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Topic: Is there an attraction?
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Jounia
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posted July 20, 2011 03:37 PM
  
What can you tell me about this 'relationship'? I'm attracted to this Capricorn man (yet another Aqua-venus attracts me  ). Could he be attracted to me? If so, why? If not, why? is he long term relationship material? Is he likely to cheat/stray? MY friends says I intrigue him...is that shown anyway in our charts?
Please advise! 
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Jounia
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posted July 25, 2011 03:07 PM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted July 26, 2011 01:47 AM
Can i have the birthdates pretty please? I'll try to help. I know how it feels asking a question like this and nobody seems to notice.IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 26, 2011 02:55 AM
thanks him, 25th December 1976
me - 30th June 1982 - do you need anything else?IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
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posted July 26, 2011 08:30 AM
Do you have a picture? Post it and I will tell you why he is attracted to youIP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted July 26, 2011 11:21 AM
I don't know who is on the inside and who is on the outside, but Moon conjunct Uranus does lead to attraction... sometimes it ends just as quickly as it begins, although that depends on overall synastry...
Moon Trine nodes of Moon is a good thing- an intimate, relationship 'i know you' placement in synastry.
Not a lot of negative Saturn contacts.. there's a sextile from Mercury to Saturn...
oooh
Mars/PLuto.... pure sex/aggression- you'll want to get horizontal, probably quickly. Saturn/PLuto conjunct - a sort of lesson in deep relationships- it's a karmic contact.In this chart overlay, the inside's DC is conjunct the Asc of the outside person's.. angles like that are good- there tends to be attraction, as house overlays are similar in your sense of self and sense of relationships.. it's a sort of inner thing....plus, Venus is nestled there in that person's first house. Which equals attraction... they 'see' you, in your love/pleasure zone.
Moon square Venus may not see eye to eye on social/emotional matters. They might bug each other sometimes....but they are positive planets, so it won't be a big deal.
Sun trine Moon=awesome.. that's an important synastry contact. Friends, for sure. Something more? Probably.
Sun opposite Sun?
Sounds like attraction right there... you see something in the other that you both understand and don't understand. Like they can 'complete' or understand you better than most. That's my quick assessment. Looks like a good overall synastry. The rest is up to you and fate. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 26, 2011 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
Do you have a picture? Post it and I will tell you why he is attracted to you
haha I have actually already posted a pic of myself on the forum to do with looking like your ascendant so I guess you missed that one Never mind.... PixelPixie - thank you so much for taking the time to write that and for explaining things so well I would love it if you would do the same for this chart (if you wouldn't mind?)... Ps - I'm on the outside in both of the charts.  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted July 26, 2011 11:16 PM
Sure, I'll take a peek, thanks for asking.OK...wow, this is an active chart.
whether this is a love relationship or a friend one, you certainly 'see' each other. Speaking of 'seeing'.. your Sun is on his ascendant- and True Node... both these things are very familiar and attractive. His Mars in your fifth house ( barely) but still- sexual attraction is usually indicated. Moon and Chiron... you might have an emotional 'lesson' to teach him... and it's in his twelfth house...he may not realize this...or he might treat you like an addiction- something he just feels comfortable with- plus, it's in your fourth house- speaking of comfort, his emotions feel like home to you... You might not always speak the same language- Sun square Mercury...you annoy each other sometimes. But his Venus and Mercury are in your first house. So again- a great feeling of familiarity in social styles... when you're not annoying each other ( For fun? Taken too far?) you really get on. His Neptune is in your eleventh house- you definitely have fun in the same social realm together, be careful with 'too much fun'...in terms of trying new things or bingeing..your moon conjunct his Uranus- attraction for sure. Sudden yes, and addictive? Yes. Plus it's in his fifth house. Meow. Oh my goodness.... Pluto conjunct Mars is pretty sexually charged- esp in the fifth house.
I am going on the assumption as I read these charts that it is a relationship/love synastry- if it were a sibling one, for instance, Mars conjunct Pluto would mean more along the lines of aggression and life altering karma.
Moon conjunct Nodes- again, that's a lovely sweet feeling. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 27, 2011 04:13 PM
Pixelpixie, once again thank you so much I have a couple of questions so I'll write again in a moment....IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 27, 2011 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by pixelpixie:
I don't know who is on the inside and who
oooh
Mars/PLuto.... pure sex/aggression- you'll want to get horizontal, probably quickly. Saturn/PLuto conjunct - a sort of lesson in deep relationships- it's a karmic contact.
Ok so this is a question from the 1st chart - cappy and me I'm on the outside of the chart - does that mean that only I will feel that way? or will he feel that too? (by the way it's spot on ) How would you expect this guy to act if he likes me? Now me and Pisces (again I'm on the outside)... quote:
Originally posted by pixelpixie:
You might not always speak the same language- Sun square Mercury...you annoy each other sometimes.
Yep I feel that He annoys me more than me him
quote:
Originally posted by pixelpixie:
[B] your moon conjunct his Uranus- attraction for sure. Sudden yes, and addictive? Yes. Plus it's in his fifth house. Meow. Oh my goodness.... Pluto conjunct Mars is pretty sexually charged- esp in the fifth house.
[B]
Yep - it was a sudden attraction and for me it's very addictive. Does he feel that? There is enormous sexual energy between us everytime we see each other we really feel it IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 27, 2011 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by pixelpixie:
[b]I don't know who is on the inside and who
oooh
Mars/PLuto.... pure sex/aggression- you'll want to get horizontal, probably quickly. Saturn/PLuto conjunct - a sort of lesson in deep relationships- it's a karmic contact.
Ok so this is a question from the 1st chart - cappy and me I'm on the outside of the chart - does that mean that only I will feel that way? or will he feel that too? (by the way it's spot on ) How would you expect this guy to act if he likes me? Now me and Pisces (again I'm on the outside)... quote:
Originally posted by pixelpixie:
You might not always speak the same language- Sun square Mercury...you annoy each other sometimes.
Yep I feel that He annoys me more than me him
quote:
Originally posted by pixelpixie:
your moon conjunct his Uranus- attraction for sure. Sudden yes, and addictive? Yes. Plus it's in his fifth house. Meow. Oh my goodness.... Pluto conjunct Mars is pretty sexually charged- esp in the fifth house.
Yep - it was a sudden attraction and for me it's very addictive. Does he feel that? There is enormous sexual energy between us everytime we see each other we really feel it
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Betty Boop
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posted July 27, 2011 10:10 PM
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Could he be attracted to me?
I think this is obvious to both of you.
Are you genuinely in doubt?
I mean it's a very sexual synastry! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted July 27, 2011 10:12 PM
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Does he feel that?
How can you not know that he feels that? You're a Cancer woman.
Are you second guessing yourself? Please don't do that. Go with your intuition ^. I'm sure he has made it obvious in some way. Mars/Pluto conj is a very intense aspect! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted July 27, 2011 10:15 PM
This looks like it's going to be a short relationship or fling, seeing that you have moon conjunct uranus and moon opp uranus lol.IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 28, 2011 07:57 AM
Ok. So if I'm honest, I know with Pisces there is a strong sexual attraction. But in my opinion, if you're interested, you keep in touch. He is rubbish at keeping in touch...
With Capricorn, i also feel a huge sexual attraction. We are work colleagues and he does flirt, but he is very controlled...and he's not direct. If he likes me why doesnt he just say it directly? Then he says things that make me doubt that he is attracted to me. Like yesterday at work he says to me "i need an assistant" so i say "i'll help you" so he says " oh if we were to work together we wouldnt get anything done " now i took that as firting meaning that we'd be busy doing other things...  so i asked him "what do you mean by that?" And he says "i dont know what im saying...im just talking" so i said "and there is nothing behind that comment?" And he said no.
So you see, i feel that they like me but they are both rubbish about doing anything about it. With cappy, should i be direct?
I do have great intuition but i also need steady confimation - i always wonder if what i see is the same as what they see...
As for a short fling - thats fine IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted July 28, 2011 08:18 AM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
Ok. So if I'm honest, I know with Pisces there is a strong sexual attraction. But in my opinion, if you're interested, you keep in touch. He is rubbish at keeping in touch...
With Capricorn, i also feel a huge sexual attraction. We are work colleagues and he does flirt, but he is very controlled...and he's not direct. If he likes me why doesnt he just say it directly? Then he says things that make me doubt that he is attracted to me. Like yesterday at work he says to me "i need an assistant" so i say "i'll help you" so he says " oh if we were to work together we wouldnt get anything done " now i took that as firting meaning that we'd be busy doing other things... so i asked him "what do you mean by that?" And he says "i dont know what im saying...im just talking" so i said "and there is nothing behind that comment?" And he said no.
So you see, i feel that they like me but they are both rubbish about doing anything about it. With cappy, should i be direct?
I do have great intuition but i also need steady confimation - i always wonder if what i see is the same as what they see...
As for a short fling - thats fine
Seriously, do you really expect him to have spelled it out? That's just a turn-off, if someone can't take a bit of innuendo and run with it. And I'm capricorn....He was flirting, but your digging basically turned it into the discussion of a tax statement.
I also wouldnt have 'explained' to you what I meant, no matter how much attraction there may be. Go with the flow and listen to your intuition!!
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Jounia
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posted July 28, 2011 08:39 AM
Thanks Annaf IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted July 28, 2011 10:39 AM
Yeah, he was definitely flirting! He's not going to say " Well, I mean we wouldn't get any work done because we'd be too busy A)flirting or
B) getting horizontal"That's too risky to outright say... I don't know a lot of people who would confidently say something bold like that- esp if you work together.. he's feeling it out.
I say Make a move....or if not a move, reciprocate when you know one's being made. Throw him a bone. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 28, 2011 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by annaf:
Seriously, do you really expect him to have spelled it out? That's just a turn-off, if someone can't take a bit of innuendo and run with it. And I'm capricorn....He was flirting, but your digging basically turned it into the discussion of a tax statement.
I also wouldnt have 'explained' to you what I meant, no matter how much attraction there may be. Go with the flow and listen to your intuition!!
Going back to this statement..... I don't know what's wrong with me. You're right annaf, I should have just 'run' with it  That's how I've always flirted. I don't know what's changed Suddenly I'm desperatly impatient and I feel mentally tired of games and just want them to be direct. I used to love the chase, now, if it doesn't move fast enough for me, I'm getting bored or frustrated. Wierd. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 28, 2011 02:53 PM
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Originally posted by pixelpixie:
Yeah, he was definitely flirting! He's not going to say " Well, I mean we wouldn't get any work done because we'd be too busy A)flirting or
B) getting horizontal"That's too risky to outright say... I don't know a lot of people who would confidently say something bold like that- esp if you work together.. he's feeling it out.
I say Make a move....or if not a move, reciprocate when you know one's being made. Throw him a bone.
I'm too shy lol I moan when they're not direct but I'm not direct either I'm a crab....we move sideways I want to make a move to get things moving but I don't think I have the guts IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted July 29, 2011 01:58 PM
Ok so with cappy today I flirted but I didn't ask him anything outright.We were instant messaging each other (we sit like a metre away lol but obviously we cannot talk openly in front of others) so he started but sending a message "talk to me" i said "ok, how was your evening yesterday?" he said "no, you tell me about you" so i said "ok lets comprimise, you pick a letter of the alphabet and I'll start a topic beginning with that letter" so he wrote "z" I gave an answer, and he picked another 'z'. I told him I was bored so he said "ok, tell me about something exciting beginning with s"
The problem is, he keeps saying over and over that he is shy. Folks - is he really shy? Does his chart show it? Is he likely to ever make the first move? Help! IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted October 30, 2011 06:22 AM
he kissed me IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted October 30, 2011 07:38 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Jounia:
Ok. So if I'm honest, I know with Pisces there is a strong sexual attraction. But in my opinion, if you're interested, you keep in touch. He is rubbish at keeping in touch...
With Capricorn, i also feel a huge sexual attraction. We are work colleagues and he does flirt, but he is very controlled...and he's not direct. If he likes me why doesnt he just say it directly? Then he says things that make me doubt that he is attracted to me. Like yesterday at work he says to me "i need an assistant" so i say "i'll help you" so he says " oh if we were to work together we wouldnt get anything done " now i took that as firting meaning that we'd be busy doing other things... so i asked him "what do you mean by that?" And he says "i dont know what im saying...im just talking" so i said "and there is nothing behind that comment?" And he said no.
So you see, i feel that they like me but they are both rubbish about doing anything about it. With cappy, should i be direct?
I do have great intuition but i also need steady confimation - i always wonder if what i see is the same as what they see...
As for a short fling - thats fine
He doesn't want to get fired for sexual harassment but obviously he likes you. Invite him for lunch. That would be a good start. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted October 30, 2011 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
he kissed me
OK, now THAT's a good start! IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted October 30, 2011 08:26 AM
I can't invite him for lunch!!!!! I'm way too shy! There are things with him that I just don't do, but I don't have a problem doing them with everyone else for example hugging. I hug lots of guys. Cappy sees that. He also hugs some of his colleagues and even pecks them on the cheek. We however do not hug. I believe that we both feel that it's a dangerous move...that there is a very thin line stopping us from grabbing each other.
Do you think that with him I should act more cool and aloof? does he prefer to do the chasing?IP: Logged |
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