posted July 28, 2011 06:16 AM            

This is past just being sheltered. She's prob been abused and is clinging to what she wants but couldn't have...IF this isn't some prank like others mentioned.

"Also, she got a sunburn and today she laid on the bed and began crying like she was going to die because of it. Like literally die because of the sun burn."
---RED flag, run run away. Unless you like drama.

"Like I just tried to chat with her and shes like, "Well, I got to go to bed bro, later". Like she is blowing me off or something but earlier today she was REALLY into me. haha. It is confusing."
---Aquarius.

"I asked her again if I could come see her and this time she was like, "NO, I TOLD YOU THAT YOU CAN'T SEE ME, YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE ME CRY"."
---Just...WTF. If I were a guy, first of all I wouldn't date a stranger off of FB, but besides that, I wouldn't need some girl crying at me all the time. Can't you find anyone more suitable?

And what if she's lying about her age and she's trying to trap you into one of those Internet Predator schemes? like this, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/To_Catch_a_Predator . Can you inspect the drivers license or something?? If you go meet her again, don't take her in your car, I'd just meet at a neutral place, not even her house, until you're certain of her age. But either way this one sounds like a gamble.
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posted July 28, 2011 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
So then how did you see her unsupervised?

Im telling you it doesnt make sense to me... Sounds like a set up..

Go through your FB messages did she send you a message first?

check her FB friends out, or are you the only friend? Or only 1 or 2 friends..

I personally would be suspicious. I cant say its the case... But For me it just doesnt fit.. But again I dont know the whole story either..
I say trust your first impression. Trust your instincts.

Betty does she have anything in her chart showing growing up sheltered?

Do they have hard Neptune aspects? Synastry/Composite.

HEY!!!! you should ask a hoary question about her!

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When I went over to her parents house. Her dad was in the other room. The first day, we stayed in the living room. Then when I came back to visit, eventually we started going to her bedroom.

I am almost completely certain that I added her to my face book account.

No, she has lots of "friends", added to her account.

posted July 28, 2011 07:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
She sounds like she has serious attachment issues. She should've grown out of all that by now.

This is past just being sheltered. She's prob been abused and is clinging to what she wants but couldn't have...IF this isn't some prank like others mentioned.

"Also, she got a sunburn and today she laid on the bed and began crying like she was going to die because of it. Like literally die because of the sun burn."
---RED flag, run run away. Unless you like drama.

"Like I just tried to chat with her and shes like, "Well, I got to go to bed bro, later". Like she is blowing me off or something but earlier today she was REALLY into me. haha. It is confusing."
---Aquarius.

"I asked her again if I could come see her and this time she was like, "NO, I TOLD YOU THAT YOU CAN'T SEE ME, YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE ME CRY"."
---Just...WTF. If I were a guy, first of all I wouldn't date a stranger off of FB, but besides that, I wouldn't need some girl crying at me all the time. Can't you find anyone more suitable?

[b]And what if she's lying about her age and she's trying to trap you into one of those Internet Predator schemes? like this, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/To_Catch_a_Predator . Can you inspect the drivers license or something?? If you go meet her again, don't take her in your car, I'd just meet at a neutral place, not even her house, until you're certain of her age. But either way this one sounds like a gamble.
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BB,
Do you think it's funny that the dispositor of the Aqua conj is Uranus in Cap opp Jupiter?? [/B]

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Wow. Okay, whoa. First of all, Yes she is 21. My niece who is 20 went to school with her.

We aren't "dating". We are just friends, who get a little physical. What am I supposed to do be an arrogant dick and leave her like everyone else has just because she is different? Sure you can say it is emotionally instability but she told me that people have always been d icks to her. Should I join the crowd and say, "oh the hell with her, she isn't stable enough"?

posted July 28, 2011 08:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
She sounds like she has serious attachment issues. She should've grown out of all that by now.

This is past just being sheltered. She's prob been abused and is clinging to what she wants but couldn't have...IF this isn't some prank like others mentioned.

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Lonake, this possibility is exactly what went through my mind as well.

The fact that Pisces Girl's parents don't even let her have FRIENDS over unsupervised, per the OP, is a red flag about her family situation. If her parents had strict rules about her interaction with boys/men, I could sort of understand that (maybe a religious or cultural issue). But if her parents keep her isolated from even same-gender friendships, that's incredibly controlling. I don't know if it's full-out abuse, but at the very least it's unhealthy.

Should AstrologicalMan dump her flat because of this? Nah, I'm not going that far. But in addition to astrological undercurrents, you might want to pay attention to the psychological undercurrents in her household.

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I went through her face book page and she has a hard time making friends due to her personality being very child like. I admire this though. She seems to really care about people and she reaches out to others but not many people respond to that. Shes different but that is good to me.

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She is probably childlike because that is the behavior her parents reward her for. She has probably learned over time that attempting adult relationships earns their disapproval.

I'm sure she is a nice person, and her "childlike" behavior is probably real. Just be sensitive to where this behavior is coming from. It's human nature to repeat patterns in your relationships... the fact that you like and appreciate her childlike persona may mean that she is subconsciously transferring the relationship with her parents onto you.

posted July 28, 2011 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
is she like the female version of the fat dude in the hangover movies?

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posted July 28, 2011 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
When I went over to her parents house. Her dad was in the other room. The first day, we stayed in the living room. Then when I came back to visit, eventually we started going to her bedroom.

I am almost completely certain that I added her to my face book account.

No, she has lots of "friends", added to her account.

I just feel that she has lived a very sheltered life. She doesn't leave her house much due to being afraid of large crowds and such. Shes very eccentric but like I said, I almost noticed a lady gaga esque quality about it. Her facial expression and the way she talks really reminds me of lady gaga. Like she is in her own world. I went through her face book page and she has a hard time making friends due to her personality being very child like. I admire this though. She seems to really care about people and she reaches out to others but not many people respond to that. Shes different but that is good to me.

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Thats BS! Come one.. Think about it.. Her parents are super strict, she cant really have friends.. but all of a sudden, they leave her alone with a boy she just met (AND off the internet) Her strict parents "LET" you come over and then go to her room??? Thats not what SUPER strict parents do...
Im telling ya, something isnt right here.. Shes afraid of a duck, but she's not afraid to met a strange man from the net????

My gut says's she's not being honest about some things...

posted July 28, 2011 08:28 PM            

But I don't really care.

Does it matter?

posted July 28, 2011 08:36 PM            

Or they are playing the lets get him whipped and then dog him....

I think someone put her up to this..

First no no no I can never met you, because my parents are strict (wasnt planning on meeting) but changed their mind..
Thought of a another plan.. So Lets meet NOW...

She's for sure playing the innocent card..

I could so do it, I could mend myself into being anything (the pisces asc) plus my leo would like it.. lol

posted July 28, 2011 08:48 PM            

My closest female friend is a Pisces with Pisces Mercury and she has lied to a Scorpio male friend of mine about being a virgin. She somehow got the vibe that he would want to hear this and got me to go along with it. She thought he would give her more attention.

She has a different chart to this girl though. She has Venus/Mars conjunct as well, but in Aries.

posted July 28, 2011 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
is she like the female version of the fat dude in the hangover movies?

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But if she is playing the inocent card then she reminds me of the red headed girl from wedding crashers.

posted July 28, 2011 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I wouldn't jump to that conclusion lol Lioness.. Why are you putting a negative spin on it?
I mean anything could be the case.. but - judging by her chart she seems so serious/depressive.. not the 'prankster' type really..

My closest female friend is a Pisces with Pisces Mercury and she has lied to a Scorpio male friend of mine about being a virgin. She somehow got the vibe that he would want to hear this and got me to go along with it. She thought he would give her more attention.

She has a different chart to this girl though. She has Venus/Mars conjunct as well, but in Aries.

I would say the exaggerations and fibbing is a Pisces Mercury thing (coupled with her Sun).
I think it's harmless.. but I'm biased, since I also have a Pisces Mercury LOL

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Oo Im freaking suspicious! lol maybe its my pluto in H7...
It doesnt make sense to me... Plus "WHY" is she lying..
I know alot of pisces people... damn let me say they (of course me excluded.. lol) do some crazy things like that..
Only they never tell anyone... But my Pisces friends have their Pisces Planets fall into my 12th.. So they tell me all their secrets... lol

Im not for sure saying thats what she is doing, but I would give it some serious consideration... Of course Idk the whole story, but from what he's written.. IT just screams SET UP to me...

If see's pretending to be this innocent girl.. and she's not, she has a reason behind it... Theres a difference with hey Im shy and havent done much.. verses running from a duck and saying I'm crying over everything.. yada yada yada.

One of my BF is a pisces female with Aries Venus, Leo Moon, Cap Mars, Merc Pisces..

The stuff she comes up with... LOL...

posted July 28, 2011 09:21 PM            

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Lonake - wow I didn't pick up on that. So, the dispositor is in Cap and opp Jupiter in Cancer, which brings her parents into her sex life in some odd twisted way. Maybe they are too involved or they are very strict and traditional in terms of morals/religious values (coming from Jupiter in Cancer?)

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posted July 28, 2011 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I was born in April 1990. So I have almost all the same stuff
except for the Sun, Mercury, and Venus.

I use to be inocent. I was sheltered for a few years but in my late teens I told my mom to back off. I only met a dude online once and met him in a public place, and he was an a**hole. That didn't even last a week.

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posted July 28, 2011 10:27 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
is she like the female version of the fat dude in the hangover movies?

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