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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 07, 2011 05:14 PM
  
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YoursTruly, what's classed as coming on too strong??
Too strong would be walking up to him and unexpectedly initiating physical action. Your behavior tells me that you wouldn't do that. Too strong would mean being possessive of him and interfering with his life before anything even begins. Again, I'm sure you wouldn't do that. Too strong essentially means wrestling control over how the relationship develops from him. As a Capricorn, he would be a bit of a control maniac and would typically revel in the planning/management aspect of the relationship as it develops. Just ooax him along and you'll do just fine. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 07, 2011 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Too strong would be walking up to him and unexpectedly initiating physical action. Your behavior tells me that you wouldn't do that.Too strong would mean being possessive of him and interfering with his life before anything even begins. Again, I'm sure you wouldn't do that. Too strong essentially means wrestling control over how the relationship develops from him. As a Capricorn, he would be a bit of a control maniac and would typically revel in the planning/management aspect of the relationship as it develops. Just ooax him along and you'll do just fine.
Thanks for this! I can't lie and tell you that I've not thought about walking up to him and initiating physical action...... but I guess I'm too controlled for that thank goodness!  IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 07, 2011 07:33 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I see there's attraction with moon hard aspect uranus, but it'll be unstable and rocky pretty soon. DOn't think it'll last long term.
Why's that? (I mean the rocky pretty soon bit) IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 07, 2011 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by Coffee:
If you want to look, have a look at the 1st (relationship) and 12th (end of) house rulers in the composite.
That would be Venus (1st) and Mars (12th)..... what would that mean? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 07, 2011 09:57 PM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
Thanks for this! I can't lie and tell you that I've not thought about walking up to him and initiating physical action...... but I guess I'm too controlled for that thank goodness!
I cannot lie. I have this temptation to walk up to every single attractive woman and go for it  Its the Capricorn in me that is far too sensible for that IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 09, 2011 12:36 AM
Yesterday didn't go well and now I can't understand what's going on.  Mintgirl, are you there? What do you mean by it will become rocky and unstable pretty soon? IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 09, 2011 01:21 PM
Question for you;
Why does this cappy flirt most happily with me when he has a bit of an audience but when its just us two he is so shy?
Could this be a leo rising thing?
He does have his moments though; this morning at work it was jsut me and him on the floor and he told me I looked so good! I smiled and said thanks, and then he asked me if I could sit facing him the whole day 
Then he sent me an instant message telling me again how good I looked today...
...But then at the end of the day when we walked out of work together, he was just making normal conversation with me. He did make me laugh though...could that be part of his plan?
Confusing :/IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 09, 2011 01:37 PM
That's his lame and corny seduction routine. Move in and ask him straight up whether there is genuine interest. Enough of the back and forth games. That's my advice. It's up to you, but I myself would give him two days. Make sure he understands that after that, you would be inclined to move on.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 09, 2011 01:40 PM
YES, he is attracted to you. There is a lot going on here. The Chiron/Jupiter is interesting. What better planet to hit Chiron than Jupiter. How does this feel?------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 09, 2011 01:43 PM
I would think the attraction would be off the charts wild. You being Jupiter to his Chiron.
Then, you have a Jupiter/NN connection. Do you feel happy with each other. Does he feel very happy and optimistic when he is with you.
This is very powerful synastry.I have not read other comments, so this is just from my own sense of it.
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Jounia
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posted November 09, 2011 04:04 PM
Ami, I'm MADLY attracted to him! The other day I had to sit right next to him on a small sofa at work and I don't know how I with-strained myself from jumping on him!! Serious chemistry. Everyone comments on how his eyes light up whenever he speaks to me. To be perfectly frank and honest, I want him in my bed and the wait is driving me insane...Yourstruly, I don't want to scare him off!! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 09, 2011 04:07 PM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
Ami, I'm MADLY attracted to him! The other day I had to sit right next to him on a small sofa at work and I don't know how I with-strained myself from jumping on him!! Serious chemistry. Everyone comments on how his eyes light up whenever he speaks to me. To be perfectly frank and honest, I want him in my bed and the wait is driving me insane...Yourstruly, I don't want to scare him off!!
If that is the way you feel, maybe the time to move in for the kill is on the horizon. Come on. The suspense is killing me lol IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 09, 2011 04:09 PM
Oh believe me - it's killing me more!!!! I'm a crab! We don't move forward like that I WISH i could. The sexual tension is seriously disruptive - it's stronger than me and I don't know how much longer I can take it!! Is he also feeling this frustrated do you think? I need him to make the move!IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 09, 2011 07:15 PM
Unfortunately, you have to prompt and urge him tomake a move. He's being very cautious, as is his nature. Perhaps its time to dress and behave a bit on the provocative side.At the end of the day, a Capricorn man is still a man. Hopefully, you can get him excited that his pants will be a little tight in front. Then everything would work like magic. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 09, 2011 07:57 PM
YoursTruly, I am provocative by nature The problem is when I am very suggestive, I feel he shys away. When I am quiet, he's suggestive. But yes, he's way too cautious. When he kissed me when we were tipsy, I said to him that something needs to be done about this because I cannot handle the sexual tension anymore. He agreed. From what I remember, we made it clear that we need to sleep together. It hasn't been discussed since.
A week later, a group of us went for drinks. We were at the bar talking, I suggested we go for a short walk (that's how the kiss happened a week before - I;d suggested a walk...). He agreed but suggested we wait a while. An hour later he'd bolted without saying bye... (he's a master at that - when it all gets too much he runs). I texted him that if he didn't want to go for a walk, he should have just told me and I would have understood. He texted back that the next walk would be twice as long....
That was a friday.
On Monday at work, I played it very cool and was pretty quiet. At the end of the day, we walked out of work together (he's asked me to wait for him) and whatever the conversation was, he threw in a sentence about me being worried that he's run away again...I sighed and said 'yes, you're getting good at that'. He then said "I know, I'm so stupid, I should have just told you that I didn't feel comfortable leaving when everyone would be watching us".... he then asked me if I would go for a drink with him sometime, to which I agreed (a week and a half has passed, he hasn't yet asked me) and said that he didn't regret the kiss and that it was intended. I really felt that he truly regretted bolting.I don't get him!! the boy is LOOOOONNGGG. Oh and he's a sag mars, not a cap mars. He's a cap mercury. I think I've made it clear I like him. 60% of the time I initiate the flirting or take it one step further than him. Surely he should lose the shyness and realise he needs to step up?! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 09, 2011 09:58 PM
I really do think the time is right for a little touching, if a kiss is not practical. Hopefully that will initiate things. I don't understand the concept of backing out and running away. That's just me. But then, you say that he's not a Capricorn Mars, and that's probably why I'm different. He's got to understand that the ship leaves the dock after a while.IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 10, 2011 02:08 AM
What kind of touching? I don't know if I'll be able to control myself remember, we're at work...IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 14, 2011 03:42 PM
ok so here's an update;Last week when leaving work i was in the lobby talking to someone just before i left. Cappy was leaving too, chatting on his cell. When he saw me, he stopped heading for the door and started pacing up and down passed me whilst frantically trying to wrap up his conversation. When he finished, he said to me, come on, we're going! I followed like a puppy. We ended up walking around, visited a few shops, all of which was his idea. He asked me to link arms with him too so we were walking arm in arm he was just making jokes the whole time. after about an hour and a half, we said goodbye and went our seperate ways. No kissing or flirting this time
Today at work he started instant messaging me, making up random excuses to start conversations. He wrote that he likes me very much today.... I was like why? He said 'just because' and wouldn't elaborate. Then he proceeded to thank me for accompanying him the other night and for putting up with him and his jokes. 30 mins before we were due to finish he asked me to wait for him after work so we could walk out together. Again, no flirting happened, nothing.
Is it me or is he strange?! Are you guys sure he is still attracted to me?
On one side it seems like he is, or at least it looks like he enjoys my company, but on the other side, why is he soooooooo slow? Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 14, 2011 03:45 PM
He is weird and his a$$ needs some kicking. That's my honest assessment He needs a dose of good old Capricorn medicine. Don't freaking waste my time because you are an indecisive moron. Make up your freaking mind or its hit the road, Jack! This Capricorn always pounces on opportunities and never lets them slip by. The opportunities have been so evident that they can just smack him in the face! What is wrong with this guy!!! IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 14, 2011 03:49 PM
You tell me!!!! I've got no idea. My other cappy mate (guy) can't work him out either! What is holding this guy back?!! Sooooooooooooooooooo frustrating ahhhhh!! PS - yourstruly, I like you IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 14, 2011 05:17 PM
Thank you. . Unfortunately, not many are endeared to my forthrightness.  IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 14, 2011 05:59 PM
Well I would like it, and obviously so does your wife seeing that she married you within 22 days I'll update again tomorrow. Until then, if anyone has any ideas as to what his problem is please do tell Could it be his wishy washy pisces moon playing with his mind? IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 16, 2011 06:52 PM
Nothing much going on. He keeps on making excuses to approach my desk or ask my something or talk to me. He even asked me to fix his chair.. lol Can someone take a look at out composite and tell me anything from it please (eg how hot the sex will be ) ? Thank you all kindly  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 16, 2011 07:38 PM
I can only copy verbatim and not really analyze, so please bear with me.Sun in the Sixth House Before you freak out, let me say that my wife and I have our joint Sun in Sixth, so take it for what its worth. The sixth house is one of the more difficult positions for a composite Sun, because it is inherently a house of inequality. In most relationships there must be some balance between taking and giving. But in a relationship with a sixth-house Sun, one partner gives and the other takes. The great danger of this position is that one of you is likely to feel taken advantage of by the other. Perhaps the best way to deal with the problem may be by going into such a relationship in a spirit of service and help for your partner, with as little thought for yourself as possible. Another way of dealing with this position would be to have a common task or goal that you can work toward together.
Venus in the Twelfth House
Composite Venus is one of the least difficult planets to have in the twelfth house. This placement signifies that while you may have strong feelings of affection for each other, you may not be demonstrative about them. Other people may not even be aware of how you feel about each other. The twelfth-house Venus can be a sign of a secret relationship. Your relationship may be influenced to a considerable degree by unconscious factors in both of you. It may be difficult to understand the dynamics of this relationship. This can be either good or bad, of course, depending on what you do. In any case, you should try to understand what lies behind your relationship. On the clearly positive side, this placement can help both of you overcome your ego-drives within the relationship. You are able to think of yourselves as a unit and to subordinate your personal interests to your interests as a couple.
Moon in a partner’s eighth house:
When your Moon is in your romantic partner’s eighth house, you become emotionally bonded. Your relationship increases your partner’s responsiveness and desire for sexuality, personal intimacy, and deep emotional understanding. he or she will instinctively be drawn to share and uncover secrets and explore the hidden workings behind mysteries. When your relationship partner’s Moon is in your eighth house, you may find yourself delving deep into his or her psyche in order to assist your partner to understand and transform his or her values, priorities and financial concerns. You will love or hate with full intensity of emotions, being the closest lovers or the worst ex-partners.
Mars in a partner's seventh house:
When your Mars is in your romantic partner’s seventh house, you find yourself naturally trying to take charge of the relationship. Your partner tends to put you first, but you both can be more combative and competitive with each other than you are normally. When your relationship partner’s Mars is in your seventh house, you partner’s aggressive tendencies can be both stimulating or inhibiting, depending upon your willingness to argue and stand up for your rights in the relationship. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 19, 2011 07:14 AM
Thank you for that Cappy is still making any excuse to come and talk to me. It's really quite cute Yesterday he asked me if we will go for a drink next week. I said yes, if he lets me know which day... he said he'll let me know on Monday. We'll see. Somehow I doubt we will go out for a drink next week.... My other cappy male friend said that my cappy is infatuated with me lol WHAT IS HE WAITING FOR?!!! IP: Logged |
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