can get X food? That's my favorite." He'll take care of the rest, trust me. He's not going to sit idlly and wait. Capricorns will "grab the bull by its horns." He's lusting after you big time. He wouldn't waste his time on you, much less kiss you, if he were not interested.

This Capricorn knows what he wants, knows how to get he wants and moves super fast. So, don't just go by astrological stereotypes. I got my wife to marry me 22 days after our first date. We've been married almost 19 years (I have two threads about that story).

Let me know if you like help reading his thoughts.

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posted October 30, 2011 12:48 PM            

Oh, it won't deter him at all. If he has you in his sights, then nothing will deter him from his objective. Sure, he may hesitate a moment to think carefully. And then he would take all sorts of calculated risks, and yet ensure that his job and your job are not affected. That is the nature of Capricorn.

He wouldn't be wasting his time on you if he were not interested. He has kissed you!

Its also best that you be honest, direct and straightforward with him. That's his nature and that's the way to win his heart.

He may not be the touchy feely emotional sensistive type like I am. I can just switch on my feminine thinking mode and understand subtle female cues. I have a Cancer Ascendant. Not all men are like that. So, don't take the risk that he can read your mind right off the bat. Go for it!

posted October 30, 2011 01:10 PM            

I'm sorry about that

I would generally keep the romance away from the office, and I would tell him to invite you out after work.

posted October 30, 2011 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
anongrl10,

I'm sorry about that

I would generally keep the romance away from the office, and I would tell him to invite you out after work.

Doing what he wants to do at work isn't a great idea. He may look serious, but he's interested in you.

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Thanks
Most of the time there is actually work to do together (not an excuse). One of the times when I thought he was flirting with me was when he invited me to his office under the excuse of offering help to a piece of work I was doing myself (it was a weekend day too). I needed no help and honestly I work best on my own but most importantly I doubt I would have been able to focus on the work if he was around so I turned him down. LOL
Why isn't he asking me straight out then?
And in general he is a bit too serious. For instance, if I am away and email to catch up (I have to since I report to him) he will not even ask how I am doing, just straight up asking for work. This behavior confuses me because it shows that he doesn't really care for me outside the work we share.

posted October 30, 2011 01:28 PM            

Honestly, its not great news. He wants to maintain a business relationship at work and is trying not to go the distance with expressing his emotions.

I don't know why he wouldn't ask you how you are doing. That is natural behavior. Plus, I don't know why he hasn't asked you out.

For the moment, I would suggest that you maintain your distance and keep your job as a first priority.

posted October 30, 2011 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
anongrl10,

Honestly, its not great news. He wants to maintain a business relationship at work and is trying not to go the distance with expressing his emotions.

I don't know why he wouldn't ask you how you are doing. That is natural behavior. Plus, I don't know why he hasn't asked you out.

For the moment, I would suggest that you maintain your distance and keep your job as a first priority.

You don't want to go confronting him just yet because it may jeopardize your job. Let things play themselves out. If he truly is interested, then he will ask you out. Otherwise, nothing lost and no sweat off your back.

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posted October 30, 2011 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
What can you tell me about this 'relationship'? I'm attracted to this Capricorn man (yet another Aqua-venus attracts me ). Could he be attracted to me? If so, why? If not, why? is he long term relationship material? Is he likely to cheat/stray? MY friends says I intrigue him...is that shown anyway in out charts?
Please advise!
Many thanks.

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posted November 02, 2011 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
Thanks everyone for your help!! YoursTrulyAlways, He's also cap mars, aqua venus, with a pisces moon and leo asc.
What you've written has made me happy Are you sure he's not going to just sit and waste time? He's sooo controlled! I feel like when i flirt very openly with him that I'm scaring him, he goes very shy. But no after that kiss (which he said was clearly intended and he doesn't regret it at all) I'm thinking that maybe he appears scared because he's scared he'll just lose control?? Do you think that could be it?

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Dear Jounia,

I cannot comment on the astrological aspects, particular the differences between his Moon (which is Pisces vs. my Gemini) and his Ascendant (which is Leo vs. my Pisces). I'll let the experts opine on those. However, my wife is a Leo Sun and Mars and I do understand how Leos behave.

Having said that, I do share with him Capricorn in Sun and Mars, and Venus in Aquarius, which I believe makes he and I roughly similar in thought process.

Naturally, he is his own individual, but if we were to assume that general Capricorn characteristics hold true, then you can get a general sense of how he thinks from the sharing of my thought process.

As a Capricorn, I am highly focused, determined and mentally aggressive. I am practical and down-to-earth. Above all, I understand what my objectives are and would be charting my strategy five steps ahead of where I am. At all times, I would have my eyes affixated on the prize and would have the tenacity of a Staffordshire Pit Bull.

When I enter a room, I would have immediately compared the women in the room against my mentally pre-planned notions of the woman I am searching for. Assuming what I want is a woman under 5 feet 9 inches, weighing less than 130 pounds with brunette hair and a medium-sized chest, then I would zero in on my objectives. Could I be derailed by a blonde woman? Possibly, but highly unlikely. I wouldn't even give the time of the day beyond the usual courtesies to all other women in the room. By even socializing with you, this gentleman already displays inherent interest in you.

Capricorns have a cool (and sometimes cold) outward demeanor. It doesn't mean that their brains are not working overtime analyzing all facts and permutations. By showing some seemingly shy reticence, this gentleman has already spent the time mapping out his overall strategy with regard to you.

Be assured that Capricorns are too practical to get totally wasted at a party. Was he a little tipsy when he kissed you? Probably. But make no mistake that the kiss was pre-meditated and fully intentional. Even he admitted so.

I wouldn't even bother thinking of kissing any woman I'm not interested in. You know why? As a Capricorn, that would be a waste of my time. I only target women who interest me and who show relationship promise. That may be a little twisted, but that is how I think. When I do kiss somebody, I would have considered all my options and all the ramifications. The entire kissing plan would have been mapped out lol

The kissing and then gently withdrawing under the guise of being shy is part of his seduction routine. He wants to draw you in and he wants to confirm that you have an interest in him as well. Meanwhile, he is micro-analyzing your every move and reaction.

Should you play hard to get? Not with a Capricorn. There is a danger that a Capricorn would opine that it is just time to move on. Should you come on strong? No, please don't. Make him come to you. Two can play the seduction game.

However, approach him and exercise some of your female charm. Men are suckers for that. Indicate an interest to go to lunch and then let him do all the planning (and all the paying...). Like I said, tell him you like X food. Let him do the rest. If he's not a doofus, you'll be fed a great meal and both of you would be very happy.

Capricorns like to feel like they are needed. It boosts their ego. Capricorns are inherently regarded as providers of material security and shelter, so let him feel needed and feel good about himself. Let him plan. Let him pay. And then compliment him and tell him you had a great time. And then, let him tell you that he wants to take you out to dinner. Make him want you.

I trust that you will find great love. My best wishes and regards.

posted November 07, 2011 05:07 PM            

As to how long it could last, you need to look at the composite - something which I don't have time for. I see so many topics about a new love that someone has found - most by the same person, so I will not look due to the fact of many potential love interests, with the same question again and again. Not saying anything about you here.